Before Becoming A Mass Murderer, Vester Flanagan Was A Male Escort

Before Becoming A Mass Murderer, Vester Flanagan Was A Male Escort

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Vester Flanagan (a.ka. Bryce Williams) around the time he was allegedly working as a male escort.

The nation is still reeling over the shooting murders of 24-year-old WBDJ-TV reporter Alison Parker and 27-year-old cameraman Adam Ward.

Shorting after the shooting, the suspected gunman, former WBDJ employee Bryce Williams, who’s real name was Vester Flanagan, took his own life, but not before emailing his manifesto to ABC News, in which he confessed his motivation for the killing was mistreatment he felt he received for being a gay black man.

Now, People is reporting that before his career in television news, Flanagan “exchanged sex for money in the mid-1990s.” Sources say Flanagan worked as a male escort during a period of unemployment between 1995 and 1997, when he was in his early 20s.

An extended family member claims Flanagan found customers in online chat rooms geared towards casual hookups.

“In his profile, he had a lot of dollar signs, and that was a sign to the people he was chatting with that he was willing to hook up for money,” the family member said. “He kept it a secret from his parents, but he did tell a few other family members in his generation who he thought might accept it. I won’t say he was proud of it, but he wasn’t ashamed, either.”

The family member also revealed that Flanagan’s family were devout Jehovah’s Witnesses. “So obviously, he couldn’t tell everyone about it. It was a secret that only a few people knew.”

Friends of Flanagan claim he kept most of the details about his personal life to himself, sharing only minimal details about his past.

“He said he did what he had to do,” childhood friend Shaun Barton, who called the time Flanagan worked as an escort a “dark period” in his life. “But he had a lot of dark periods in his life.”

Related: WBDJ Gunman Bryce Williams’ Bizarre Manifesto Reveals His Sexual Orientation

Graham Gremore

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The OXD Mirror: Go Deep In The Night with Lauren Flax

The OXD Mirror: Go Deep In The Night with Lauren Flax

Lauren Flax

BY RU BHATT

OCCUPY THE DISCO (OXD) curates and recommends music events to the gay community in NYC—in an effort to move the focus of the nightlife scene beyond the promoter and venue and to the music itself. OXD’s goal is to inspire, entertain, engage and empower the gay audience to reclaim their ability to question and experience the unknown. The OXD Mirror will serve to showcase tunes that are definitely off-the-beaten-path but rightfully deserve the attention of the gay ear.

NYC’s Get Up Recordings, co-owned by LGBT nightlife denizens Christy Love & W. Jeremy Pelser (House of Stank), unleashed fellow city-dweller Lauren Flax‘s ‘In The Night’ earlier this week. The deep house tune is a veritable banger that’s bound to set dance floors ablaze. Included within the release is the ‘Vocal Mix,’ with haunting catchy lyrics brought to life by Jo Lampert‘s soulful voice, a ‘Flaxy Dub’ and an entrancing remix by Miami’s Mystic Bill.

  • Jessica 6‘s latest single, ‘Down Low’ (featured on this column by Josh a few weeks ago) gets a steamy, dark room edit that subdues the original’s poppier elements, courtesy of NYC’s gay DJ and production duo, Donkey (Josh Sparber & Mikey Fuentes).
  • Donkey originally introduced me to Hot Natured with their 2013 mixtape, Sessions 001, which featured the collaborative house project’s iconic track, ‘Benediction.’ Later that year, Hot Natured released their debut album, Different Sides of the Sun. Hot Natured’s futuristic sound returns with ‘Off World Lover,’ a dynamic track that once again highlight’s Ali Love’s beautiful vocals.
  • ‘Benediction’ was one of my favorite songs to play during the first season of our winter tea dance, Paradisco. Another favorite that year was Touch Sensitive‘s ‘Pizza Guy,’ which is getting a new remix EP later this month. France’s I:CUBE turns the laidback original into a piano driven house thumper which will complement remixes by Fantastic Man, Sau Poler and Sage Caswell.
  • Pional‘s subdued treatment of Jamie xx‘s ‘A Stranger In A Room’ harkens back to the brilliance he found with John Talabot on their collaborative remix of the xx‘s ‘Chained.’ ICYMI, I featured Talabot’s solo Jaimie xx remix on my last column.
  • George FitzGerald, one of house music’s strongest producers, shocked fans when his debut album catered to the softer side of the British musician. Nevertheless, FitzGerald’s songwriting capabilities are complemented perfectly by Bonobo’s delicate remix of the album’s lead single, ‘Boxed In.’

