Court Tells Homophobic County Clerk She Must Issue Marriage Licenses To Same-Sex Couples

Court Tells Homophobic County Clerk She Must Issue Marriage Licenses To Same-Sex Couples

kimdavisA federal appeals court has upheld a ruling ordering a Kentucky county clerk to issue marriage licenses to gay couples.

Rowan County Clerk Kim Davis objects to same-sex marriage for religious reasons. She stopped issuing marriage licenses the day after the U.S. Supreme Court overturned state bans on same-sex marriage.

Two gay couples and two straight couples sued her. A U.S. district judge ordered Davis to issue the marriage licenses, but later delayed his order so that Davis could have time to appeal to the 6th circuit. Wednesday, the appeals court denied Davis’ request for a stay.

“It cannot be defensibly argued that the holder of the Rowan County Clerk’s office, apart from who personally occupies that office, may decline to act in conformity with the United States Constitution as interpreted by a dispositive holding of the United States Supreme Court,” judges Damon J. Keith, John M. Rogers and Bernice B. Donald wrote for the court. “There is thus little or no likelihood that the Clerk in her official capacity will prevail on appeal.”

April Miller and Karen Roberts were one of the gay couples who sued Davis. Miller read the ruling on her phone in the living room of the house they share down a country road on the outskirts of Morehead. Roberts, her partner for more than a decade, peered over her shoulder, smiling, humming, tears welling up under her glasses.

Related: Christian Government Clerk Hijacks The Law, And It’s All Caught On Tape

The news flashes across their TV screen and they hugged, and their hug turned into a brief slow dance on the living room rug. The phone started ringing, but they ignored it for a minute.

They felt vindicated, they said. They got out the boxes holding their matching wedding bands, bought days after the Supreme Court’s decision in June. They are simple white gold bands, ringed in diamonds.

“One step closer,” Miller said. “We might be able to get married in September.”

Mat Staver, an attorney for Davis, said he was disappointed with the ruling. He said he plans to discuss options with Davis, including an appeal to the U.S. Supreme Court.

“The court of appeals did not provide any religious accommodation rights to individuals, which makes little sense because at the end of the day it’s individuals that are carrying out the acts of the office,” Staver said. “They don’t lose their individual constitutional rights just because they are employed in a public office.”

morehead10n-1-web-360x363It’s unclear how Davis will react if she were to ultimately lose her appeals. She testified in federal court last month she would “deal with that when the time comes.” Saturday, she spoke to thousands of supporters at a religious freedom rally at the state capitol, saying: “I need your prayers … to continue to stand firm in what we believe.”

“Regardless of what any man puts on a piece of paper, the law of nature is not going to change,” Davis told the crowd.

Miller and Roberts said they know the legal fight will stretch on. Davis continued to refuse to issue marriage licenses after other judges’ rulings. And they suspect she will continue to refuse after this one.

“We get all excited. But we know a letdown is coming again,” Miller said. “It’s going to keep going. It’s gonna be a long haul.”

“But it felt so good for a minute,” Roberts chimed in.

Jeremy Kinser

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Venice Mayor: ‘There Will Never Be a Gay Pride in My City’ 

Venice Mayor: ‘There Will Never Be a Gay Pride in My City’ 

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The right wing mayor of Venice, Italy has banned “height of kitsch” Gay Pride celebrations in the city, reports the Guardian.

Luigi-BrugnaroElected on a center right ticket in June, Mayor Luigi Brugnaro said “there will never be a gay pride in my city.” He also suggested that LGBT people “go and do it in Milan, or in front of their own homes.”

Despite his short time in office, Brugnaro has already raised eyebrows by banning books featuring same-sex couples from schools. Earlier this month he had a public row with Elton John over the ban.

Flavio Romani, president of Italian gay rights group Arcigay, said:

“Venice is not his city. At the moment he is governing it, but he won’t last long given the fool he is making of himself. He is becoming obsessive about this. Venice does not deserve it.

“It is a national scandal. Sadly in this country, some politicians listen more to what the bishops tell them rather than what society is saying.”

Italy is the only major western European country that does not allow civil partnerships or or same-sex marriage.

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Michael Fitzgerald

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Gender-neutral title Mx added to Oxford Dictionary

Gender-neutral title Mx added to Oxford Dictionary

Oxford Dictionaries has added the gender neutral title Mx, as well as ‘pwnage’, ‘butthurt’, and ‘awesomesauce’.

The honorific of Mx, given to those who do not want to be referred to as Mr, Miss, Ms or Mrs, was added to reflect ‘today’s more thoughtful conversations about gender identity’.

It is defined as ‘a title used before a person’s surname or full name by those who wish to avoid specifying their gender or by those who prefer not to identify themselves as male or female.’Originating in around 70s, Mx can be widely used in forms, banks and government institutions in the UK.

