WATCH: Transgender Girl Kicked Out of Home, Makes Cheerleading Squad

WATCH: Transgender Girl Kicked Out of Home, Makes Cheerleading Squad

After her second year of tryouts, a small-town California girl was accepted by her high school’s cheerleading squad as its first transgender member, Sacramento TV station KTXL reported Wednesday. 

Anry Fuentes told the station that her mother kicked her out of the house because of her gender identity but she found support in her central California community. Denair is a town of about 4,400 people less than two miles wide. Students and teachers at her high school took up a collection to help pay for her $600 uniform, according to the station.

Aaron Rosander, the school district superintendent told the station Denair values its students. “We’ve dealt with Anry like we’ve dealt with all students: we welcome them all, we support all the kids on their journey through life,” he said.

Many schools have become increasingly accepting of transgender students. Recently in Missouri, one transgender teen was crowned homecoming queen. However, in other schools fights have erupted over which restroom transgender students may use. Another Missouri school staged a walkout when a transgender girl used the bathroom of her choice. 

While coming out to her classmates was difficult, Fuentes said it was easier than the alternative. “It’s so much harder to hide than to come out and be yourself,” she told a reporter. “Like, I found it really hard to, like, say the words you know … them actually coming out of my mouth, but once they’re out, they’re out. That’s it.”

Watch the report from KTXL below.

 

Elizabeth Daley

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Is Zola's Epic Twitter Story Empowering Or Disturbing Or Both?

Is Zola's Epic Twitter Story Empowering Or Disturbing Or Both?

On Tuesday morning, Twitter user _zolarmoon, who also goes by Aziah King, used her account to write an epic story in 150 tweets.

Her first tweet, posted along with a photo of herself and an unnamed white woman, reads, “Y’all wanna hear a story about why me & this bitch here fell out? It’s kind of long but full of suspense.” 

What followed was a story with countless twists and turns, in which King relayed the time that she and the woman (named Jess) met at a Hooters, discovered a shared enthusiasm for stripping, and decided to go on an impromptu weekend trip to Florida to make money dancing.

To record the entire sordid tale here would be pretty much impossible, but during the course of the very NSFW story King crosses paths with a whole host of characters, including pimps and gangstas. What should have been a harmless trip results in Jess being kidnapped and beaten by a rival pimp until Zola is forced to intervene. 

Black Twitter ate up the wild story (which King has insisted via Twitter is completely true), and its humorous, irreverent tone. The story, which has since been deleted from King’s account but is preserved via Storify and screencaps, went viral, with thousands of retweets and reblogs on Tumblr. 

King has been described as Twitter’s answer to the urban erotica writer Zane, and social media users are demanding that she gets a book or movie deal to tell more stories. Choice lines from her tweet essay are being quoted, retweeted, and turned into memes. 

#zolaStory got me like pic.twitter.com/gShNsbUdqx

— Kellie Camerra (@kellie_priceles) October 28, 2015

Zola’s story had:

-character development

-plot twists

-atmosphere/tone

-racially diverse cast

-passed the bechdel test

— Isaac Kariuki (@isaac_pdf) October 28, 2015

When I first encountered the story via a Tumblr meme, I enthusiastically reblogged it. “This is WILD, this is HILARIOUS.” I wrote. “I’M SCREAMING.”

And then I got called out.  

Some social media users have questioned why people were finding Zola’s story entertaining, when in fact so many of its key details are pretty disturbing. “I get that the Zola story is ‘wild’ but it isn’t funny,” one Tumblr user wrote me anonymously. “Jess gets beaten and almost killed. Z is a child sex trafficker. How is any of that funny?” 

It seems reactions to the meme have been split into two camps of “this is totally juicy and hilarious,” and “this is totally horrifying.”

The reaction to Zola’s story is vaguely reminiscent of the reaction to Rihanna’s video for “BBHM.” Like Rihanna, who directed the controversial video, Zola has taken full ownership of her identity as a sex worker and her story, telling it unapologetically and on her own terms. And like the Rihanna video, much of the supposed “humor” in her story is derived from the brutalization of another woman, specifically that of a white woman

What King describes happening to Jess (forced prostitution, kidnapping, physical abuse) isn’t funny, and a woman who is allegedly Jess from the story posted on Facebook that to be reminded of the ordeal “honestly freaking hurts.” The idea that her real name has been used and that people are entertained by a story that involves a dark period in her life is disturbing. 

