DVD: “Magic Mike XXL,” “The Avengers: Age Of Ultron,” “I Am The Queen,” & More!

DVD: “Magic Mike XXL,” “The Avengers: Age Of Ultron,” “I Am The Queen,” & More!

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Heroes and hotties are the theme of this week’s home entertainment releases.

From Marvel’s best coming together in Avengers: Age of Ultron (above) to Channing Tatum returning (without much clothing) to his stripper franchise Magic Mike XXL to a French magistrate’s attempt to stop a 1970s Marseilles drug smuggling operation in The Connection to brave Puerto Rican drag queens prepping for a Chicago pageant in I Am The Queen.

Scroll for the details and let us know what you think of these picks — and anything else you love this week!

 

Magic Mike XXL

($44.99 Blu-ray, $28.99 DVD; Warner)

Channing Tatum‘s retired stripper, Mike Lane, is lured back into the world of erotic showmanship for “one more gig” at a convention. While Matthew McConaughey doesn’t reprise his role in this one, nor are there any openly gay leading characters (come on, boys!!!), Matt Bomer, Joe Manganiello, Donald Glover and Jada Pinkett Smith are part of the road movie-style fun. Extras include an extended dance scene and featurettes.

 

The Connection

($29.93 Blu-ray, $24.99 DVD; Drafthouse Films)

Another take on the same events that inspired William Friedkin’s 1970s classic thriller about New York cops assigned to a French drug-running operation, The French Connection, this brand new yet totally 70s-styled feature follows French magistrate Pierre Michel (Oscar-winner Jean Dujardin) as he attempts to shut down a massive Marseilles-USA drug smuggling operation and its clever, slippery kingpin. Sounds like a double feature night to us! Extras include a making-of featurette and deleted scenes.

 

Avengers: Age Of Ultron

($39.98 3D Blu-ray, $32.99 Blu-ray, $29.99 DVD; Disney)

The Avengers assemble yet again to combat Ultron, a diabolical robot determined to eliminate humanity from the face of the earth. Nerdgasms abound compliments writer/director Joss Whedon, who brings epic battles, comedic exchanges, and Marvel character favorites to the screen with character development and intimacy to boot. The extras’ gag reel alone is worth picking this up for, while other goodies include deleted and extended scenes, several featurettes, and a Whedon commentary track.

 

I Am The Queen

($19.99 DVD; Cinema Libre)

Several members of Chicago’s Puerto Rican transgender community prepare for the Vida/SIDA Cacica Pageant and share their life experiences in this enlightening documentary by directors Josue Pellot and Henrique Cirne Lima. The contestants include 20-year-old Julissa, 19-year-old Jolizza (whose mother, a transphobic lesbian, kicked her out of the house while still in high school), and teenaged Bianca, while much is learned from pageant emcee and the girls’ mentor, Ginger Valdez. Who wins the pageant? Only one way to know, but in the end, one hopes that all of these girls find their prizes in life.

 

ALSO OUT:

zipperZipper

Insidious 3

Manglehorn

Me And Earl And The Dying Girl

Batkid Begins

Escobar: Paradise Lost

When Marnie Was There

American Horror Story: Freak Show

10,000 Saints

 

Lawrence Ferber

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Gay engineers cautioned to do their research if working abroad

Gay engineers cautioned to do their research if working abroad

Are you LGBTI and working in engineering? InterEngineering, a UK-based LGBT network group launched last year, could be a vital source of support and information.

Gay Star Business attended its most recent event in London, which took place at the offices of BuroHappold. It included a group discussion on the workplaces experiences of LGBT engineers both home and abroad.

The discussion was hosted by Dr. Mark McBride-Wright, Chair of InterEngineering.

Speakers included: Grant Hayden, an electrical engineer with BP since 2002; John Bradbury, a Process Engineer who previously worked with Aurecon Australasia before a recent relocation to Bristol; and Hayley Barnden, a Safety Engineer with Defense Equipment and Support (DE&S) – part of the UK’s Ministry of Defense.

As a sector, engineering has lagged behind the financial and legal industries when it comes to embracing the diversity and inclusion of its workforce.

Only this week, Naomi Climer, the first female president of the Institute of Engineering and Technology called for quotas to be introduced to boost the numbers of female engineers in the UK.

Figures do not exist for the numbers of LGBTI individuals in engineering, but firms that employ a great number of engineers have traditionally been slow to embrace such initiatives as the Stonewall Workplace Equality Index. The only ones to feature on the 2015 index are BP, EDF Energy and the armed forces.

The formation of InterEngineering, which was launched to ‘connect, inform and empower LGBT engineers and their allies’, shows that things are slowly changing.

The InterEngineering event at BuroHappold

The InterEngineering event at BuroHappold

The BuroHappold discussion, which took place 23 September, illustrated that there is still some way to go – particularly for engineers who find themselves working abroad.

Hayden, who has worked extensively in Asia and Africa, said that he had no regrets about his various stints in other countries and whole-heartedly recommended that others explore such opportunities.

‘You get to experience a different culture, expand your network, it opens all kind of doors. I’m a big fan of working overseas.’

However, he struck a note of caution when it comes to joint venture enterprises, pointing out that although many global firms now have diversity and inclusion policies these can mean little when they have to go into partnership with other companies that lack such policies.

For example, many firms engaged in projects in the Middle East or Africa may have to work in tandem with local companies – organizations that will not respect LGBT staff.

Hayden grew up in Tasmania, which he said was not a progressive environment. He decided to keep quiet about his sexuality for the earlier part of his career, which included time in Singapore and Angola. However, he relocated to London in 2005 and decided to come out at the age of 33.

