Caitlyn Jenner Voices Solid Support for Marriage Equality

Caitlyn Jenner Voices Solid Support for Marriage Equality

Caitlyn Jenner, having expressed fairly tepid support for marriage equality in a recent appearance on Ellen, has now published a blog post emphasizing that she is solidly on the side of equality.

“Like many people, there was a time when I didn’t realize how important it is for gay couples to have the right to get married,” she wrote in the post, published today. “But after hearing from my gay friends and learning more about the hardships they faced because of discrimination, it became clear to me that everyone should be able to marry the person they love.”

On Ellen DeGeneres’s show earlier this month, Jenner described herself as a “traditionalist” who was not initially in favor of marriage equality. “But as time has gone on, I think, like a lot of people on this issue have really changed their thinking here to ‘I don’t ever want to stand in front of anybody’s happiness.’ If that word ‘marriage’ is really, really that important to you, I can go with it.”

DeGeneres responded that Jenner didn’t really seem “on board” with marriage equality and explained that “marriage is marriage,” and civil unions or domestic partnerships don’t have equal status. A few days later, DeGeneres appeared on Howard Stern’s Sirius XM talk show and said Jenner seemed judgmental about gay people.

Now Jenner wants everyone to know she’s unequivocally for marriage equality, and she hopes to help transgender people make the same kind of progress gay, lesbian, and bisexual people have made. “Up until my transition, I had never met another openly trans person,” she wrote. Job discrimination, sex work, ostracism from families, horrific violence… I had no idea what so many people go through to live as their true selves. It is staggering.”

“Trans rights are about 30 years behind gay rights (and look at the incredible progress we’ve made there!),” she continued. “We’ve got a lot more work to do in the trans community, but we’re getting closer. … I can only hope that by sharing my story, there’s someone out there whose mind has been changed about trans people.”

Also, while Jenner does not address the matter, marriage equality is an issue that affects transgender people. Some trans people wish to marry someone of the same gender, and even those seeking to marry a partner of the other gender still sometimes encountered obstacles when state laws against same-sex marriage were in force, if the state did not recognize their lived gender as their legal one. There have been instances of trans people being denied parenting rights, inheritances, and more because their marriages were not recognized as legally valid.  

Jenner’s post further notes that there is diversity of opinion among transgender people and that she has learned much from her new friends, including Jenny Boylan, Candis Cayne, and Chandi Moore. “One of the many lessons that these fabulous women have taught me is that — despite all being transgender — they each feel differently about particular issues,” Jenner wrote. “It’s important to have an open dialogue with the trans people in your life about their unique viewpoints and not lump us all together. Just because I think something is funny or appropriate, doesn’t mean that all trans people feel the same way and vice versa. I can only speak from my own personal experience and in no way can I represent the entire trans community. My opinion is just that, my own opinion. There’s no one way to be trans!”

 

 

Trudy Ring

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Following backlash, Caitlyn Jenner now unequivocally supportive of gay marriage

Following backlash, Caitlyn Jenner now unequivocally supportive of gay marriage

Caitlyn Jenner’s lukewarm endorsement of same-sex marriage during an appearance of The Ellen DeGeneres Show last week baffled many – including the host.

But in a WhoSay column posted Monday (14 September), Jenner tries harder to leave no doubt about where she stands on the issue.

‘Like many people, there was a time when I didn’t realize how important it is for gay couples to have the right to get married,’ she writes. ‘But after hearing from my gay friends and learning more about the hardships they faced because of discrimination, it became clear to me that everyone should be able to marry the person they love.’

Jenner, 65, had told DeGeneres: ‘I have to admit – I remember 15 years ago, 20 years ago whenever it was when the whole gay marriage issue came up – at first I was not for it.

‘I mean I thought I’m a traditionalist. I’m older than most people in the audience. I kind of like tradition and it’s always been a man and a woman. And I’m thinking I don’t quite get it. But as time has gone on, I think like a lot of people on this issue have really changed their thinking here to I don’t ever want to stand in front of anybody’s happiness. That’s not my job. … If that word marriage is really that important to you I can go with it. I’m on board. I’m okay with that,’

DeGeneres called Jenner out on the spot then later during an interview with Howard Stern: ‘She still has a judgement about gay marriage.…You’re wanting people to understand and accept you – this is like really confusing to people and you still have a judgement about gay people and marriage.’

Jenner is a Republican and been married and divorced three times.

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What Caused Tom Daley To Spray This Radio Studio (And Himself)?

What Caused Tom Daley To Spray This Radio Studio (And Himself)?

Innuendo bingo is just like regular bingo except that it incorporates none of the rules of bingo and focuses solely on innuendo.

And yet “innuendo bingo” has such a nice ring to it, so we can see why BBC Radio 1 went with the name.

