D.C. Meteorologist Strikes a Pose with Sassy Madonna Forecast: WATCH

D.C. Meteorologist Strikes a Pose with Sassy Madonna Forecast: WATCH

Mike Thomas Madonna forecast

D.C. meteorologist Mike Thomas, you may remember his Taylor Swift forecast back in July, spent four hours with his team on Friday concocting a Madonna forecast ahead of her Rebel Heart Tour opening night.

“Now some boys try and some boys lie but I don’t let them play. I’m gonna nail this forecast today, says Thomas, diving in to his material girl forecast. “Don’t just stand there, let’s get to it. Strike a pose there’s nothing to it.”

Adds Thomas: “Life is a mystery and everyone must stand alone. And I will stand alone as I predict yes, we have seen the last of the 90’s for the year here in Washington so cherish this cooler air moving in from the west….Some parts of the region will be touched for the very first time by rain this month on Saturday, so grab, grab that umbrella as you head down to the concert….Yes, rain, feel it on my fingertips and hear it on my window pane. Now you’re thinking, papa, don’t preach, we’re in trouble deep, but fear not there is a ray of light.”

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25 Groups That Work With Rape Victims Think The Safe Campus Act Is Terrible

25 Groups That Work With Rape Victims Think The Safe Campus Act Is Terrible

A bill being considered in the House that would restrict colleges from punishing students accused of sexual assault is meeting near-universal opposition from advocacy organizations who work with rape victims.

The Safe Campus Act, originally sponsored by Republican Reps. Matt Salmon of Arizona, and Pete Sessions and Kay Granger of Texas, would prohibit colleges and universities from punishing a student accused of sexual assault and battery unless the reporting victim also goes to police with the complaint. 

Twenty-five advocacy organizations working with sexual assault victims contacted by The Huffington Post in recent days said they are opposed to the bill. A handful declined to take a policy position, but no group working with or on behalf of rape victims offered to endorse the legislation. 

Under the Safe Campus Act, colleges would still be allowed to punish a student for illegal acts like selling drugs, stealing or physical assault regardless of police involvement, but sexual assault and battery would be off limits unless the reporting victim goes to cops in addition to school administrators.

In one scenario that could be envisioned under the bill, a student could accuse a classmate of sexual assault, and also accuse the classmate of harassing her in the hallways by pinching her butt — but if she doesn’t want to report the incidents to police, then the university would only be allowed to discipline the accused student for the hallway harassment.

Monika Johnson-Hostler, president of the National Alliance to End Sexual Violence; Annette Burrhus-Clay, executive director of the Texas Association Against Sexual Assault; and Allie Bones, executive director of the Arizona Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence, sent a letter in August to the sponsors of the Safe Campus Act to express their “grave concern” with the bill. 

Higher education institutions have long “exercised authority to sanction their students for policy violations, regardless of whether the conduct also constitutes a crime,” Johnson-Hostler, Burrhus-Clay and Bones said in their letter, shared with The Huffington Post. They added: “Campuses are obligated to determine whether or not a student violated school policy and to protect the civil rights of the victim.”

The three also questioned why sexual assault was the only crime and form of student misconduct for which due process concerns are raised.

“We don’t force victims of other crimes to interact with police and file reports and initiate a criminal justice investigation,” said Kristen Houser, chief public affairs officer for the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape.

Colleges and universities are obligated under the gender equity law Title IX to address reports of sexual violence, due to a series of court decisions and guidance from the U.S. Department of Education. Currently, when a student reports that they were sexually assaulted by a peer, regardless of whether they decide to engage law enforcement, the college may investigate and discipline the accused under the school’s code of conduct.

Johnson-Hostler, Burrhus-Clay and Bones said in their letter that this is similar to obligations an employer has when one employee accuses another of harassment or assault. 

“The campus process and criminal process are two separate and distinct processes with different purposes and goals,” Johnson-Hostler told HuffPost. “Campuses should be able to continue their process regardless of the student’s decision to move forward with a policy report.”

Sometimes a district attorney may decline to press charges, but the university may still determine an accused student violated the school’s code of conduct and issue a sanction. In rare cases, a college may dismiss a student’s report of sexual assault, but a criminal trial may still find the accused guilty of an attack, as recently occurred at Baylor University. 

The Safe Campus Act would change that by requiring colleges to send cases to police first. 