He said that BP was supportive, but he was aware that he had to be more careful when working overseas – a point brought home to him when he was sent to Algeria for a project.

His company was engaged in a joint venture with a local company. Three days after joining the project, the other company requested that Hayden leave when they discovered that he was gay. As the Algerian company concerned had the majority sway over decisions, Hayden’s employer found itself in a difficult position.

‘Do your research in that instance to avoid that sort of situation,’ he cautioned the 50 or so attendees at the event.

Hayden ended up being put on extended gardening leave while his employer tried to remedy the situation, but ended up returning to London – his stint in Algeria coming to an abrupt end.

‘It’s not somewhere I’d wish to return.’

‘Be honest with HR,’ he further advised. ‘If you work for a UK company, you should be entitled to the same workplace protection wherever you are in the world. Be honest, because if it gets complicated you might need support.

‘Be sensible. Consider the culture [when working abroad] … Don’t break the law. The private sector doesn’t want to damage their relationship with the host country.’

Barnden, who was the youngest member of the panel, said that she had not yet had the chance to work abroad, but was aware of issues in some countries – not only towards LGBTI staff but also to women. Indeed, ‘Some host countries won’t work with women engineers.’

Barnden said that she believed that the public sector was probably ahead of the private sector in the UK when it came to engineering and anti-discrimination policies – partly because of the Equality Act. At the same time, adhering to ‘best practice’ has become increasingly important to private sector employers.

Barnden said that she could name no female chief engineers, ‘let alone lesbians’ – something that had made her sometimes doubt the career path she had taken. However, initiating her employer’s LGBT network had boosted her confidence and she had received the full support of her colleagues.

‘Running the network has impressed other people,’ she said. ‘[They] could see the benefits to my development – my communication and leadership skills. I’m seen as someone pushing themselves to develop. Engineers are often praised for their technical skills but not so much for their soft skills.’

All three spoke of the benefits of joining LGBT networks, and recruiting straight allies to the cause. Bradbury spoke about coming out at work, saying, ‘It’s not about being LGBT as much as being authentic and true to yourself.’

‘The panel provided a real insight into the key challenges facing LGBT engineers,’ said InterEngineering’s McBride-Wright to Gay Star Business afterwards.

‘We covered working overseas, setting up LGBT networks and the differences working in the private vs. public sector. It was an engaging discussion and really showcased the need for LGBT engineers to come together on these issues.

‘I’m looking forward to growing our membership to connect, inform and empower more LGBT engineers, and to advance our mission to improve the culture within engineering.’

InterEngineering’s next event will be the launch of a South West chapter. It will take place on 14 October in Bristol. For more information about this, and other events, check www.interengineeringlgbt.com

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10 Promises Hillary Clinton Just Made to LGBT Americans

10 Promises Hillary Clinton Just Made to LGBT Americans

If Hillary Clinton is elected president, she’ll have a number of promises to keep to LGBT voters, thanks to a lengthy agenda of protections she pledged to push for in a major speech this weekend.

Speaking to the Human Rights Campaign in Washington, D.C., on Saturday, the Democratic presidential front-runner foresaw a seismic shift in the way LGBT people are treated not only in the U.S. but also around the world. 

It’s worth noting that Clinton’s aggressively pro-LGBT plans are a contrast to the tepidly tolerant version of Clinton portrayed in a harsh email that recently caused backlash for her campaign. Among the emails released from her time leading the State Department is Clinton castigating employees for wanting to accommodate same-sex parents on passport forms by changing nomenclature to “Parent One” and “Parent Two” instead of “Mother” and “Father.” 

But judging by Clinton’s Saturday speech before HRC volunteers — where she was warmly welcomed and cracked a joke about being proud to share her initials with the nation’s largest LGBT lobbying group — a new Clinton White House could make historic gains. 

Here, in the order she listed them, are the promises Clinton made about her potential administration’s pro-LGBT agenda, followed by the context she gave when making the promises. Clinton started off broad, pledging that as president, she would:

1. End injustice against LGBT Americans “once and for all.”

“You know the obstacles that remain better than I do, but I want you to know that I get it. I see the injustices and the dangers that you and and your families still face, and I’m running for president to end them once and for all.

“I talk about my campaign as being about improving the economy, so everyone who works hard to do his or her part to get ahead can stay ahead, but I also talk about enforcing our basic civil and human rights. I’m running for president to stand up for the fundamental rights of LGBT Americans, and all Americans. That’s a promise from one HRC to another.”

2. Advocate for and sign the federal Equality Act into law.

“It’s outrageous that in 2015, you can still be fired for being gay, you can still lose your home for being gay, you can even be denied a wedding cake for being gay. And this kind of discrimination goes against everything we stand for as Americans. Congress must pass the federal Equality Act, and that law would finally outlaw discrimination against LGBT people, basically everywhere: in employment, housing, public education, public accommodations, access to federal funding, and in the jury system. It’s a great, noble piece of legislation that deserves to become the law of the land. As president, I will fight for it, and I hope many of you will be with me when I sign it into law.” 

3. Cap out-of-pocket expenses for people living with chronic illnesses, including HIV and AIDS. 

“You may have read recently about a drug, that’s been around for decades, that went from $13.50 per pill to $750 per pill literally overnight; a 5,000 percent increase. What is not talked about enough is that medication is one that many HIV-positive patients rely on every day. Now with pressure from me and others, the CEO of the drug company says he’ll lower the price, but he hasn’t done it yet, and every day that he stalls, people with HIV are forced to worry and wait, and pay hundreds of dollars more, for medication that keeps them well. That is wrong, and as president, I’ll take on the drug companies, I’ll cap out-of-pocket expenses for people with chronic diseases like HIV/AIDS.” 