In the blow, installment, Tom Daley does his best to keep his composure as he’s fed highly suggestive audio clips ranging from an antiques show to his own voice.

For the record, Tom prefers to be too tight over too loose, but who doesn’t?

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Watch below:

Dan Tracer

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What To Watch On TV This Week: Have The ‘Best Time Ever’ With NPH

What To Watch On TV This Week: Have The ‘Best Time Ever’ With NPH

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Check out our weekly guide to make sure you’re catching the big premieres, crucial episodes and the stuff you won’t admit you watch when no one’s looking.

— Can we get a volunteer? One of the last time’s we saw Neil Patrick Harris on TV, he was playing a maniacal magician on American Horror Story: Freak Show. For his next trick, he’ll be hosting the latest bid to resurrect the variety show format, Best Time Ever, Tuesday at 10 p.m. Eastern on NBC. Let’s hope it goes better than the last time he attempted to saw a girl in half.

See more picks for TV this week, below.

— Break out your finest sequined fringe, because the 21st season of Dancing With the Stars debuts tonight. This season’s cast boasts a handful of delightful divas like Chaka Khan, Real Housewives of Atlanta alum Kim Zolciak-Biermann and Tamar Braxton, as well as a few infamous faces like Gary Busey and Paula Deen. Joining them in tonight’s two-hour premiere is Alek Skarlatos, the National Guardsman who assisted taking down a gunman on a European train last month. The season twirls, spins and kicks off tonight at 8 p.m. Eastern on ABC.

— It’s a big night for dance fans. If you prefer your dancers less of the “star” variety, it’s time to crown a new champion on So You Think You Can Dance tonight at 8 p.m. Eastern on Fox. The two-hour finale won’t be completely devoid of stars, as Jenna Dewan-Tatum will hit the floor for a special performance.

— The Mindy Project joins the ranks of beloved-but-canceled series to find a second life on streaming services. The quirky comedy lands on Hulu Tuesday.

— Openly-gay YouTube superstar Tyler Oakley joins web comedian Grace Helbig as co-hosts of The 5th Annual Streamy Awards, Thursday at 10 p.m. on VH1. It’s the first time the awards will be broadcast on television, and the event will feature performances from A Great Big World, Hailee Steinfeld and Sir Mix-a-Lot.

What are you watching this week on TV?

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Do Trans People Of Color Have A Harder Time Being Accepted?

Do Trans People Of Color Have A Harder Time Being Accepted?
Model, actress, and designer Isis King may have been born biologically male, but ever since childhood she knew she was woman. Establishing a transgender identity does not come easy though, and at 23, Isis was homeless, living at a New York City LGBT shelter. After finding work as a background model for an America’s Next Top Model photo shoot, host Tyra Banks took an interest in her, and asked Isis be a part of the show’s next season. Within months, Isis was in the national spotlight as the first transgender contestant on Top Model, and she has used her platform to follow her dreams ever since – attending college for fashion design, expanding her modeling and acting career, and serving as an activist for transgender people everywhere.

Struggling for acceptance

With all the recent attention on Caitlyn Jenner, the transgender community has been in the spotlight like never before. But there is still a long way to go when it comes to acceptance and visibility for those with a little less star power. “There have been 17 murders of trans people of color in 2015 alone,” says Isis, “and there are just not a lot of opportunities for trans women of color in general.” Trans women of color have “usually no privilege” says Isis, and often have had troubled upbringings. “When you’re ostracized, when you’re kicked out of the house when you’re young, it can be difficult to find opportunity,” says Isis. Some women resort to sex work, a “dangerous profession” that unfortunately is the only job many ostracized transgender women can get. Progress is still a process; Isis implores that we are “trying to create more opportunities to make the world easier and safer for transgender women”.

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The Gay Age Gap Is Real — And It’s Annoying As Hell

The Gay Age Gap Is Real — And It’s Annoying As Hell

Screen Shot 2015-09-14 at 3.25.51 PMIf you’re of a certain age — let’s say you were alive when Star Wars was first released in theaters — you’ve probably been deep in a spirited pop culture-related conversation only to have some whippersnapper ask something like “Who’s Gena Rowlands?” or “What’s Rosemary’s Baby?” or, most criminal of all, “Who is John Waters?” That what happens in this video when a gay guy (comic master Sam Pancake) and an obnoxious young queen (rising funny man Brian Jordan Alvarez) are having a chit-chat that quickly devolves into heated conversation about cultural reference points. It’s comedy, but, you know, with a very important message and reminds us that great sex helps overcome almost any obstacle.

Watch it below and let us know about your own experiences with the gay generational gap.