This week’s post was written and curated by Ru Bhatt. Check out more of his music picks on his podcast, The Ru-Mix and on Made In Brazil.

Be sure to check out these tracks and more on Soundcloud. For more information on OXD, check out our website and accompanying blog at www.occupythedisco.com, like us on Facebook, or follow us on Twitter: @OccupyTheDisco.

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Virginia Gunman Had Been Ordered to Get Medical Help Before He Was Fired

Virginia Gunman Had Been Ordered to Get Medical Help Before He Was Fired

Vester Flanagan went to great lengths to control how people saw him, tweeting photographs of his life and sending a national news organization a fax of nearly two dozen pages outlining his grievances.

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Meet 'Les Danseurs,' The Stunning Male Dancers Of Paris

Meet 'Les Danseurs,' The Stunning Male Dancers Of Paris

“Dance is one of the most difficult things to capture because it’s all about motion,” photographer Matthew Brookes explained. “The challenge is to capture a movement at its climax, and this is almost a gut instinct because it happens so fast.”

Brookes has a particularly strong gut instinct when it comes to capturing the fleeting moments of dance. His series, “Les Danseurs,” focuses on the beauty of Parisian male dancers, featuring the highly attuned figures twisting and turning in spaces outside of the ballet studio.

To replicate this idea of a “climax,” he asked his subjects to mimic the movements of birds falling from the sky. The resulting images feature a beautiful mix of fluttering limbs and achingly exact poses. “I tried to capture the emotion and power of the dancers,” Brookes added in an interview with The Huffington Post. “That’s what I find fascinating.”

Brookes says he was drawn to the world of dance by accident. After a casting friend introduced him to one of the ballet dancers from the Paris Opera, he ended up photographing his first ballet master. “The portrait was such a great experience,” he added, so much so that “the dancer asked if I was interested in shooting his friends.” Eventually, these portraits became the basis of a deeply personal project, one that, after a few months, became the basis of a book, published earlier this summer.

“In the end, I photographed the ballet dancers for a year between their rehearsals and training sessions,” he said.

Brookes notes that outside of dance, he simply enjoys photographing people, following in the footsteps of Irving Penn, Richard Avedon, Herb Ritts and Bruce Weber. “I always photograph people. l love to capture the emotion of my subjects, so connecting with them is my biggest challenge and also the biggest reward.  It’s an exchange so their participation is extremely important.” 

In “Les Danseurs,” this collaboration became vital, as the subjects became responsible for bending their bodies in ways that Brookes, perhaps, could not have imagined himself. See a preview of the stunning series below.

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How the color of your walls can affect your mood

How the color of your walls can affect your mood

When decorating a new home, there are thousands of questions to be answered – yet people often seem to forget one of the key things that could turn your new house into a home in the blink of an eye (or rather, the swipe of a brush): colors!

Judging by conversations I had in the past it’s not quite common knowledge that colors can have an effect your mood; so, with a bit of help from the experts at Wickes, we’re here to give you a refresher on how colors can influence your mood – and how to best use them.

Before diving head first into choosing the right color, think of the room you want to paint and choose an appropriate finish: vinyl and silk paints are the most common, giving you a flawless finish – they’re great for general rooms – but you may need something more durable for other rooms.

Kitchen paint, for example, can simply be wiped clean with a damp cloth without damaging the paintwork, while bathroom paint protects your walls against moisture and mold caused by steamy showers – and that’s only two of the finishes Wickes offer!

But to the colors: as a rule of thumb, neutral tones like warm grays, beige or creams create a soothing, calm atmosphere while bolder colors can turn a room formal or energetic in no time at all.

 

Red

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Like a good lipstick, red walls – from bright cherry to dark crimson – can instantly make a room feel lively and warm; already social rooms by default, pops of red on the walls will make kitchens and dining rooms even more inviting.

My father always said red walls made people angry – while that isn’t true, the color is said to increase your heart rate, so it’s not the best choice for a calm bedroom but works very well in an office. I’m speaking from experience here.

Since all-red rooms can be a bit overwhelming (and feel smaller), it’s a better choice to opt for an accent wall or set the red against delicate, softer pinks to give the room some balance.