4. Upgrade the discharges of all LGB veterans dismissed under “don’t ask, don’t tell” (which her husband signed into law in 1993) and the earlier military ban on homosexuality.

“‘Don’t ask, don’t tell’ is over, but that doesn’t change the fact that over 14,000 men and women were forced out of the military for being gay; some long before ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ even existed. Many were given less than honorable discharges. I can’t think of a better way to thank those men and women for their service than by upgrading their service records and making sure they get the honorable discharge they deserve.” 

5. Support the Pentagon’s current review of the long-standing ban on military service by out transgender Americans, who “shouldn’t have to … [keep] this core part of their identities under wraps.”

“Meanwhile, you know, transgender people are still barred from serving. That is an outdated rule, especially since you and I know there are transgender people in uniform, right now, they’re just keeping this core part of their identities under wraps, because they are so committed to defending our nation. They shouldn’t have to do that. That’s why I support the policy review that Defense Secretary Carter recently announced at the Pentagon. And it’s why I hope the United States joins many other countries that let transgender people serve openly. Now, we pride ourselves on having the world’s best military, but being the best doesn’t just mean having the best trained forces or the biggest arsenal. It also means being a leader on issues like this; on who we respect enough to let serve with dignity as themselves.” 

6. Cut off federal funding for adoption agencies that discriminate against LGBT parents.

“I will also fight to defend lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender parents. Eleven states ban same-sex couples and LGBT individuals from adopting. Meanwhile, hundreds of thousands of kids in foster care are ready, in fact, eager, to become part of loving families. This, to my mind, is one of the cruelest vestiges of antigay bigotry, and it’s also really cruel to those kids. Being a good parent has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual orientation or your gender identity. The thousands of happy, healthy children being raised by LGBT people proves that. And as president, I would push to cut off federal funding for any child welfare agency that discriminates against LGBT people. For me, there is no excuse — none — for hurting children and families like this.”

7. Stand up against antigay school policies.

“We’ve got to stand up for our young people, trying to live like the teenagers they are, going to the prom with your boyfriend or girlfriend is a rite of passage that every young person deserves, don’t you think?”

8. Protect life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness for transgender people, especially trans women of color. 

“We’ve got to address the crisis of transphobic violence. 2015 has seen the murder of at least 19 transgender women, primarily women of color. And nobody knows how much violence goes unreported or ignored. And we need to say, with one voice, that transgender people are valued, they are loved, they are us, they desire to be treated fairly and equally.”

9. Defend LGBT rights abroad, including bailing out jailed LGBT activists. 

“And let me ask you also, to keep standing up for the human rights of the LGBT community worldwide. Hundreds of millions of people live in places where they can be arrested, even executed for being gay. Just a few days ago, the president of Zimbabwe stood up at the U.N. and gave a furious speech about the dangers of equal rights for gay people. According to him, in Zimbabwe, he said, we are not gays. Now, I’m guessing the LGBT activists sitting in prison in Zimbabwe would disagree with him, if ever given a chance to have a platform like he had. That’s why in 2011, as Chad [Griffin, HRC president] said, I did go to Geneva and say what should have been obvious but needed saying, that human rights are gay rights, and gay rights are human rights. 

“Because I believe with all my heart that the United States does have to stand up for human rights everywhere. It’s who we are, and under my presidency, it’s who we will continue to be. The Global Equality Fund, that some of you helped me get started needs to continue and grow, so that we can protect activists, so we can bail people out of prison, we can support publication and online outreach so that people don’t feel so alone and they get a chance for their to be heard. I will do my part to make sure that these issues get the attention they deserve, in the presidential campaign, and more importantly in the White House.”

10. End anti-LGBT discrimination completely “at home and abroad.”

“Ben Carson says that marriage equality is what caused the fall of the Roman Empire. Ted Cruz, ahem, Ted Cruz, slammed a political opponent for marching in a Pride parade. He clearly has no idea what he’s missing. Pride parades are so much fun, I was marching in them back when I was First Lady. You should join us sometime, Senator! Come on!

“But there are sure to be a lot more comments like this, and more hurtful ones. And I want to say something to you, because I know a number of you, and I am so proud to call you friends and supporters, but I hope you will continue to reach out, particularly to young people, who hear these things on television, who may be in their community or family, still, are treated so harshly. It’s important that you stand with them as we continue to push the agenda that is necessary to end discrimination at home and abroad.”

Read a full transcript of Clinton’s speech below, and see video of her address here

 

Transcript of Hillary Rodham Clinton’s keynote address the Human Rights Campaign, September 26, 2015:

This is an amazing display of enthusiasm energy, activism. It is great to be back with the other HRC. In fact, there’s no one I’d rather share my initials with than all of you.

I have to say that being introduced by Chad just filled my heart. I know about his journey, I know about his life in Arkansas, and I’m so proud of him, and so impressed and grateful that he now heads this organization. Thank you, my friend. 

