Open Question: Why am I more scared of being gay then trans?

Open Question: Why am I more scared of being gay then trans?
I’m a halfway closet case ftm, and I’ve found it makes me more anxious to admit I’m gay then to admit I’m trans.

I’m not homophobic to people because I’m still somewhat closeted, I just have a weird instinct to hide I have feelings for men.

Btw I have nothing against gay men as I have befriended several over my life. It just makes me nervous to admit that I am really gay. Its kind of weird to me, because its easier to lie and say I’m bi or pansexual rather then admit I’m gay. I don’t know why this is, as I live in a lgbt community with many open gay males. So I can’t figure out why its so difficult for me to just say it myself.

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Fired Gay Priest Calls Catholic Church 'Violently Homophobic'

Fired Gay Priest Calls Catholic Church 'Violently Homophobic'

The Roman Catholic Church is “frequently violently homophobic” and makes LGBT Catholics’ lives “a hell,” says a priest who was fired by the Vatican after coming out as gay.

Krzysztof Charamsa, who held a post at the Vatican until early October, expressed these sentiments in a letter to Pope Francis, written the same day as his coming-out announcement, the BBC reports. Charamsa provided the network with a copy.

In the letter, he takes the church to task for “persecuting” and bringing “immeasurable suffering” to LGBT Catholics and their loved ones. After a “long and tormented period of discernment and prayer,” he wrote, he decided to “publicly reject the violence of the Church towards homosexual, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual and intersexual people.”

He denounced the “homophobic hate of the Church, the exclusion, the marginalisation and the stigmatisation of people like me,” and said that while there are many gay people in the church, including clergy, the institution is  “frequently violently homophobic.” He urged “all gay cardinals, gay bishops and gay priests [to] have the courage to abandon this insensitive, unfair and brutal Church.”

Charamsa thanked Pope Francis for some of his conciliatory remarks about LGBT people but said they will be meaningful only if the church reverses some of its attitudes. The priest condemned a statement by Francis’s predecessor, Pope Benedict XVI, that homosexuality is “a strong tendency ordered toward an intrinsic moral evil,” and he said the church should nullify its policy barring men with “deep-seated homosexual tendencies” from the priesthood.

Despite the policy, there are gay Catholic priests, Charamsa said. But he has noted previously that during his time at the Vatican, he had met only the occasional “isolated” one, and no “gay lobby,” said to exist by a variety of observers, even Pope Francis.

Trudy Ring

www.advocate.com/religion/2015/10/29/fired-gay-priest-calls-catholic-church-violently-homophobic

GOTLV: Get out the Lesbian Vote in 2015

GOTLV: Get out the Lesbian Vote in 2015
Every day, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and queer women make herstory. It is made by each of us, often times in ways that may be underappreciated or unrecognized. But when we work together, our power as LGBTQ women manifests one by one, in our communities, and in our actions to help change the world. Whether we are volunteering or running non-profits, cracking the glass ceiling as business leaders or challenging discrimination in the law or politics – LGBTQ women are the driving force behind so much progress!

With only days until the November 3 election, LPAC is joining with LGBTQ women throughout the nation to focus our efforts on our “5 for 15” endorsements. Five women — each making her own herstory in running for mayor, or state auditor or state senator — will continue to make more communities more progressive and pro- women. But it will take the support of LGBTQ women and our allies throughout the country, and our collective power and voice, to make them successful on Election Day.

Local politics rarely receives the attention it deserves; yet, the vast majority of our interactions with our government come at this local level. And we are thrilled to endorse three dynamic mayoral candidates:

Jackie Biskupski is a vanguard, as the first out woman in the Utah State Assembly. Now, she is running to be the first out lesbian mayor of Salt Lake City, where she’d also be the first single mother in that role; in fact she’d only be the second woman mayor of the city! Ginny Deerin would be the first out bisexual mayor in America, if she is wins her election in Charleston, South Carolina. She has been a long-time civic leader, both as an advisor to the current mayor, and as a proven non-profit leader. Ginny Foat is seeking to become the mayor of Palm Springs, California, where she has spent over a decade serving on the city council.

As the LGBTQ community seeks to expand our power into every state in the union – beyond the comfortable confines of urban centers or progressive states, we’re honored to endorse Joce Pritchett, who is the first out gay or lesbian candidate ever to run for statewide office in Mississippi. Joce is running for state auditor and this highly accomplished Mississippi business leader wants to bring integrity and ethics to state government in Mississippi. She wants to be a public servant on the state government level, but Joce has already helped change the dialogue for LGBTQ women in the south.

Finally, we must continue to celebrate our allies – particularly in races against the most challenging of opponents. Dr. Jill McCabe is a proud LGBTQ ally who is running to unseat one of the worst state legislators for women and our LGBTQ community in the country, in Northern Virginia’s Loudoun County.