 

Blue

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Blue is the serene, soothing brother to lively reds and yellows – but also a very elegant and formal choice, if we think of the traditional royal blue.

With a plethora of shades to choose from, there’s something for all purposes: shades of aqua are seen as refreshing, while sky blue is often associated with harmony and a sense of tranquility.

Blue can even help sleep when used on bedroom walls – but make sure the hue isn’t too cool, especially in rooms without much sun, because they can trick your body into feeling cold, especially in winter.

 

Yellow

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In a pale or pastel shade, yellow can be calm, peaceful and has the potential to warm up a room, especially when sunshine streams in – with the bonus that the room will feel open and spacious.

When used at its most vibrant, yellow isn’t just cheerful and positive, but also a very lively and energizing color – ideal for kitchens (once again, talking from experience!) or children’s rooms.

It also adds a bit of a zing to your walls, giving them a fresh, modern feel without being too overwhelming.

 

Green

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Much like blue, green is a balancing, relaxing color and can create restorative and tranquil atmosphere in any room.

Think of the woods, of expanses of grass: the association with nature is what makes green such a peaceful color, often seen as creating composure and helping people reconnect with themselves.

Whether you prefer lighter hues, like lemongrass, or the deep green of conifers or pines, they all add an open, calm atmosphere to your home.

 

Orange

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If you want to get people talking and socializing, orange is your go-to color – it’ll brighten up living and dining rooms (and any other room, for that matter) and instantly create a social atmosphere.

A very optimistic color, orange walls will chase gloomy thoughts away with its cheerful and warm aura.

Much like red, orange is very strong and can quickly be overwhelming, so it’s best used in a combination with more delicate shades or, if you want to go all-out, as an accent wall.

 

Brown

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Did you ever notice how, when winter comes around, clothing and home accessories suddenly seem to turn brown?

That’s because brown is not just a very warm color, it also creates an air of safety – much like a cosy cocoon, shielding you from the cold outside your window – and puts people at ease.

And as if it couldn’t get better, browns in combination with neutrals are timelessly stylish and never out of fashion.

 

Black

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The most dramatic of color choices, black is unapologetically high-impact and, when done right, feels like the haute couture of wall colors.

Moderation is key – black woodwork, accent walls or accessories make for stunning, dramatic eye-catchers without turning the room too dark.

Alternatively, black adds depth and a bit of spice to a sleek monochromatic color scheme.

 

White

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Yes, white can feel clinical – but that’s often a sign that it’s not done quite right and all it needs to fix this cold atmosphere is to off set the white walls with pictures or colorful accents.

When done right, white can be calming and soothing – the ideal color to help you wind down after a long day at work – and make rooms feel light, open and airy, making it an ideal choice for small rooms.

In case you’re not quite sure which exact shade is right for you, Wickes Colour @ Home range has 164 high-quality colors to choose from – and besides giving you the best advice on which color works best, the experts at Wickes also have all the right tools for the right job!

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Jessica Lange Will Return To American Horror Story If Ryan Murphy Has His Way

Jessica Lange Will Return To American Horror Story If Ryan Murphy Has His Way

FionaahsI’ve been talking to her. It’s always possible. I’m trying to deal with her play schedule. Jessica is always about the character. She’ll be back—she’s not gone forever. But that’s the fun and fresh thing about the show: sometimes somebody has to go away before you realize how much you miss them. She wants to come back we just have to come up with something.”

 

— American Horror Story producer Ryan Murphy telling EW good news for fans of the actress who left the hit series to star in the upcoming Broadway revival of Long Day’s Journey Into Night

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Donald Trump Asked How He’d Explain His Opposition to Gay Marriage to a Gay Kid: WATCH

Donald Trump Asked How He’d Explain His Opposition to Gay Marriage to a Gay Kid: WATCH

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Bloomberg’s Mark Halperin and John Heilemann interviewed GOP frontrunner Donald Trump yesterday about a variety of issues and the billionaire blowhard answered in typical Trump fashion.

On former KKK Grand Wizard David Duke calling him “the best of the lot”:

“I don’t need his endorsement, I certainly wouldn’t want his endorsement, I don’t need anybody’s endorsement.”