Well, it’s been quite a year, hasn’t it. It felt like all of America was dancing in the streets this June, and that’s because of you. And because of Jim Obergefell. Where is he? There’s Jim. Thank you. Along with Edie Windsor. And all the families who took their fight all the way to the Supreme Court. It was because of leaders like Chad, and JoDee Winterhof, who is here, and Joe Solmonese, who is here, and Mike Berman, who is my longtime friend, who has been a champion. All the members of the HRC boards and committees. Everyone. Everyone who marched, sang, wrote briefs, everything you did to make marriage equality the law of the land. [Applause]

There is a map on the wall in my campaign headquarters in Brooklyn, in a place of honor, right when you walk in. It’s called states where marriage equality is law. And it’s just a plain old map of the United States. But because now, every single American, no matter where you are, is free to marry whoever you love, the map is colored everywhere. And that is the way it should be. That is real progress, my friends, and the people here today deserve a lot of the credit for making it happen. 

Now, you’ve helped make other progress, as well. Including President Obama’s executive order barring companies that do business with the federal government from discriminating against LGBT Americas. And I appreciated your support when I took steps, as Chad said, to ban discrimination at the State Department, including by extending equal benefits to the partners of diplomats. 

I’m really here to say “thank you” for your hard work, and your courage, and for insisting that what’s right is right. You’ve helped change a lot of minds, including mine, and I am personally very grateful for that. After all the remarkable achievements of the past few years, no one would blame you, or HRC, for wanting to take a break, to kick back, kind of enjoy what’s going on. Put on a pair of orange shoes and enjoy, just for a while, right? But I wish that all the progress we’ve made was so secure and so ingrained in our laws and our values that we didn’t have to keep constantly defending it. But we’re not there yet. 

There are still public officials doing everything in their power to interfere with your rights. There are still too many places where lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Americans are targeted for harassment and violence. There are still too many young people out there, feeling hopeless and alone. Now, we assure them, “It Gets Better,” but it can still be really hard to believe that. Especially when you turn on the TV and you see a Republican candidate for president literally standing in the courthouse door in Kentucky, calling for people to join him in resisting a Supreme Court ruling, celebrating a county clerk who’s breaking the law by denying other Americans their constitutional rights. [Audience boos]

Or when Republicans in Indiana pass a law letting businesses deny services to LGBT customers under the guise of “religious freedom.” Think about how that must sound if you’re a young gay or transgender kid. The message is unmistakable: there’s something wrong with you. You’re not a real citizen. You’re not wanted here. You’re not welcome. 

Some of you may know the blog Humans of New York. It’s a beautiful site that conducts informal interviews as they go about their lives in New York and even in other parts of the world. And the stories they tell are often pretty raw. This past July Humans of New York posted a picture of its latest subject. A sweet little boy, sitting on a stoop crying, and looking like he was trying very hard not to. And this was his entire interview: “I’m homosexual,” he said. “And I’m afraid about what my future will be and that people won’t like me.” 

It was so absolutely heartbreaking. All I wanted to do was find him and give him a hug. Instead I wrote to him. I said that his future was going to be amazing. That he will surprise himself with what he is capable of, and all the incredible things he will do. And I said that lots of people will love him, and believe in him. And the proof is that I wasn’t the only one who wrote him. Thousands of people from all over the world spoke up to tell him that he is loved and perfect just the way he is. When I see a brave little guy like that, strong enough to tell someone his fears, strong enough to be honest about who he is, who still is terrified of being rejected by the world around him, that tells me we still have work to do. 

Because our work isn’t finished until every single person is treated with equal rights and dignity that they deserve; no matter how old they are, no matter where they live, whether it’s New York or Wyoming or anywhere else. Now I know I’m not telling you anything new. You know the obstacles that remain better than I do, but I want you to know that I get it. I see the injustices and the dangers that you and and your families still face, and I’m running for president to end them once and for all. [Applause]

I talk about my campaign as being about improving the economy so everyone who works hard to do his or her part to get ahead can stay ahead, but I also talk about enforcing our basic civil and human rights. I’m running for president to stand up for the fundamental rights of LGBT Americans, and all Americans. That’s a promise from one HRC to another. 

So what does that mean? It means I’ll fight to end discrimination wherever it occurs. It’s outrageous that in 2015, you can still be fired for being gay, you can still lose your home for being gay, you can even be denied a wedding cake for being gay. And this kind of discrimination goes against everything we stand for as Americans. Congress must pass the federal Equality Act, and that law would finally outlaw discrimination against LGBT people, basically everywhere: in employment, housing, public education, public accommodations, access to federal funding, and in the jury system. It’s a great, noble piece of legislation that deserves to become the law of the land. As president, I will fight for it, and I hope many of you will be with me when I sign it into law. [Thunderous applause]

You know I have a particular commitment to health care. I like to say, I still have the scars to show for what we tried to do back in the ’90s. And I’m particularly concerned for the LGBT community. One of the many reasons why the Affordable Care Act is a good law is that it made it illegal for health insurers to deny coverage because of a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity. But I’ve been hearing from people as I travel around the country, too many LGBT people struggle to get the care you need. All the Republican governors who refused to accept the Medicaid expansion, because they don’t like the Affordable Care Act, are doing a lot of harm to people with HIV and AIDS, who need Medicaid to afford the medications that keep them healthy. 

Meanwhile, you may have read recently about a drug, that’s been around for decades, that went from $13.50 per pill to $750 per pill literally overnight; a 5,000 percent increase. What is not talked about enough is that medication is one that many HIV-positive patients rely on every day. Now with pressure from me and others, the CEO of the drug company says he’ll lower the price, but he hasn’t done it yet, and every day that he stalls, people with HIV are forced to worry and wait, and pay hundreds of dollars more, for medication that keeps them well. That is wrong, and as president, I’ll take on the drug companies, I’ll cap out-of-pocket expenses for people with chronic diseases like HIV/AIDS. 

After all, you shouldn’t have to go bankrupt to get the care you need to stay alive. 