“It sends the message that if you didn’t go to law enforcement, then what happened to you wasn’t real and wasn’t important, and that is the opposite of the culture we’re trying to create,” said Sofie Karasek, director of education and co-founder of End Rape on Campus. 

Several higher education trade organizations immediately distanced themselves from the bill when it was introduced in July, saying they don’t believe it would address their concerns about federal regulations regarding sexual assault. Activists went on the offensive against the legislation last week as a hearing in the House Education and Workforce Committee began to discuss the proposed law. 

National fraternity and sorority groups are working to promote the bill, after suggesting earlier this year that schools restrict campus rape investigations until after a criminal investigation and trial are completed. The organizations have declined to make anyone available to HuffPost for an interview. 

“It would be really great if the Greek system would own up to this problem and say, ‘We haven’t been perfect, we’re far from perfect,’ but instead they’re trying to sweep it under the rug even further,” Karasek said. “It’s exactly the opposite of what we were hoping they would do.”

Salmon, Sessions and Granger’s offices did not respond to requests for comment. The North-American Interfraternity Conference and the National Panhellenic Conference also did not respond to request for comment for this story. 

 

Statements from representatives from sexual assault victim advocacy organizations in opposition to the Safe Campus Act:

 

Savannah Badalich, founder of the Bruin Consent Coalition at UCLA:Many survivors don’t feel comfortable with going through a criminal justice process and do not have access to resources to maintain a case/attend court hearings/etc. Their comfortability may relate to their identity, as students of color and undocumented students do not feel comfortable going to law enforcement due to historical context of systematic oppression. I was once told by a survivor of color, ‘if you don’t think the death of Michael Brown or Eric Garner or activism happening in Ferguson has everything to do with why I didn’t report my rape to the police, you have no idea about my experience or how to advocate for me.’ 

“Reporting to the criminal justice system often takes an incredibly long time for a case to be investigated, prosecuted, and a decision to be made. In the meantime, a survivor has to deal with the presence of their perpetrator on campus — which directly affects their access to an education and that is prohibited under Title IX. These are some of the many reasons, but ultimately, it is the university’s responsibility under Title IX to protect students from sex discrimination and to allow for an equal opportunity for access to their education. The (un)Safe Campus Act does the exact opposite.”

John Foubert, president of One In Four:  “There are many reasons why a rape survivor would want to report an incident to her campus — where the result could be expulsion with a preponderance of the evidence standard — versus potential seeing a perpetrator go to prison under a beyond a reasonable doubt standard.  This colossally stupid legislation is opposed strenuously by One in Four.”

Peg Langhammer, executive director of Day One in Rhode Island:With regard to these provisions, we believe first and foremost that the victim should remain in the driver’s seat, maintaining control at all times. … Women have always had the choice whether or not to involve law enforcement in cases of sexual assault. Ideally, yes, victims would involve law enforcement in most cases. But we know that is not always the reality. In fact, less than 20 percent of college sexual assaults are reported. We know there are various reasons why victims seldom want to report. However, there still needs to be some kind of investigation on campus to keep students safe. The majority of these perpetrators are repeat offenders, putting even more students at risk. Whether or not law enforcement is involved should be irrelevant when it comes to student safety.”

Shaina Brown, communications manager for the California Coalition Against Sexual Assault: “One of the more alarming pieces of the Safe Campus Act is really the conflation of the campus adjudication process and the criminal justice process. When we start to make one rely on the outcome of the other we don’t allow them to operate in their separate spaces. They have different implications both for the survivor and the accused.” 

Nita Chaudhary, co-founder and co-executive director of UltraViolet: “UltraViolet stands with countless rape survivors who oppose the so-called ‘Safe Campus Act,’ that in reality would make campuses even less safe for far too many. An assault should never force a student to have to withdraw from college — Title IX is designed to ensure equal access to education, and this bill completely undermines that.  Put simply, police departments and courtrooms are not friendly or welcoming places for many survivors of rape. There are myriad reasons why a survivor might be uncomfortable reporting to the police, from invasive questions to fear of retribution, especially for survivors of color and international students. Survivors should still receive accommodations on campus even if they cannot, or do not feel comfortable, seeking justice through the courts.”