The fact that King, a sex worker herself, is being hailed as a new kind of literary voice for adapting a medium often viewed as the antithesis of literary, is exciting. The reaction to King’s story proves the power of social media to give an elevated platform to people who otherwise wouldn’t have one. It’s great that King is getting attention, but it’s unfortunate that her popularity is at someone else’s expense. 

So how do we reconcile these two things? How do we praise one woman for empowering herself through telling her own story, when that story also trivializes the abuse of another woman? Is that even possible?

We may not have an easy answer to those questions, but that’s exactly why we should be asking them. Being captivated by the story is a normal response, but feeling no level of discomfort about who we’re laughing at and why should give us pause. And while, at the end of the day, this meme is being treated as nothing more than another funny Internet sensation, it’s important that we think about why exactly we are so entertained.

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NEW MUSIC: Tracey Thorn, Dave Gahan & Soulsavers, Gun Outfit, Here We Go Magic

NEW MUSIC: Tracey Thorn, Dave Gahan & Soulsavers, Gun Outfit, Here We Go Magic

Tracey Thorn

This week in new music: a 34-track solo Tracey Thorn retrospective, Dave Gahan comes over all gospel on his second collaboration with Soulsavers, Gun Outfit go on an indie rock road trip through bluegrass country and Here We Go Magic channel John Cale and – apparently – Brian Eno on album number four.


 

Tracey Thorn – Solo: Songs and Collaborations 1982-2015

Tracey Thorn outside the LSE, London, UK 14 May 1983With sporadic solo work – 1982’s A Distant Shore was promptly followed by Out of the Woods in 2007 – and legendary output with the sadly defunct Everything But The Girl, Tracey Thorn (above) has forged for herself a position as one of England’s best songwriters and performers in a career that has spanned 35 years.

This collection of 34 tracks includes songs from her entire solo career including the stunning 2012 Christmas album Tinsel and Lights, her work with Massive Attack, the Style Council and Hot Chip, as well as a selection of her always perfectly chosen covers (most recently Kate Bush b-side “Under the Ivy”).

An essential collection for fans obviously, but also a perfect introduction to a “half wallflower, half freedom fighter,” as described by husband and fellow EBTG Ben Watt.


 

Dave Gahan & Soulsavers – Angels & Ghosts

Dave GahanWith a career spanning more than thirty years – all the more impressive given their expected demise following the departure of Vince Clarke in 1981 – Depeche Mode have become if nothing else a dependable voice in electronic(ish) music.

Lead vocalist Dave Gahan has in that time been happy enough to give voice to other people’s songs with some forays into solo work (2003’s Paper Monsters and 2007’s Hourglass).

His latest effort and his second with Soulsavers marks a change of direction for Gahan and a welcome one at that.

On paper Dave Gahan doing something verging on gospel rock – complete with choirs sent from heaven – may seem at best ridiculous but in reality Angels & Ghosts is an excellent collaboration perfect for him to tear through with gusto.


 

Gun Outfit – Dream All Over

Gun-Outfit-640x427On album number four, massively underrated Los Angeles-based indie rock act Gun Outfit have perhaps reached pay dirt with a collection of songs that could well put you in mind of Yo La Tengo on a road trip through Alabama.

If the very idea of Tom Petty via touches of bluegrass and echoing sitar makes you ill, Dream All Over might be a stretch too far into the outreaches of indie but repeated listening is recommended to appreciate the delicacy of a collection that takes in references to the Velvet Underground, The American Analog Set and many more.


 

Here We Go Magic – Be Small

herewegomagic-besmall-560x560On album number four – and their first since 2012 Nigel Goodrich collaboration A Different Trip – Brooklyn’s Here We Go Magic has been pared back to core duo Luke Temple and Michael Bloch for a collection of self-produced tracks “inspired by Brian Eno and John Cale’s Wrong Way Up and Robert Wyatt’s Shleep.”