Other words added in to Oxford Dictionaries include brain fart, butt dial, cat cafe, fat-shame, microagression, rando, weak sauce, and wine o’clock.

The addition of Mx follows the introduction of cisgender into the Oxford English Dictionary earlier this year.

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Joe Morgan

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The “Black Men Are Bigger” Myth Just Got Debunked

The “Black Men Are Bigger” Myth Just Got Debunked

BillJohnsons-lrg“I have a problem with my dick size,” psychologist Bill Johnson II (pictured) writes in a HuffPo op-ed. “It’s not big and I want it to be! … I’m also Black, and the ‘word’ is all Black men have a large phallus.”

According to Johnson, he doesn’t know exactly how large he is because he’s never actually measured.

“I hate bad news,” he writes, “and that’s the type of information that can ruin my day. … There are literally some days when I look down at my crotch and ask ‘is that really all you got?’”

Related: A Black Man Answers: “Are Black Men Really Bigger?”

If he had to guess, though, Johnson says he’d probably land in the “average” category.

“No sexual partner has ever said my dick size was a problem,” he confesses. “Then again, would they actually tell me?”

But the real problem, Johnson points out, isn’t he’s penis at all, but rather the racist stereotype that because of his skin color he’s supposed to be bigger, thicker, longer.

“I have internalized the racist notion that Black men have big dicks,” he writes, “which has its roots in European racism, used to justify slavery and racial oppression.”

Related: Is Lee Daniels Responsible For Perpetuating Myths About Black Men On The “Down Low”?

Put simply, the idea was that black men were “lust-driven” and “animalistic.” They had large penises which they used to rape innocent white women, hence why they needed to be controlled and oppressed.

That stereotype, Johson argues, continues to this day, particularly in the adult film industry.

“Many of the adult movies with Black men in starring roles use racial themes in the title and often as the flick’s primary selling point,” Johnson explains. “The idea of the salacious Black male and his monster cock has been used to perpetuate the objectification and brutality of African American men.”

So what can be done?

For starters, Johnson says, we need to drop the stereotype. Also, people need to get over their obsession with penis-size.

“Contrary to popular belief, human males are the best endowed of the hominids, proportionate to body size,” he writes. “The average human penis size is five inches. … If men were not bombarded with a barrage of messages preaching their inadequacy, insecurities related to the male genitalia would be minimal.”

Related: Is It True What They Say About Black Men?

Graham Gremore

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Professional trans networking group celebrates first birthday in City of London

Professional trans networking group celebrates first birthday in City of London

Around 200 people gathered at the office of Deloitte in High Holborn, London, last night to help Trans*formation – the professional networking group for trans employees and allies – celebrate its first birthday.

Speaking to Gay Star Business, one of Trans*formations co-chairs explained why the group was launched last year.

‘There was a need to bring together trans professionals and supportive organizations,’ said Kimberley Bird, who works for Lloyds Banking Group in IT. ‘Many large organizations are not anti-trans but they are ignorant of the what trans people need to succeed.

‘I wanted to show organizations that they can use the un-tapped potential of trans colleagues and customers. At the end of the day I wanted to make a difference for the trans community, however small that may be.’

Her sentiment was echoed by fellow co-chair Emma Cusdin, who works in HR for Thomson Reuters: ‘We felt that traditional LGBT networks tended not to focus on trans issues with typically only a few trans people attending LGBT events.

‘As a trans woman, working in the corporate world, I know that feeling of being alone so I personally got involved with trans*formation to bring trans people together so that we can have a stronger voice.’

Bird said that the response to the group’s launch had been ‘overwhelming’.

‘The varied nature of people on the trans spectrum is so encouraging including non-binary and gender fluid people; I personally have learnt so much.

‘I have been delighted to see people come to our events who have never met another trans person before but who now know it is possible to be trans and a professional.’

‘It’s wonderful to see our numbers grow and I’m absolutely delighted that we are now seeing large organizations positively wanting to engage with us,’ added Cusdin.

The event was hosted by Kate Sweeney, Deloitte consulting partner, and GLOBE, the firm’s LGBT network.

‘Deloitte is delighted to have hosted the first birthday celebrations for trans*formation,’ said Sweeney in a statement afterwards. ‘Respect is fundamental to the values of our firm and developing an increased understanding of the challenges trans people face in the workplace is an important part of creating an inclusive environment for all.’

The evening included welcoming drinks and an auditorium panel discussion with Nicholas Cresswell, Vice President, Performance & Talent Management, Thomson Reuters, and Marc Reace-Coles, Inclusion Manager (LGBT Lead), RBS.