Jasmine Lester, founder of Sun Devils Against Sexual Assault at Arizona State University: “Sun Devils Against Sexual Assault does not support the Safe Campus Act because police are often hostile to survivors of sexual violence, especially survivors of color. Police have historically re-traumatized and mistreated survivors, and when sexual violence is reported to police the perpetrators are rarely prosecuted. Reporting to police can also put a victim in danger of retaliation from their attacker. … Sexual violence robs victims of power over their bodies, their minds, and their futures Survivors need to feel like they have choices. The option not to report to police but still have schools investigate is imperative.”

The Victim Rights Law Center in Boston said in an email they “STRONGLY OPPOSE” the bill.

Sarah Merriman, spokeswoman for Students Active For Ending Rape: “Survivors should be able to choose the path they want to their definition of justice and healing. We cannot support legislation taking away one form of campus resource if a survivor wants to opt out of interaction with law enforcement.”

Laura Dunn, a sexual assault survivor who founded SurvJustice, an attorney advocacy firm: “This legislation exemplifies the limited understanding many have about the nature of sexual violence It is more than a crime, it is a civil rights violation based in discrimination.”

Jennifer L. Dritt, executive director of the Florida Council Against Sexual Violence: “We strongly oppose that provision of the Safe Campus Act. Institutions of higher education have for years been disciplining students for conduct violations, including criminal acts, regardless of whether the students are defendants in a criminal case.”

Jeanne Ronayne, executive director of the Minnesota Coalition Against Sexual Assault: “We know many victims don’t report their assault and some of the things that keep victims from reporting their assault are only going to be exacerbated if we close pathways for victims to seek justice. … No, we haven’t written off the criminal justice system, but we still believe it needs to be a victim’s choice and unforunately many victims still make that choice based on how the current system operates.”

Patricia H. Davis, CEO of Aequitae, Title IX Center:  “The Safe Campus Act would upend current Title IX protections for students and colleges for no good reason. Under the current Title IX, VAWA, Clery Act compliance structure, Colleges do NOT adjudicate criminal issues on their campuses via their investigation/hearing board processes.  Colleges cannot impose criminal penalties.  Colleges are required, however, to investigate and adjudicate violations of their own student and campus conduct policies. Penalties meted out where students are found ‘responsible for’ sexual assault are much less severe than criminal penalties. Under the Safe Campus Act, colleges would find themselves unable to investigate some of the most serious violations of their own conduct codes unless students reported these violations to law enforcement.”

Kristen Houser, chief public affairs officer for the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape:Campuses definitely have a responsibility to handle misconduct that happens on their campus and by students or employees. What makes anything related to sexual assault difficult is we get a really emotional and knee-jerk response to it, and part of that emotion is we have to lock up all the perpetrators in perpetuity, which isn’t always the case. … Both systems certainly can be flawed and both systems can be retraumatizing. There’s no perfect remedy, unfortunately, if there were one we would be advocating for it.” 

Lara S. Kaufmann, senior counsel at the National Women’s Law Center:It directly conflicts with [a college’s] obligations under Title IX and deprives that student of their civil right to an equal opportunity to get an education, and not feel like she’s in a hostile environment. Under the bill, a student maybe could be expelled for plagiarism but not for raping someone. That’s not the message that schools should be sending to students.”

Monika Johnson-Hostler, speaking as a member of the NO MORE Steering Committee:I believe this will gravely impact survivors coming forward. This process is not trauma informed, victim centered and doesn’t allow survivors to make the best decision for themselves. Many survivors don’t report to policy for various reasons including fear of not being believed, fear of being revictimized by the criminal justice process or fear of biases (racial, gender and/or LGTQI). Believe it or not some victims also want other options of accountability such as treatment, on campus accommodations and the hope they will not rape again.”

Meghan Warner, past director of the Sexual Assault Commission in the University of California-Berkeley student government, and co-chair of Greeks Against Sexual Assault: “The criminal justice system has had a bad history with sexual violence: not believing survivors, not even writing down their reports, requiring evidence of physical resistance, even punishing some survivors who they believe are lying. Police have also been the perpetrators of violence, especially against women of color. The criminal justice process is expensive, timely, and traumatizing, often requiring that the survivor repeat their story multiple times to people who do not understand even the basics of how trauma affects memory. As a survivor, I would never report to the police. The last thing I would want to do is share my story with a stranger in a uniform, with a gun, who treats me like a possible criminal.” 

Dana Bolger, co-founder of Know Your IX: “Some states still don’t recognize men as victims of rape, leaving them without recourse in the criminal legal system. For undocumented student survivors, reporting to law enforcement can trigger deportation proceedings. And for student survivors from heavily policed and criminalized communities, interacting with law enforcement can feel like the furthest thing from safe. Who do you turn to for protection when the very people entrusted to do so are agents of violence against you? For many student survivors, the answer has been their college.” 