Not being familiar with either, I can’t comment on that. However, if it’s John Cale they want to emulate it’s possible they were listening to 2003’s Hobosapiens.

Despite their protestations of a new approach, in reality Be Small skips over A Different Trip, hearkening back to their earlier work on The January EP and Pigeons.

It’s a relentlessly bubbly affair with “overtly major and optimistic” songs best heard in lead track “Falling.”

 

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Michael Fitzgerald

NEW MUSIC: Tracey Thorn, Dave Gahan & Soulsavers, Gun Outfit, Here We Go Magic

Gay Adult Film Written By Late Actor Sir John Gielgud Creates Row In U.K.

Gay Adult Film Written By Late Actor Sir John Gielgud Creates Row In U.K.

11249147_galA pornographic gay film based on an original screenplay by the late actor Sir John Gielgud has wrapped production, but it still faces tremendous opposition from his estate.

Set in a men’s clothing store where an orgy takes place, Trouser Bar stars Nigel Havers and Julian Clary as passerby who spy the proceedings fondly.

Gielgud, one of the most celebrated stage actors of his time, but best-known for his Oscar-winning work as Dudley Moore’s butler in the film comedy Arthur and for his turn in the TV drama Brideshead Revisited, wrote the screenplay in secret in 1976 and intended for Peter de Rome, who’s considered the grandfather of gay pornography.

De Rome never used the script, but it fell into the hands of David McGillivray, who recently produced a documentary about the pornographer.

Now, McGillivray has turned the script into a feature, much to the chagrin of The Sir John Gielgud Charitable Trust.

“Earlier this year, the trustees decided not give their permission for it to be produced because they didn’t think it was appropriate,” trust member Ian Bradshaw told the Daily Mail. “They didn’t have to go into detail because they own the copyright.”

The film has entered the editing stage, and McGillivray staunchly defends his decision.

“Pornography is still a stigma in this country, but Sir John loved porn and, in his letters, he talks about visiting gay cinemas,” he says. “I was shocked when the trust didn’t give me permission. We stuck to Sir John’s script very tightly when we made the film a couple of weeks ago. He was very specific about the clothes he wanted the actors to wear.”

“They have come down heavily on me,” McGillivray says. “They are using intellectual copyright as an excuse.”

In an interesting side note, Gielgud starred in a pornographic film himself. In 1979, the veteran thespian appeared clothed in Caligula, the super-controversial epic about ancient Rome that was penned by Gore Vidal and spiced up with graphic sex scenes. Gielgud’s biographer Sheridan Morley later referred to it as the actor’s “most embarrassing professional appearance.”

Jeremy Kinser

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A guy at my school organized an LGBT club and hung up posters for it. Another guy thought it would be funny to take pictures while ripping them down and to post it to Twitter. This was the best response.

A guy at my school organized an LGBT club and hung up posters for it. Another guy thought it would be funny to take pictures while ripping them down and to post it to Twitter. This was the best response.
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RNC Chair Reince Priebus Blasts CNBC, Moderators After GOP Debate: WATCH

RNC Chair Reince Priebus Blasts CNBC, Moderators After GOP Debate: WATCH

Reince Priebus CNBC

RNC Chair Reince Priebus was furious at CNBC after last night’s debate, accusing the network of providing a “hostile” environment for the candidates.

“I was pretty disappointed in the moderators, I’m disappointed at CNBC. I thought maybe they would bring forward a pretty fair forum tonight, but it was one gotcha question, one personal low blow after the other. It’s almost like they tried to design a Rubik’s Cube for every question, to try to take the worst element I think of what the moderators and what the media bring to the table, and all I can tell you is that while I’m proud of our candidates for pretty much sticking together, I’m very disappointed with the moderators and I’m very disappointed with CNBC.”

