Open Question: I'm Gay But Don't Want to be Part of the LGBT community?

Open Question: I'm Gay But Don't Want to be Part of the LGBT community?
I’m pretty sure I’m gay because I only fall in love with guys and only men are usually what I’m attracted to. I’m starting to consider accepting it and stuff, I really want to hook up with guys and act on my feelings. But the thing is not only am I a devout Protestant Christian, but I also don’t want to be a part of the whole “gay” thing. I want to stay in my community, the Anglo Saxon American Protestant culture where I belong, not the LGBT stuff. I don’t want to be a part of that whole thing, and be the base for all the pro-gay legislation and everything. I just happen to be attracted to guys, but that shouldn’t define me. In today’s world, if you’re gay, that’s all you are, people see you as nothing else but gay, and I don’t want that. I just want to be a regular Christian New Englander, not part of the whole LGBT thing. Is there a way for me to handle this?

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Open Question: How can I be a better friend?

Open Question: How can I be a better friend?
Basically I don’t respect this straight friend of mine. I stare at him an aweful lot . . . .

He doesn’t trust me to be really good friends with me, and I don’t blame him. I also want to get to know him, and I’m immensely curious about him, but I don’t know who he is; he is a mystery to me . . . .

He doesn’t agree with the LGBT Community and that’s too bad. I know I’m a creeper and a lousy friend and socially fearful and slow in the head. But I still wish to know the real me coz I’m still a nice person deep down and he won’t give me a chance.

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