Lisa Maatz, vice president of governmental relations at the American Association of University Women: “We know that there are issues in terms of gender bias in policing and racial bias in policing. For women of color to mandate that they report to law enforcement is a great way to ensure that they don’t report to anybody.”

Dominic W. Holt, public policy and communications coordinator for the Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault: “This provision would significantly reduce the choices and control that sexual assault survivors have after an assault. Survivors should have as much control as possible over their lives after an assault. Survivors should also be empowered to make their own choices, especially whether to report the assault. Currently, the vast majority of survivors of sexual assault do not report the crime for many valid reasons. This bill could create even more barriers to survivors reporting, which would reduce the number of survivors getting the help they need and perpetrators held accountable.”

National Alliance to End Sexual Violence, Texas Association Against Sexual Assault and Arizona Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence:

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Tyler Kingkade covers higher education and sexual violence, and is based in New York. You can contact him at [email protected], or on Twitter: @tylerkingkade

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US group uses humor to slam Kim Davis

US group uses humor to slam Kim Davis

Hopefully Kim Davis drives past the billboards of Planting Peace. The global nonprofit organization has taken out a number of public ads, making fun of the Kentucky county clerk. On the right, there’s a picture of three goats and a cow. To their  left, a message that will make your day.

‘Dear Kim Davis,’ the ad says. ‘The fact that you can’t sell your daughter for three goats and a cow means we’re already redefined marriage.’

On its site, the group gives a great explanation why its adding a voice to the Davis firestorm.

‘The intent of the billboard is to expose this narrow interpretation by Davis and others that they use to defend their discrimination against the LGBTQ community,’ the group says.

‘It is important and relevant to call this out, because these messages and actions are not simply about a political or religious debate. There are LGBTQ youth across the world who are taking their lives at an alarming rate because of these messages from society that make them feel broken or less than. We have to meet hate with love…intolerance with compassion.’

Hard to disagree with that. Go give Planting Peace some money. Always good to support allies who do good work.

UPDATE: Aaron Jackson, president of Planting Peace, sent GSN an email.

‘Our message to our LGBTQ youth is simple,’ Jackson’s note said. ‘You are loved, valued, supported, and beautiful. There is nothing wrong with you, and we will stand by you. You are not alone.’

h/t: Phillymag.com

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Elton John Lobbies for LGBT Rights in Ukraine, Says He’d Like to Meet Putin: VIDEO

Elton John Lobbies for LGBT Rights in Ukraine, Says He’d Like to Meet Putin: VIDEO

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Sir Elton John, accompanied by his husband David Furnish, met with Ukrainian President Petro Poroshenko in Kiev on Saturday to lobby him on LGBT rights after speaking at the  Yalta European Strategy forum where he spoke on the same topic.

The Kyiv Post reports:

He came with a simple plea for Ukrainians to support tolerance and equal rights for all – regardless of race or sexual orientation.

Ukrainians still have much progress to make in accepting homosexuality, John said, citing the foiled attempt by 250 people to hold a gay pride parade in Kyiv in June. John noted that the location had to be kept secret and that twice as many riot-police officers were called to duty as marchers. And still, the singer noted, the gay-rights marchers were attacked.

“The march lasted all of 10 minutes,” John said in Kyiv’s Mystetskyi Arsenal. “This happened in this city weeks ago. So I am telling you we have a long way to go.”

John said that as Ukraine tries to break free from its old patterns and create a “new” nation, it should adopt the values of tolerance and respect for human rights. Not only is it the morally right stance, but John said that the economy will be more prosperous when employers embrace diversity.

John also spoke with the BBC after the meeting, telling the news outlet that he would like to meet with Russian President Vladimir Putin:

“I’d love to meet him [Putin], I’d love to sit down and talk to him. It’s probably pie in the sky but unless you try, unless you put your foot in the water, your toe in the water … at least if I meet him and say, ‘Listen, come on, let’s have a cup of tea, let’s talk about this’, he might laugh behind my back and then he shuts the door and call me an absolute idiot but at least I can have a conscience and say I’d tried.”