And I will continue the fight for LGBT people in our armed services. “Don’t ask, don’t tell” is over, but that doesn’t change the fact that over 14,000 men and women were forced out of the military for being gay; some long before “don’t ask, don’t tell” even existed. Many were given less than honorable discharges. I can’t think of a better way to thank those men and women for their service than by upgrading their service records and making sure they get the honorable discharge they deserve. 

Meanwhile, you know, transgender people are still barred from serving. That is an outdated rule, especially since you and I know there are transgender people in uniform, right now, they’re just keeping this core part of the identities under wraps, because they are so committed to defending our nation. They shouldn’t have to do that. That’s why I support the policy review that Defense Secretary Carter recently announced at the Pentagon. And it’s why I hope the United States joins many other countries that let transgender people serve openly. Now, we pride ourselves on having the world’s best military, but being the best doesn’t just mean having the best trained forces or the biggest arsenal. It also means being a leader on issues like this; on who we respect enough to let serve with dignity as themselves. 

I will also fight to defend lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender parents. Eleven states ban same-sex couples and LGBT individuals from adopting. Meanwhile, hundreds of thousands of kids in foster care are ready, in fact, eager, to become part of loving families. This, to my mind, is one of the cruelest vestiges of antigay bigotry, and it’s also really cruel to those kids. Being a good parent has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual orientation or your gender identity. The thousands of happy, healthy children being raised by LGBT people proves that. And as president, I would push to cut off federal funding for any child welfare agency that discriminates against LGBT people. [Applause, audible “wow” uttered from audience members]

For me, there is no excuse — none — for hurting children and families like this. Now, I could go on and on, there’s so much more for us to do. We’ve got to stand up for our young people, trying to live like the teenagers they are, going to the prom  with your boyfriend or girlfriend is a rite of passage that every young person deserves, don’t you think? 

We’ve got to address the crisis of transphobic violence. 2015 has seen the murder of at least 19 transgender women, primarily women of color. And nobody knows how much violence goes unreported or ignored. And we need to say, with one voice, that transgender people are valued, they are loved, they are us, they desire to be treated fairly and equally.

And let me ask you also, to keep standing up for the human rights of the LGBT community worldwide. Hundreds of millions of people live in places where they can be arrested, even executed for being gay. Just a few days ago, the president of Zimbabwe stood up at the U.N., and gave a furious speech about the dangers of equal rights for gay people. According to him, in Zimbabwe, he said, we are not gays. Now, I’m guessing the LGBT activists sitting in prison in Zimbabwe would disagree with him, if ever given a chance to have a platform like he had. That’s why in 2011, as Chad said, I did go to Geneva and say what should have been obvious but needed saying, that human rights are gay rights, and gay rights are human rights.

Because I believe with all my heart that the United States does have to stand up for human rights everywhere. It’s who we are, and under my presidency, it’s who we will continue to be. The Global Equality Fund, that some of you helped me get started needs to continue and grow, so that we can protect activists, so we can bail people out of prison, we can support publication and online outreach so that people don’t feel so alone and they get a chance for their to be heard. I will do my part to make sure that these issues get the attention they deserve, in the presidential campaign, and more importantly in the White House. 

Now, I know that you’ve had your share of politicians speaking out, courting your support at election time, and then disappearing. As if your lives and your rights are just a political bargaining chip. Well, those who know me know that’s not me. I’ve been fighting alongside you and others for equal rights, and I’m just getting warmed up. 

But to quote one of my favorite Americans, Eleanor Roosevelt, when you get into the public arena, you do need to grow skin as thick as a rhinoceros. So everybody get started, because we’re going to face some ridiculousness, especially from our friends in the GOP. In fact, it’s already begun. 

Ben Carson says that marriage equality is what caused the fall of the Roman Empire. Ted Cruz, ahem, Ted Cruz, slammed a political opponent for marching in a Pride parade. He clearly has no idea what he’s missing. Pride parades are so much fun, I was marching in them back when I was First Lady. You should join us sometime, Senator! Come on!

But there are sure to be a lot more comments like this, and more hurtful ones. And I want to say something to you, because I know a number of you, and I am so proud to call you friends and supporters, but I hope you will continue to reach out, particularly to young people, who hear these things on television, who may be in their community or family, still, are treated so harshly. It’s important that you stand with them as we continue to push the agenda that is necessary to end discrimination at home and abroad. 

So now we’re going to hear a lot from the people running on the other side. And I’ll tell you, believe what they say: if any one of them, heaven forbid, were ever elected president, they will do their best to enact policies that will threaten you and your families. Every single Republican candidate for president is against marriage equality. Many of them are against nondiscrimination laws, many are against same-sex couples adopting. See if you are ever in a forum with any of them, if you can get them to say the word “transgender.” [Laughter]

So the stakes in this election are high, for the country. They’re high for so much of what we believe in and the progress we want to continue to make; it can be undone. President Obama’s executive actions can be rescinded. The next president may get three Supreme Court justice appointments. We could lose the Supreme Court, and then there’d be a whole new litigation strategy coming from those who oppose marriage equality. 

We have got to stay focused, stay united, you deserve a president who will bring people together, who won’t leave anyone behind. That is what I will do, because I know from my own personal experience, the folks on the other side, you’ve got to give them credit — they never quit. Their persistence is admirable, although it is hard to believe what they use it for. You’ve shown me a lot of generous support over the years, and I deeply appreciate that. A number of you have taught me a lot, embraced me and my family, made me a better First Lady, a better Senator, and a better Secretary of State. And with your help, I’ll be an even better president. 