On how he would explain his opposition to same-sex marriage to a gay child or grandchild:

Well it’s the way it is. I wouldn’t speak to them at all about it other than they are who they are and I want them to be happy and will love them and cherish them…I’ve gone to gay weddings. I’ve been at gay weddings. I have been against [gay marriage] from the standpoint of Bible, from the standpoint of my teachings as growing up and going to sunday school and going to church and I’ve been opposed to it and we’ll just see how it all comes out.

On his favorite Bible verses:

I wouldn’t want to get into it because to me that’s very personal. When I talk about the Bible it’s very personal…The Bible means a lot to me but I don’t want to get into specifics.

On whether he’s more of an Old Testament or New Testament kind of guy:

Probably equal. I think it’s just an incredible, the whole Bible is an incredible…I just think the Bible is something very special.

On Jeb Bush courting controversy for using the term “anchor babies”:

He’s using it because I use it…Maybe he shouldn’t use it, but I am going to.

A new Quinnipiac University poll puts Trump at 28% with his closest competitor Ben Carson at 12%.

Highlights and full interview below:

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Is There A Reason Women May Be More Likely To Identify As Bisexual?

Is There A Reason Women May Be More Likely To Identify As Bisexual?

Academic studies can be fascinating… and totally confusing. So we decided to strip away all of the scientific jargon and break them down for you

The Background
As far as researchers are concerned, women are the more sexually fluid gender. Previous studies have found that there are higher rates of bisexual and “mostly heterosexual” identities among women, and their sexual identities are often less binary than those of men. This is taken to mean — rightly or wrongly — that women on the whole are more likely to be attracted (at least to some degree) to both sexes, whether they identify as gay, straight, bisexual or pansexual. While this concept is fairly established, researchers have yet to pin down why women tend to exhibit more sexual fluidity throughout their lives. 

A new study from the University of Notre Dame looks at how particular life factors might influence women to swing one way or the other — or somewhere in between.  

The Setup
Researchers used data from 5,018 women and 4,191 men who participated in the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent to Adult Health from 1994 to 2008. At various phases of the study, participants reported their sexual identities on a scale of 100 percent heterosexual, mostly heterosexual, bisexual, mostly homosexual and 100 percent homosexual. They were also asked to report their same-sex attraction levels and their same-sex sexual experiences. Then, they provided a roster of past and present romantic and sexual partners.

In addition to information on their sexuality, each participant listed the highest level of education he or she had achieved during each interview that occurred in the 14-year span of the study. They also reported if they had any children and when those children were born so that the researchers could categorize their answers into the very general categories “early first births” (around age 22) and “normatively-timed births” (around age 28). Finally, the interviewers rated each participant’s physical attractiveness on a scale of one to five. This was meant to serve as another measure of social context, but it’s safe to assume that the subjective ratings weren’t exactly scientific. 

The Findings
As other studies have suggested, the researchers found that more women than men considered themselves bisexual, and women were more likely to change their sexual identity over the course of their lives. But this research added a bit more nuance to those concepts: Social factors, like educational attainment and physical attractiveness, were significantly associated with how women identified on the sexual spectrum. No such link was found for men.

Women in the study were more likely to identify as heterosexual if they reached higher levels of education, avoided “early first births” and were considered more physically attractive by the interviewers in the study. Higher educational attainment was also associated with less change over time in a woman’s sexual identity.

The researchers argued that, if heterosexuality is the societal “default,” the pressure to conform to that norm might be strongest when a sexually fluid woman is in an environment where she can easily find herself in “socially-approved heterosexual relationships.” They state: 

“Highly educated, physically attractive, childless women have greater access to desirable male partners … For such women, heterosexuality may be the most obvious path and also the path of least resistance, even if they experience some degree of both other-sex and same-sex attraction.”

The Takeaway
Of course, the researchers aren’t suggesting that any of these life factors cause women to sexually identify in a specific way or that people consciously “choose” their sexuality. Rather, they merely suggest that social context may play a role in whether or not a woman who is more sexually fluid acts on that fluidity and claims a less heteronormative label.

Keep in mind, however, that the researchers never asked participants why they identified the way they did, so this theory is merely an educated guess. 

It’s also important to note that, even though this study didn’t find a link between male sexual identity and social context, that doesn’t necessarily mean that men aren’t as sexually fluid as women. It might just be that society as a whole is less accepting of bisexual men, so they have to push through a specific kind of stigma to openly explore their sexuality.

But when it comes to women, this study and the ones that came before it are beginning to create a more complete picture of female sexuality. And that picture is becoming increasingly complex.

 

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