Watch a report from Ukraine Today:

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Burning Man Promoters Are Considering A Lawsuit Against Quiznos Over Parody Video

Burning Man Promoters Are Considering A Lawsuit Against Quiznos Over Parody Video

Screen-Shot-2015-09-12-at-5.22.26-PMYou wouldn’t think the Burning Man festival could still be mined for parody after having just wrapped its 29th annual installment, but some impressively sly copywriters at Quiznos have just cooked up a lighthearted (and not cheaply produced) faux movie trailer that effortlessly skewers the weeklong “Utopian” arts showcase.

Related: Welcome to the Gayborhood at Burning Man, 2015

Out of the Maze and into the Playa was posted to YouTube with little to no fanfare earlier this week, one day after Burning Man ran its course on Monday. The plot finds a cadre of hip, slightly airy young people sent to Burning Man as a test of their mettle. “Welcome to Burning Man,” crows a gruff Burner as the characters begin their jiggly journey. “The world outside is hanging on by a very thin, non-GMO, cruelty-free, oragnic hemp thread. Beyond this tent flap lies the beginning of your new lives as Burners.”

Well, in a news nugget that might make actual Burners feel even queasier than already do today, USA Today reports that Burning Man organizers aren’t particularly good sports when The Man in question decided to do a little burning back.

Related: It’s Flashy, It’s Techy, It’s Super Gay — It’s “Burning Man: The Musical”

Burning Man spokesman Jim Graham claims they take issue with the clip and are strongly considering taking legal action — not, he says, because of the breezy mockery it makes of the 70,000-person event, but because the video (which includes a human car wash, a unicorn car that shoots fireballs, back rubs, and some dippy hippies wearing backpacks) is stealing the event’s intellectual property rights.

“We are pretty proactive about protecting our 10 principles,” Graham officiously claims, in a statement that doesn’t altogether jibe with the free-for-all spirit of the event. “We get quite a number of requests each year from companies wanting to gift participants with their product, or to capture imagery or video of their products at the event, and we turn them all down.”

Watch Burn Trial – Out of the Maze and into the Playa below:

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Coming Out to My Grandparents: A Love Story

Coming Out to My Grandparents: A Love Story
My grandparents were born and raised during very prejudiced times.

Despite that fact, throughout my life I only witnessed them demonstrate unconditional love towards others, towards one another, and towards me. Because of that I have always had a remarkably close and sacred relationship with them. They were the first–and the only–people I sat down with to ‘officially’ come out to.

Other people in my life had either already assumed that I was gay or figured it out organically. For the most part of my adult life, I was determined to just be me. I didn’t try to hide my sexuality, but I also didn’t go out of my way to publicly label myself. Whatever people thought was fine with me. But because of the special relationship I had with my grandparents, it was important to me that I had a proper talk with them about it. 

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Every New Year’s Eve, for many years, I would decline invitations to cool parties and instead spend the evening with my grandparents. It was on one of those nights that I knew it was time for the talk.

I was nervous. It was late. My grandfather had just fallen asleep, and that left me–after a bottle of Prosecco–alone with my grandmother with just enough courage to start talking.

“Grandma, I need to tell you something. You may want to sit down.”

She sat down and said, “What is it, Mandy?” That was their pet name for me.

“Well, I’m in a relationship with (name of girlfriend at the time), and we’re not just friends. We’re like … a thing … we’re … a couple.”

At that moment, my grandmother took a deep breath, closed her eyes and started shaking her head. I panicked thinking, Oh no what have I done? I couldn’t handle the thought of disappointing them. What if what I just revealed made them feel differently about me and changed our relationship? My heart sank to my stomach. Just when I could feel it ready to explode my grandmother opened her eyes, glared at me, and in a stern voice said, “But she is just so bossy to you!”

Wait. What?

She went on to give me the lecture of my life about not letting others boss me around, about how I deserved to be treated, and how I needed to stand up for myself. 

God love her.

I got up from the chair, went to the other side of the table, gave her a massive hug and showered her with kisses. Then I cried.

The next day my grandfather heard the news. Still to this day when I think about his response I get overwhelmed with emotion. While he probably already knew, after getting confirmation that I was indeed gay, all he cared about was that when I found the one that I would be committed to loving and honoring them with all of my heart and that they would love and honor me in the same way.

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My grandfather past away last September-shortly after Grandparents Day-after a long battle with Parkinson’s. During the last year of his life, even though he was in an electric wheel chair and it would take him an hour to get from one end of the room to the other, even though he could barely take care of himself, he’d still make the journey to my grandmother’s dresser and lay out her pajamas for her before they’d go to bed.