Let me end with this, because I never make a speech these days without mentioning my granddaughter. In case you haven’t heard, she just turned one. Her grandfather and I are convinced she’s the smartest, funniest, most wonderful baby — it means we’re pretty typical grandparents, so I’ll spare you the slideshow that I brought. But I find myself thinking a lot about the country and the world she’ll grow up in. Whether it’ll be safe and healthy and just. Her generation, hopefully, will be even better when it comes to accepting people’s differences, just like my daughter’s generation was better than mine. Our children have a lot of wisdom. I want my granddaughter to feel bold and brave and supported enough that she can be who she is, whoever that turns out to be. That’s what all our kids and grandkids deserve. And parents and grandparents all over the country should want the same for their families. 

So I want to thank you for being on the front lines of what has been an amazing struggle; but which has accomplished so much in a relatively short period of time. I think of that every day on the campaign trail, like when I met a man in Iowa who gushed to me about the daughter he adopted years ago with his partner. And now his granddaughter is the light of his life. Or the mom of a transgender girl in Las Vegas, who just wanted to know how in the world her daughter was going to get the medical care she needed. I think about all the moms and dads, all of you parents out there, who worry about whether their families will be OK. Whether the hospital will allow both moms into the emergency room with their sick kid. Whether teachers and classmates will be kind and accepting. Whether law enforcement will treat them right. All those millions of worries, large and small, that same-sex parents and LGBT Americans think about every day. 

Well, I think about them, too. Because your families matter to me, and you matter to me. I’m going to keep, as I have throughout my life, fighting for you, your rights, your children, your futures. I’m fighting for an America where if you do your part, you do reap the rewards, and where we don’t leave anyone out. Where if you work hard and do your part, you can pursue your dreams however you define them. Where you can make the most of your God-given potential. That’s what I’m fighting for. And I am proud to be fighting right alongside you. Thank you all very, very much. 

Sunnivie Brydum

www.advocate.com/election/2015/10/06/10-promises-hillary-clinton-just-made-lgbt-americans

5 Older Celebs Get Real About Sex After 50

5 Older Celebs Get Real About Sex After 50

People over 50 aren’t just older and wiser — they also know a thing or two about mind-blowing sex. After all, practice makes perfect. 

Here are five older celebs and their blush-inducing lessons on sex:

1. Jane Fonda, 77, has been in a relationship with music producer Richard Perry, 73, since 2009. 

“If you have been celibate for a long time and then begin a new love affair, be aware that your vagina is likely to need some attention.”

 

2. Betty White, 93, was married to TV personality Allen Ludden from 1963 until his death in 1981. When asked about marrying again, White said, “When you’ve had the best, who needs the rest.”

“I’m still just as horny as I’ve ever been.

 

3. Lisa Rinna, 52, has been married to actor Harry Hamlin, 63, since 1997.

“We’re kinky as hell in bed.”

 

4. John Stamos, 52, was previously married to actress Rebecca Romijn. 

“I’d rather have a woman have ten orgasms than me have ten orgasms.”

 

 5.  Sting, 63, has been married to actress Trudie Styler, 61, since 1992. 

“I like the theater of sex. I like to look good. I like her to dress up. I like to dress her up.”

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Booted out Vatican insider: More than 50% of priests are gay

Booted out Vatican insider: More than 50% of priests are gay

Employing gay priests ‘works exceptionally well’ for the Catholic Church, a German theologist has said.

David Berger, an openly gay publicist who formerly worked for the Vatican, said the number of gay men working in the Catholic Church was well above average – even more so in the papal state.

‘In the Vatican, I experienced the number of gay men to be even higher,’ he said in an interview with German magazine Stern.

‘I guess around half [of the men working there].’

In the interview, Berger also said employing gay men worked ‘exceptionally well’ as they guilt-trip themselves into being better priests.

‘On one hand it’s down to homosexuality being demonized in the Church. It’s a very severe sin,’ he said.

On the other hand, the image of a celibate priest, who is never questioned about not having a wife, was very attractive for gay men, Berger continued, as they wouldn’t have to explain themselves and wouldn’t be bothered into marriage.

‘So you have the advantage of having many gay men with a guilty conscience. They do their best to be especially smart, loyal to the pope and hard working,’ he said.

‘Which is why they have the best chances for a career and, through this, get into the Vatican.

‘There, they find a network of gay men in which people help each other out.’

Berger also said the biggest rule in the Vatican was while people could have gay sex, in public they should always remain true to the Church’s principles and not talk about it.

‘I think that may be down to being gay being an important apparatus of power,’ Berger told the Stern.

‘After a coming out, those in power don’t have anything left with which to hold you down. That’s a disaster beyond all expectations.’

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Stefanie Gerdes

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An Asian Antigay Bill Could Have Global Repercussions

An Asian Antigay Bill Could Have Global Repercussions

Advocates focused on the human rights of LGBT people internationally often think of this work as two steps forward, one step back. While this year Nepal amended its constitution to explicitly protect LGBT people and President Obama appointed Randy Berry as the first special envoy for the human rights of LGBT people, in 2014 we watched another country, Brunei, get added to the list of countries in which consensual same-sex activity can carry a death sentence. 

As we win big victories in the United States like nationwide marriage equality, many LGBT Americans are paying more attention to the big stories happening on the international scene. But many may yet not realize that a dangerous moment is in our near future: a law that is moving forward that would set a new and frightening precedent with the potential to reignite a wave of anti-LGBT legislation in its region. The place is Kyrgyzstan, and while it may not be on the radar for most of the world, it must be now. This small Central Asian country is on the verge of passing a law that would be the first of its kind — a “propaganda” law that would result in people being thrown in jail for expressing the most basic sentiments about their own identities.