Cresswell talked about a Transgender employee guidebook that Thomson Reuters had produced for internal use to help support trans and gender fluid staff, while Reace-Coles talked about steps RBS had taken to help trans people, such as the introduction of the Mx prefix option, and the removal of gender questions from forms that did not require such information.

This was followed by a spirited Q&A session, with members of the audience asking the panel whether they considered Caitlyn Jenner to be a positive role model and what the organization was doing to help further the cause of the non-binary and gender fluid.

There was also concern expressed about the number of workplace insurers still unwilling to cover health expenses for trans people – sometimes dismissing such claims as the result of a ‘lifestyle choice’.

Another of the group’s co-chairs, Patrick Osborne, Head of Strategic Insight & Reporting at QVC, talked about his own journey to become to a trans ally, and the importance of allies in changing corporate attitudes towards trans and non-binary individuals.

‘Challenge your own personal views and be honest,’ he advised the cisgender in the audience. ‘Find out about trans people’s experiences because there are still a lot of misconceptions; it’s important we become comfortable talking about trans issues.’

For more information about Trans*formation, check its official website and Twitter: @TFormUK

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David Hudson

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Hack Reveals Ashley Madison Almost Built Sex Empire With $70 Million Grindr Buy

Hack Reveals Ashley Madison Almost Built Sex Empire With $70 Million Grindr Buy

Screen Shot 2015-08-26 at 1.49.56 PMIf you were (keyword, were) a major hetero hookup site pulling in millions in annual revenue, what would you do to expand?

The answer is terribly simple: the gays! The gays!

Well in emails leaked by hackers calling themselves The Impact Team, an interesting timeline emerges revealing Ashley Madison had hot hands for acquiring Grindr.

Forbes reports that contact between Avid Life Media, owner of Ashley Madison, and Grindr dates back to 2012, when respective founders Noel Biderman and Joel Simkhai discussed how they could advertise one another’s services on each platform.

This year, Biderman and “major Avid Life Media shareholders” got serious about what it would take to fold Grindr into the ‘sex sells’ family.

Biderman sought details about his own company’s finances and those of Grindr.

“In previously undisclosed data, Grindr’s 2014 revenues were said to be $31 million with its earnings before interest, taxes, depreciation and amortization (EBITDA), a measure of profitability, at $14 million. It had 4 million active monthly users and 2 million looking for some fun on the app every day. There were 250,000 paid subscribers in 2014 too.

In a separate management presentation document, Grindr estimated its revenue for 2015 would rise to $38.1 million with EBITDA of $16.5 million. It also claimed to have 324,000 paying subscribers this year.”

But advisors thought Simkhai wouldn’t part with a significant share of Grindr for less than $100 million, well above Biderman’s limit.

Later, Ashley Madison’s biggest shareholder, Jason DeZwirek, and another board member believed by Forbes to be Leonard Latchman of LDL Corp, revised the expected sale to be between $60-70 million for a 51 per cent stake in the company.

In the end, even that number proved too challenging for Ashley Madison, and the lusty merger never managed to climax.

In light of recent events, we don’t expect it to be up for discussion again any time soon.

Dan Tracer

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Leaked documents show Grindr expects nearly $40 million in revenue for 2015

Leaked documents show Grindr expects nearly $40 million in revenue for 2015

Documents leaked as part of the Ashley Madison hacking scandal have revealed the state of gay dating app company Grindr’s finances, showing projected revenues of $38 million for the year 2015.

Emails from Ashley Madison CEO Noel Biderman show that parent company Avid Life Media was considering acquiring Grindr and the financial documents, marked ‘private and confidential,’ appear to be part of a presentation to spruik the deal.

According to the documents Grindr had revenues of close to $16 million in 2012, growing to $24 million the following year and the company is projecting revenue growth of around $10 million per year.

The company’s projections go as far as 2018 when Grindr expects to be raking in as much as $77 million in combined revenue from member subscription fees and advertising.

An accompanying graph estimates the time Grindr users spend on social networks – claiming they spend as much as 54 minutes a day on the app – compared to 42 minutes for Facebook users.

Users of the closest ranked dating app, Tinder, only spent around 15 minutes per day on the app.

The app continues to have its largest user base in the United States, with close to 1.3 million monthly active users.

Other top Grindr using countries included the United Kingdom, Brazil and France in that order.

The documents say Grindr has around 10.5 million users worldwide with 3.8 of those using the app at least once a month.

It is unknown whether Avid Life Media is still interested in Grindr or whether it is still in a position to acquire it following the hacking scandal that saw the personal details of more than 30 million users of the infidelity dating site Ashley Madison leaked online.

Grindr is yet to address the leak of the documents via its website or social media accounts.

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Andrew Potts

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