He did that every night.

On the day my grandfather died we all could sense the time had arrived. About an hour before he passed away my grandmother went to her bedroom, put on her finest outfit and fixed herself up to look beautiful for him. She came back out, sat beside him on his hospice bed and held his hand. She begin to tell him some of the most touching things that I’d ever heard one lover speak to another – about how she felt about him, their love and the life they shared together. She thanked him for loving her so well and let him know that Jesus was waiting for him, that it was ok for him to go and that she would be taken care of.

My grandparents, Don and Maxine Hite, were married for over 64 years.

When I think about the type of unconditional love we hope to receive from others when we come out and the type of unconditional love we hope to share with another for the rest of our lives, I think of them. That’s the type of love we come out for.

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Obergefell attorneys want more than $1 million in fees and expenses

Obergefell attorneys want more than $1 million in fees and expenses

The Ohioan attorneys who took on the Obergefell case filed a request Friday for more than $1,100,000 (€891,223) in expenses and legal fees for the case.

They argue the case was difficult and resulted in the landmark change of the laws regarding marriage, and note few attorneys would have otherwise taken on the case.

Jim Obergefell sued the state of Ohio’s health director for refusing to list him as the surviving spouse of his husband, Jim Arthur – the two were married in Maryland.

The state case grew to a national campaign in the United States to legalize gay marriage in the country.

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BrokeFit: Best Bang for Your Buck Food Options — Cottage Cheese

BrokeFit: Best Bang for Your Buck Food Options — Cottage Cheese

Brandon-small-with-logoWhen you’re trying to eat healthy on a budget, some meals that you come up with can be somewhat…adventurous combinations, to say the least. More than anything, you need to be willing to try some things that you normally wouldn’t consider, for the sake of good sources of your macros (here’s a quick guide to macronutrients for those who aren’t familiar with the term). Today, I want to talk about my favorite go-to protein source: Cottage cheese!

This stuff was crucial to bodybuilders before big ol’ tubs of whey protein were readily available. It’s also a great vegetarian option as well. Obviously, this isn’t exactly the best choice for paleo fans or vegans because it’s dairy, but again, this is about being as healthy and strong as possible while on a broke budget. Consider it an extreme “in case of emergency” option if you are simply against dairy. Per each 4 oz serving, it’s high in protein (about 14g), low in carbs (about 5g), and only ranges from 0 to 5g of fat. You’re also getting a nice little kick of calcium in there, as well as a handful of other minerals. You can usually find this stuff for pretty cheap: a 1 lb. tub usually goes for about $1.80 to $3.00, depending on brand and store sales.

One of the greatest components of cottage cheese is that it is a casein protein, which digests a bit slower, therefore keeping you fuller for longer. I know some people hate this stuff: the texture the taste, color, whatever. But as I mentioned before, a limited budget can really force someone to get creative. Mix some avocado in with it, or make it a macro-balanced, parfait-style meal with a nut and dried fruit trail mix.

Bottom line: This stuff will keep you bulked and strong when the wallet is hurtin’!

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Time To Get Clerks Out Of The Marriage License Business For Good

Time To Get Clerks Out Of The Marriage License Business For Good

MarriageLicenseWAIf there’s one thing we’ve learned from the Kim Davis saga, it’s that it only takes one forgiven Christian (or hypocrite in more ecumenical language) to make a mockery of the Supreme Court marriage equality ruling.

Most times, county clerks are the keeper of the local records–in essence, the guardian of local government filing cabinets. But as we learned from Davis’s case, when it comes to marriage at least, clerks can take a routine matter and turn it into a public statement, at the expense of whoever happens to be in the way of their beliefs. And for this taxpayers are hit with her $80,000 salary plus benefits.

So here’s an idea: Let’s get clerks out of the business of issuing marriage licenses.

Ostensibly, the reason clerks issue marriage licenses is to verify that the couple getting married is who they say they are. The county also has a more-than-passing interest in collecting the license fee. But there’s no reason clerks have to be the arbiters of identity.

Think about virtually any other permit that you may require from your local government. In many municipalities, you can request the permit online and never have to show up in the clerk’s office. (Although let’s face it: Governments are not exactly AirBnb or Uber when it comes to technology.)  The county can collect the fee through its website (and is happy to do so, since it reduces staff time).