In 1954, President Dwight D. Eisenhower first invoked the metaphor of falling dominoes to depict the spread of communism across Southeast Asia. Sixty years later, as this hate spreads across Central Asia, it is a picture that once again seems fitting.

In the lead-up to 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi, Russia, the newly enacted Russian law banning “propaganda of nontraditional sexual relations” to minors outraged international human rights activists. LGBT Russians were already experiencing its effects, but with the impending arrival of thousands of athletes, spectators, and global leaders, predictions varied on how the law would be enforced at and around the games. Many hoped that the limelight would drive Russian leaders to reconsider their commitment to what the global community viewed as legalized homophobia, but in the end, the Kremlin didn’t bat an eye.

A year and a half later we are faced with resulting irony that is hard to swallow: an event that was created to foster amity between nations may have become a springboard for homophobia across borders. In the small amount of time since the closing ceremonies, a bill emulating Russia’s ban on so-called LGBT propaganda has advanced from a legislative rumor in the halls of Kyrgyzstan’s Parliament to the precipice of becoming law. And this bill is not an outlier — in Eastern Europe and in neighboring nations in Central Asia, legislators from Latvia to Armenia have explored similar moves towards codifying homophobia at home.

The Kyrgyz version of the propaganda law is far more dangerous than its Russian counterpart. On first glance, the Kyrgyz version of the propaganda law seems to be a carbon copy of its Russian predecessor — certain sections, in fact, seem to be directly copied and pasted from Russian documents. But expanding upon what it emulates, the Kyrgyz law introduces newly conceived criminal penalties carrying prison sentences of up to one year.

The Kyrgyz draft law also significantly broadens the scope of its application, expanding its terms to include a widespread ban of all forms of public information about nontraditional sexual relations rather than limiting the ban to information accessible to minors. In effect, the sweeping nature of the bill could land journalists, artists, and human rights defenders in jail simply for exercising their freedom of speech. In practice, it could go as far as to shutter gay clubs, ban LGBT gatherings, and even allow Kyrgyz police to arrest workers at HIV/AIDS clinics for distributing informational materials to patients.

As LGBT Russians will tell you, passage of this propaganda law will have a significant negative impact that goes beyond legal hurdles, arrests, and courtroom sentences. Since the Russian law went into effect, bias-motivated crimes against the Russian LGBT population have become more commonplace and more brazen, and, worse yet, have met with indifference on the part of officials.

With the draft bill moving through Parliament, Kyrgyz LGBT people are already experiencing increased violence and discrimination. In the south of the country, LGBT residents are treated as if the law has already passed, with police attempting to arrest and fine people under the legislation. In April a leading LGBT organization was fire-bombed by young nationalist thugs in the nation’s capital, Bishkek, and on the International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia a peaceful group was attacked by members of the hate group Kalys. It is clear that even the consideration of such anti-LGBT laws results in a validation of homophobia and the violence it inspires.

As Kyrgyzstan holds elections this weekend, the bill awaits its third and final reading in the new session of Parliament, and that is likely to occur this month. With little doubt that it will pass — legislators voted 90-2 in favor on its second reading — the LGBT population is now looking to President Almazbek Atambayev to intervene. His options are limited both by his country’s legislative process and by his people’s homophobia, but there is hope. If he chooses to not sign the bill when it arrives on his desk, he can either return it to Parliament for edits and clarification or issue a veto. When that day comes, we hope that global leaders, especially the Obama administration, will continue to urge him to stand on the side of human rights.

The impact of this bill becoming law would surely be disastrous for the entire region. Kyrgyzstan’s neighbor to the north, Kazakhstan, has previously considered a propaganda bill of its own. Though it was voted down, reintroduced, and then coincidentally tabled by officials during an Olympic bid process earlier this year, the Kazakh LGBT community suspects that a victory for the Kyrgyz bill would pave the way for Kazakh lawmakers to reintroduce similar legislation. Like Kyrgyzstan, Kazakhstan has deeply rooted feelings of enmity for LGBT people, manifesting in violent attacks and refusal of basic services. Members of Parliament have gone as far as to call for legislation to classify LGBT Kazakhs as “criminals against humanity.”

With the first domino set to fall in Kyrgyzstan, it is critical that the United States and its allies put productive pressure on Atambayev and extend critical support to the Kyrgyz LGBT community. To let the bill pass and allow LGBT people to be incarcerated would be a historic step back for Kyrgyzstan, the region, and global human rights.

Gaylord

SHAWN M. GAYLORD is advocacy counsel at Human Rights First, leading its initiative to advance the protection of the human rights of LGBT people globally.
Shawn Gaylord

www.advocate.com/commentary/2015/10/06/asian-antigay-bill-could-have-global-repercussions

Third Australian state to recognize overseas gay marriages

Third Australian state to recognize overseas gay marriages

The state Labor government of Victoria has announced plans to go ahead and recognize same-sex marriages performed overseas while LGBTI Australians continue to wait for the Australian Government to move on the reform.

Under the proposal by the Victorian Government’s Minister for Equality Martin Foley same-sex marriages would be recorded in the state’s relationship register so long as at least one of the people in the relationship is a resident of the state.

The register was created to allow same-sex couples to formalize their relationships for legal purposes in the absence of a formal legal institution for them to do so.

The Victorian Government also announced today that it would ask its newly formed LGBTI Taskforce and Justice Working Group to consider further reforms to strengthen the recognition of same-sex relationships in the state in the current term of Government.