Watch:

Priebus also tweeted:

CNBC should be ashamed of how this debate was handled. #GOPDebate

— Reince Priebus (@Reince) October 29, 2015

And the RNC released this statement:

WASHINGTON – Republican National Committee (RNC) Chairman Reince Priebus released the following statement at the conclusion of the CNBC Republican Primary Debate:

“While I was proud of our candidates and the way they handled tonight’s debate, the performance by the CNBC moderators was extremely disappointing and did a disservice to their network, our candidates, and voters. Our diverse field of talented and exceptionally qualified candidates did their best to share ideas for how to reinvigorate the economy and put Americans back to work despite deeply unfortunate questioning from CNBC,” said Chairman Priebus.

“One of the great things about our party is that we are able to have a dynamic exchange about which solutions will secure a prosperous future, and I will fight to ensure future debates allow for a more robust exchange. CNBC should be ashamed of how this debate was handled.”

What did you think about the debate?

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Andy Towle

RNC Chair Reince Priebus Blasts CNBC, Moderators After GOP Debate: WATCH

Why Drug Scandals Like Martin Shkreli's Will Keep Happening

Why Drug Scandals Like Martin Shkreli's Will Keep Happening

After the Internet’s swift condemnation of Turing Pharmaceuticals’ decision to ratchet up the price of the lifesaving toxoplasmosis drug Daraprim from $13.50 per pill to $750 per pill, Turing CEO Martin Shkreli eventually recanted and announced that he would be lowering the price — although he has yet to say when or by how much. Now Imprimis Pharmaceuticals has stepped up to make alternative treatment available for $1, providing intense relief to individuals at risk of toxoplasmosis, which disproportionately affects people living with HIV and AIDS.

When the scandal first broke, I was afraid that the story would subside and get swallowed by the 24-hour Internet outrage cycle, but thankfully the conversation has continued, with many calling for systemic reform. Democratic presidential candidates Hillary Clinton and Bernie Sanders have put forth plans to prevent patients from going bankrupt, but no real progress has been made to limit abuse by the pharmaceutical companies themselves. Now I am afraid that Imprimis Pharmaceuticals’ noble decision to offer a pro bono alternative to Daraprim is going to distract from the very real need for consumer protections.

Imprimis CEO Mark L. Baum has acknowledged that “this is not the first time a sole supply generic drug — especially one that has been approved for use as long as Daraprim — has had its price increased suddenly and to a level that may make it unaffordable,” going on to assert that “some drug prices are simply out of control.” While I commend both his actions and his statements, I have to point out that the solution here is not drug companies banding together to pick up the slack where they see moral failings in their industry, and very few of the glowing articles I have read this week have made the point that we need to continue pushing our politicians for reform.

If a company can arbitrarily increase the cost of lif-saving medications upward of 5,000 percent overnight, we have to consider what this means for patients, even if the medication in question doesn’t effect us personally. To cure hepatitis C can still cost a person more than $100,000 — approximately $1,000 a pill for some treatments. Not only are drugs considerably more expensive in the U.S. than they are in other countries, the cost is disproportionately laid on consumers — and good luck to you if you can’t afford the right kind of insurance or, worse, can’t afford insurance at all. Our elected officials could do something about this situation — but they’re under tremendous pressure not to.

The truth is, politicians are as afraid of pharmaceutical companies as they are of the NRA. The drug lobby is powerful, and millions of dollars exchange hands every year to protect their interests over the interests of the American people. I don’t have all the solutions, but I do know that these issues are not going to be addressed if we leave it up to the private sector. For me, it all goes back to campaign finance reform — if we can take giant corporations’ millions out of politics, maybe our elected officials can be convinced to value people over profits again. In the meantime we all need to raise our voices and do our best to make sure this issue doesn’t fade away. 

KIT WILLIAMSON

KIT WILLIAMSON is an actor, filmmaker, and activist living in New York City. He best known for playing the role of Ed Gifford on Mad Men and creating the LGBT series EastSiders, which recently premiered its second season exclusively on Vimeo On Demand
Kit Williamson

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came out to my parents yesterday

came out to my parents yesterday

I posted this a while back and I finally worked up the nerve to tell my parents! As I hoped, they said they were fine with it and will help me through this process and will love me no matter what gender. (they’re both really liberal about things like this) so I just wanted to say thanks for the support and finally i’ve taken my first big step to being who I truly am. 🙂

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