And what about verifying identity? After all, people could otherwise obtain marriage licenses fraudulently, claiming to be who they aren’t (or of age when they’re not).

Consider this: you can pay for an airline ticket to anywhere in the world, without ever interacting with a person who questions your right to fly. The proof point comes at the time of the event itself: when it’s departure time. Then the TSA agent checks to make sure that you are, indeed, you.

So why isn’t it the same with marriage? Officiants are the last stop before the event itself. Checking ID is no more complicated for them than for county clerks, but a lot more relevant. In fact, it’s done already. Why the redundancy in the system?

The answer, of course, is that there is no good answer. Perhaps it’s a vestige of pre-feminism days, when protecting the virtue of single women was a moral cause for government. Perhaps it’s just because it adds to the self-importance of bureaucracy or the public worker unions. Perhaps the government hasn’t heard about this thing called the Internet. Whatever the reason, it makes no sense.

Taking clerks out of the business of granting marriage licenses would mean we would never have had to deal with the likes of Davis–and we wouldn’t have to bend over backwards to accommodate the biases of her faith. Licenses would be granted automatically. The clerks just get the form returned to them after the wedding, so that the county can issue a marriage certificate. Of course, Davis and her ilk could refuse to issue marriage certificates, but at that point, the marriage is a done deal. There is no grandstanding possible for the petty bureaucrat.

The only downside of the idea is that Davis would pretty much get out of the mess she’s in. But perhaps that would be the ultimate punishment as well. Davis clearly wants to be a martyr to the cause.

Denying her that status by implementing a simple automation process might just well be the best revenge anyone could offer.

JohnGallagher

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Gay movie Desde Allá wins top prize in Venice

Gay movie Desde Allá wins top prize in Venice

Venezuelan director Lorenzo Vigas’ powerful debut feature movie Desde Allá has won the Venince Film Festival’s top Golden Lion prize.

The drama set in Caracase, also known as From Afar, tells the story of a 50-year-old rich gay man who gets sexually involved with a 17-year-old leader from one of the city’s gangs.

Quietly but powerfully, the movie maps the currents of sex, money and violence beneath the surface of Venezuelan society in 93 minutes.

‘I want to dedicate this prize to my amazing country, Venezuela,’ Vigas said to an applauding audience. ‘I know we have a few problems, but if we talk about them we will overcome them.’

Venezuela is going through a serious economic crisis that resulted in months of street protests last year over the shortage of many goods.

Vigas, previously with only one short movie to his name, has made history by getting the first Venezuelan movie into the world’s oldest film festival and then winning its top prize.

‘Rarely taking the path of cheap exposition where convincing character psychology will do, this smart, unsensationalized examination of the slow-blossoming relationship between a middle-aged loner and a young street tough trusts auds to make the necessary connections in a narrative that merges its characters’ respective father complexes to moving, equivocal effect,’ reviewed Variety.

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The Danish Girl, featuring Eddie Redmayne as pioneer transgender artist Lili Elbe, left Venice empty-handed, as the jury chaired by Alfonso Cuarón gave the best actor award to Fabrice Luchini, who played a judge in Christian Vincent’s L’Hermine, or Courted.

Winners of the 72nd Venice International Film Festival:

Golden Lion for Best Film to: DESDE ALLÁ (FROM AFAR) by Lorenzo Vigas (Venezuela, Mexico)
Silver Lion for Best Director to: Pablo Trapero for the film EL CLAN (Argentina, Spain)
Grand Jury Prize to: ANOMALISA by Charlie Kaufman and Duke Johnson (USA)
Coppa Volpi for Best Actress: Valeria Golino in the film PER AMOR VOSTRO by Giuseppe Gaudino (Italy)
Coppa Volpi for Best Actor: Fabrice Luchini in the film L’HERMINE by Christian Vincent (France)
 Marcello Mastroianni Award for Best Young Actor to: Abraham Attah in the film BEASTS OF NO NATION by Cary Joji Fukunaga (USA)
Award for Best Screenplay to: Christian Vincent for the film L’HERMINE by Christian Vincent  (France)
Special Jury Prize to: ABLUKA (FRENZY) by Emin Alper (Turkey, France, Qatar)
Lion of the Future – “Luigi De Laurentiis” Venice Award for a Debut Film to: THE CHILDHOOD OF A LEADER by Brady Corbet (United Kingdom, Hungary) (ORIZZONTI)

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Derek Yiu

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