These five women represent the power that every one of us has to change the world. Together, LPAC’s supporters’ donations and activism can make a meaningful impact in these five races. And in turn, these five candidates can have tremendous impacts in their communities – from municipal employment non-discrimination bans to fair housing, from protecting women’s health in their communities to standing up for pay equity and social justice. Each vote for mayor, each contribution to an auditor’s campaign, each phone call on behalf of a state senate candidate are all small acts of civic participation which can help our LGBTQ community build and sustain our political power. Join us in supporting LPAC’s #5for15.

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News: Paul Ryan, Scientology, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Rachel Maddow, Frank Kameny Memorial

News: Paul Ryan, Scientology, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Rachel Maddow, Frank Kameny Memorial

5154dbccf7d6ed91da15dda46ac0e497MR. SPEAKER: Paul Ryan elected Speaker of the House. Here’s a look at his less-than-friendly record on LGBT issues. 

SCIENTOLOGY: More details about what to expect from Leah Remini’s 20/20 interview tomorrow night.

MEN: There are infinite reasons to love Tom Hardy.

MOVIES: HBO to do the first ever “midnight streaming” of The Rocky Horror Picture Show on Halloween to celebrate the cult classic’s 40th anniversary.

patrickFITNESS: Patrick Schwarzenegger jokes about the struggle to stay in-shape for shirtless scene in upcoming movie Midnight Sun.

STUDENT LOANS: An ugly provision in the budget deal that will allow student loan debt collector to bombard borrowers via auto-dialers: “And lest you imagine this is just the work of outgoing Speaker John Boehner, who has close ties to debt collections industry lobbyists, or his pro-corporate, consent-hostile party, President Obama is fully on board, too.”

JEB!: Noted statistician Nate Silver doesn’t like Bush’s odds“There are plenty of times when the conventional wisdom is right. This is probably one of those times.”

DEMOCRATS: Rachel Maddow to host second Democratic debate, er, forum: “The First in the South Democratic Candidates Forum,” sponsored by the South Carolina Democratic Party, is not to be confused with the second of six sanctioned debates by the Democratic National Committee. Maddow will speak to the candidates separately on a variety of topics including the economy, policing in America, the state of the Democratic Party at the event set to air on MSNBC at 8 p.m. ET next Friday.”

edward-snowden-guardian-vidSNOWDEN: EU urges nations to grant asylum to Edward Snowden: “On Twitter, Snowden called Thursday’s vote in Brussels, which urged European Union members to drop any criminal charges against him, as a ‘game-changer.’ He added, ‘This is not a blow against the U.S. Government, but an open hand extended by friends. It is a chance to move forward.’”

VETERANS: Dedication of memorial in honor of gay rights icon Frank Kameny set for Veterans Day: “The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs gave final approval of the memorial marker headstone for Kameny earlier this month and was expected to deliver the stone to Congressional Cemetery the first week of November. The event marks the end of four years of disagreements and lawsuits over Kameny’s estate, his remains and how to honor the gay pioneer.”

HALLOWEEN: Chris Colfer gets his Halloween on.

Guess what we are! 🎃pic.twitter.com/uqGiHt38SM

— Chris Colfer (@chriscolfer) October 25, 2015

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News: Paul Ryan, Scientology, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Rachel Maddow, Frank Kameny Memorial

Anderson Cooper Knows Fantasy, But Fantasy Football? Not So Much

Anderson Cooper Knows Fantasy, But Fantasy Football? Not So Much

Anderson Cooper knows many, many things. But the out CNN anchor is the first to admit sports is not his forte. 

During a late-night panel discussion on CNN, Democratic strategist Donna Brazile brought up the moment in Wednesday’s Republican presidential debate when New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie “slammed everyone for talking about fantasy football.”  

There were chuckles as Republican strategist Ana Navarro said to Brazile: “You’re going to ask Anderson Cooper about fantasy football?”

“Are you looking at me?” Cooper deadpanned. Navarro observed, “The look of sheer terror in his eyes right now…”

“You had me at fantasy,” Cooper told Brazile. “But football, you lost me.”

“Let’s not get there, babe,” Brazile replied. 

“Someone had to tell me the World Series is going on right now,” offered Cooper. 

Watch the clip from CNN via AC360’s page on Facebook, below.

“You had me at fantasy, but football you lost me” Anderson Cooper at the moment the #GOPDebate discussion turned from politics to sports. cnn.it/1N9LdMZ

Posted by Anderson Cooper 360 on Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Dawn Ennis

www.advocate.com/television/2015/10/29/anderson-cooper-knows-fantasy-fantasy-football-not-so-much

Irish LGBT Group's Final Roadblock to Much Needed Resource Centre

Irish LGBT Group's Final Roadblock to Much Needed Resource Centre
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Teach Solais (Source: Amach LGBT Galway via Facebook)

In July of this year, I was back in my West of Ireland hometown of Galway to attend a film festival and my trip coincided with a fund-raising event for the town’s first ever LGBT resource centre, Teach Solais (translated as ‘Lighthouse’ in English), held by a community group called AMACH, which is the Irish word for ‘Out.’