Local LGBTI rights group the Victorian Gay and Lesbian Rights Lobby (VGLRL) has been urging lawmakers to create a civil partnership scheme for couples in the state in the absence of a federal same-sex marriage law.

‘Today’s announcement by the Andrews Government will ensure Victorian couples who have travelled overseas to be married or enter a civil partnership will be legally recognized and protected under Victorian laws,’ VGLRL co-convenor Sean Mulcahy said earlier today.
 
‘While marriage equality remains a federal responsibility, these reforms are a great step forward by the Victorian Government to provide practical legal protections for LGBTI couples. We particularly welcome the removal of the requirement that both of the couple live together in Victoria for 12 months, which recognises that some couples due to work or family commitments don’t both live in the same location for extended periods of time.’

The VGLRL see civil partnerships as an important option for those couples who wish to make a formal commitment but do not wish to be married.

‘When marriage equality is achieved in Australia, there will still be couples who may choose not be married for a range of reasons,’ Mulcahy said.

‘We expect the Taskforce  to  carefully explore how Victoria may implement and even improve on civil partnership schemes like Queensland, ACT and the UK as a matter of priority.’

Australia’s new Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull has pledged to keep to the policy line of the man he deposed, ex-Prime Minister Tony Abbott – which is that same-sex marriage will not be voted on again by the Parliament until a popular vote can be held on the issue and only after the next election is held.

Turnbull had previously been a vocal supporter of passing the reform by a speedy vote by MPs and many believe he agreed to put off any reform as part of a deal with his party’s right wing in order to secure becoming Prime Minister.

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Andrew Potts

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WATCH: Danny Pintauro on How He Contracted HIV

WATCH: Danny Pintauro on How He Contracted HIV

After having revealed to Oprah Winfrey that he’s been HIV-positive for 12 years, former child star Danny Pintauro has disclosed how he believes he contracted the virus — through oral sex.

The onetime Who’s the Boss? cast member says he was religious about safer-sex practices because he was so paranoid about HIV, but he let his guard down because of his drug use — he was at one point addicted to crystal meth.

“Believe it or not, with this guy [from who he contracted the virus], I was actually safe,” he told Us magazine in a video interview posted online Monday. “We did use condoms. I got it another way, which was through oral sex, which is a complicated story. When you put all these things together, like a compromised immune system, having been up for a long time, rough sex, lesions in your mouth, maybe, mixing of bodily fluids, it’s that easy.”

The Centers for Disease Control and Infection notes that the risk of HIV transmission during oral sex is not as great as during anal or vaginal sex, but oral sex is not risk-free. “Even though oral sex carries a lower risk of HIV transmission than other sexual activities, the risk is not zero,” the CDC’s website cautions. “It is difficult to measure the exact risk because people who practice oral sex may also practice other forms of sex during the same encounter.”

“Performing oral sex on an HIV-infected man, with ejaculation in the mouth, is the riskiest oral sex activity,” the site further states. “Factors that may increase the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex are oral ulcers, bleeding gums, genital sores, and the presence of other sexually transmitted diseases.” Risk can be reduced by using condoms or other barriers during oral sex or by avoiding ejaculation in the mouth, the CDC adds.

The CDC also notes that while injection-drug use is a direct route of transmission, other types of drug use lower inhibitions, making people more likely to engage in risky behavior.

Pintauro did not provide additional details about the transmission or his sexual partner in the encounter, but said he is trying to find the man. He had forgotten the man’s name until he ran across it in an email, he told Us.

Below, watch the interview, in which Pintauro also discusses how he met his husband, Wil Tabares; the challenge of finding an understanding partner when you’re HIV-positive; and the support he’s received from Who’s the Boss? cast mates Judith Light, Tony Danza, and Alyssa Milano.

Trudy Ring

www.advocate.com/hiv-aids/2015/10/05/watch-danny-pintauro-how-he-contracted-hiv

Tennessee Republican official offers apology to God to avoid wrath for gay marriage in America

Tennessee Republican official offers apology to God to avoid wrath for gay marriage in America

A Tennessee county local government will today debate a formal apology to God over America’s legalization of same-sex marriage because one of it’s members fears God is poised to punish America with his wrath.

Blount County commissioner and Republican Karen Miller put the apology on today’s agenda, fearing that God will punish America like he did in the Old Testament stories of Sodom and Gommorah and the Passover in which God took the lives of all the firstborn children of Egypt.

In her ‘Resolution condemning judicial tyranny and petitioning God’s mercy,’ Miller writes that, ‘we the Blount County Legislature call upon all of the officers of the State of Tennessee, the Governor, the Attorney General, and the members of the Tennessee Legislature, to join us, and utilize all authority within their power to protect natural marriage, from lawless court opinions, and the financial schemes of the enemies of righteousness wherever the source and defend the moral standards of Tennessee.’

‘We adopt this resolution before God that he pass us by in his coming wrath and not destroy our county as he did Sodom and Gomorrah and the neighboring cities. As the Passover Lamb was a means of salvation to the ancient Children of Israel, so we stand upon the safety of the Lamb of God to save us.’

‘We adopt this Resolution begging his favor in light of the fact that we have been forced to comply and recognize that the State of Tennessee, like so many other God-fearing states, may have fallen prey to a lawless judiciary in legalizing what God and the Bible expressly forbids.’

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Andrew Potts

www.gaystarnews.com/article/tennessee-republican-lawmaker-offers-apology-to-god-to-avoid-wrath-for-gay-marriage-in-america/