Jeremy Kinser

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Kentucky Gov. Says Marriage Licenses Issued By Rowan County Deputy Clerks Are ‘Valid’ 

Kentucky Gov. Says Marriage Licenses Issued By Rowan County Deputy Clerks Are ‘Valid’ 

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Kim Davis, who spent the day hiding in her Rowan County office with the blinds shut, has been hit with yet another setback in her anti-gay crusade as Kentucky Governor Steve Beshear has clarified that marriage licenses issued by her deputy clerks will be considered valid by the state.

davisDavis’ lawyer Mat Staver had argued last week that all licenses issued while Davis was in jail were “invalid” and “not worth the paper they’re written on.” Davis herself told reporters earlier today:

I want the whole world to know, no mistake about it, that my deputy clerks do not have the authority to issue a license whatsoever.

Related: First Gay Couple Receives Marriage License in Rowan County While Kim Davis Hides

The AP reports:

Kentucky state law requires that “every license blank shall contain the identical words and figures.” But Beshear noted that the federal judge overseeing Davis’ case has not raised any objections to the licenses.

The Republican president of Kentucky’s state Senate again called for a special session of the state legislature to change state law to exempt Davis and others who share her beliefs from jabbing to issue licenses. But Beshear again rejected that on Monday.

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Kentucky Gov. Says Marriage Licenses Issued By Rowan County Deputy Clerks Are ‘Valid’ 

Mother and Daughter Assaulted in NYC by Antigay Attackers

Mother and Daughter Assaulted in NYC by Antigay Attackers

New York City police are investigating an incident that led to a mother and daughter being physically assaulted at a restaurant after being insulted with antigay slurs early Saturday morning.

The two women were eating at the BarKogi restaurant on Manhattan’s Upper East Side at 1:20 a.m. Saturday when a group of people — two men and two other women — started yelling homophobic taunts at them, reports the New York Daily News. 

The daughter, 27, had to be taken to the hospital, the Daily News reports, after being thrown to the ground and suffering a cut knee, while the 46-year-old mother declined medical help. She had been held down by the attackers. 

Police have yet to arrest any of the four suspects, who are wanted on misdemeanor assault charges, according to the paper.

Raffy Ermac

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Isis King's Advice To Those Who Feel They Are In The Wrong Body

Isis King's Advice To Those Who Feel They Are In The Wrong Body
Model, actress, and designer Isis King may have been born biologically male, but ever since childhood she knew she was woman. Establishing a transgender identity does not come easy though, and at 23, Isis was homeless, living at a New York City LGBT shelter. After finding work as a background model for an America’s Next Top Model photo shoot, host Tyra Banks took an interest in her, and asked Isis be a part of the show’s next season. Within months, Isis was in the national spotlight as the first transgender contestant on Top Model, and she has used her platform to follow her dreams ever since – attending college for fashion design, expanding her modeling and acting career, and serving as an activist for transgender people everywhere.

When did Isis realize that something was “different”?
According to her, “as early as she could remember!” From the age of two or three, “everything I did felt out of place,” she says. She didn’t feel comfortable being in the boys bathroom, or being around other boys. But the pressures from family and community didn’t make things easy. She says she would be “punished for doing things that weren’t boyish,” and the fear of opening up was enough to keep her from revealing the truth until much later in life.

Education through… Maury?
Part of her problem was awareness. Growing up, Isis didn’t even know being transgender was a “thing”. The concept wasn’t introduced to her until long after she had noticed her differences. When she was about “7 or 8 years old”, she was watching an episode of Maury that featured, in sensational fashion, a transgender person. “When I saw that, I said, ‘That’s me! I get it!” This was the first time she was able to put a word, or an idea, to her own identity, as silly as the context may have been. The courage to actually come out would come much later.

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Gay couple on How To Get Away With Murder to navigate living with HIV

Gay couple on How To Get Away With Murder to navigate living with HIV

When How To Get Away With Murder’s gay couple Connor and Oliver got tested for HIV towards the end of the show’s first season, it seemed that the very promiscuous law student Connor was the one at most risk.

But it turned out that computer nerd Oliver (Conrad Ricamora) was the one who tested positive while Connor (Jack Falahee) did not.

Show creator Peter Norwalk sees the twist as an opportunity to offer viewers a storyline about living with HIV in 2015.

‘Our goal is to treat that in a very realistic and contemporary way,’ Norwalk tells Entertainment Weekly. ‘How do you live with an HIV positive gay man as a boyfriend?’

Connor initially hooked up with Connor early last season to use him for his tech skills. Oliver developed feelings for him but broke things off when he discovered Connor had slept with someone else to get information.

But after Connor and his classmates become entangled in the murder of their law professor’s husband, he ran back to Oliver and was able to eventually win him back.

‘We take it to places I hope viewers don’t expect coming,’ Norwalk promises. ‘Especially now that Oliver is a huge security blanket in Connor’s life and a necessary balance to all the murder.’

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