The board of AMACH is made up of some of my hometown’s longest and hardest working campaigners for LGBT rights and visibility in the West of Ireland. Notably, one of its members, Nuala Ward, organized the first ever Gay Pride parade in Galway over twenty-five years ago.

In mentioning Galway’s first ‘Pride parade’ however, you would have to understand that we’re talking about fifteen people and a tense five-minute walk down Shop St. in the summer of 1989. Assuredly, that’s an intimidating and gutsy walk to take at a time before homosexuality was even decriminalized in Ireland, in 1993.

In summer, 2015 though, attending a fundraising quiz for the new LGBT resource centre was very exciting. Contemporary queer culture categories were mixed up with questions on Irish LGBT history, politics and iconography, all illustrating strides that the wider Irish LGBT community had made over the decades.
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My team members enjoyed hearing the answers to the history questions that may not have been milestones from their own life perspectives, and I loved that. It’s hard to describe the feeling of finally finding a sense of public belonging in the city of my birth in contrast to the experiences that preceded it.

What I *can* describe, however, is that I had finally stumbled into something tangible in my town that it had always been lacking, oftentimes to my despair — an inclusive atmosphere for my family, friends and allies, that offered a focused activity which celebrated diverse knowledge, and harnessed a drive to maintain vital and accessible community outlets for LGBT people, who are often pushed to the fringes via a veritable revolving door of gay bars that open and then go out of business with routine and inexplicable regularity.

Teach Solais proposed to fill this chasm and provide vital supports and services which would benefit the overall health and well-being of LGBT people, as well as their families and friends. It would be a safe space open to the wider community to access information and participate in relevant events. It seemed like a LGBT-grounded resource that would not only work, but would also be of immense community value. It was exciting.

However this week, AMACH vice chair, Nuala Ward confirmed that funds of €25,000 which were approved in November, 2014 at a City Council meeting for the City’s budget in 2015 are now being withheld for no apparently communicable reason.

Ward claims that the City Council’s instance that “[AMACH’s] allocated financial support to the resource centre was intended to be capital support towards the long-term provision of a centre and not for rental purposes,” are verifiably untrue due to minutes documented at the November, 2014 meeting, and an accompanying 3-year cost projections report, in which rental provisions were indeed specified.

Social Democrat candidate for Galway-West/South-Mayo, Niall O’Tuathail, who was a visible campaigner for the Yes vote in the Irish Marriage Equality referendum, surmised, “Everyone knows that public funds are tight but a council trying to lie its way out of commitments is not the way local government should work. The council must release this funding as soon as possible so that AMACH can continue its work.”

Crushingly, the phantom funding issue is a potential death blow to the Teach Solais project if Galway City Council are unable to account for this apparent ‘mismanagement’ of funds that they had previously allocated to the much needed resource centre. And now, more than ever, Irish localities need councillors that can show that they are capable of adequately serving diverse communities, such as that with which Galway is so blessed.

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Galway Community Pride (Source: Amach LGBT Galway via Facebook)

Perhaps this question of misrepresentation points to a larger problem that everyone in Ireland simply has to become very aware of — this misconception that in the wake of the Yes vote in the Marriage Equality referendum, that there is simply no more everyday LGBT discrimination because there is no more legal discrimination, and that allocating funding, resources or platforms of agency to LGBT initiatives is simply no longer needed.

This incorrect, dumbing down of the Irish LGBT experience, in that all we want is to just marry each other — “isn’t that enough for the gays?” — well that has to be demolished, for a start.

In a climate of the defunding of vital public services in Ireland as well as a decreasingly visible and increasingly overburdened equality infrastructure, the sad fact is that the opposite is true. We need more access to information and advocacy than ever. And Teach Solais is a grassroots beacon of this very imperative type of access.

More harsh truths: LGBT people in Ireland still have to fight for equal employment opportunities and will continue to do so, even after the upcoming amendment of Section 37.1 (which tentatively amends, not repeals, a legal right to discriminate against LGBT educators); they will have to fight with themselves, and potentially others, as to whether reporting discrimination will have more negative consequences than positive; and now they have a fight on their hands for the chance to give young LGBT people the access to resources and community activities that they themselves never had growing up.

Gary McMahon, SEO, Arts, Culture & Communications at Galway City Council responded to a request for clarification, stating:

“The issue of the grant to AMACH LGBT group was raised at the last meeting of Galway City Council held on 12th October and the Elected Members will revisit the issue at its next meeting to be held on Monday next, 2nd November.”

Despite a continuing lack of absolute clarity on the precise nature of the funding issue, Galway City Council member, Pearse Flannery made himself available for comment.

Flannery expressed that he believes that Council will work toward a resolution on the issue in the November 2nd vote.

All Photo Credits: Amach LGBT Galway via Facebook

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