Mr. Gay World 2010 Charl van den Berg Dead at 33

Mr. Gay World 2010 Charl van den Berg Dead at 33

van den bergCharl van den Berg, who in 2010 won the Mr. Gay World competition in Oslo, Norway, has died at the age of 33 from a short battle with lymphatic cancer.

Announcing van den Berg’s death, Mr. Gay World competition organizers wrote “We have lost a member of our family, a hero and a friend. Charl van den Berg will always be an icon to many around the world.”

More from the statement:

Throughout his reign, Charl continued to uphold the ethos and message of Mr. Gay World wherever he travelled, making friends around the world. He attended Prides in Europe, representing the organisation and was sent to the Philippines to lay the foundations of the next competition in Manila, meeting with press and organisers. He was prominently featured in the media, and did many interviews for television, living up to his role as ambassador for LGBT rights and a role model for LGBT youth.

He was loved not only in the Philippines, taking part in the Red Ribbon HIV-awareness campaign in that country, but all around the world and especially in his home country of South Africa, where his win was the first positive LGBT news other than legal challenges to discriminatory laws to be featured on the front pages and lamp posts around that country.

Charl always conducted himself in a friendly, approachable and exemplary fashion, keeping his feet firmly on the ground and doing the job he was chosen for without airs and graces. His infectious laughter and warm character made him an absolute pleasure to work with. He stayed on to assist and support the organisation long after his reign, attending subsequent finals in Johannesburg and Antwerp and being involved in the local Mr. Gay South Africa competition up to 2014.

Our thoughts go out to van den Berg’s friends and family.

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Mr. Gay World 2010 Charl van den Berg Dead at 33

Scott Walker Says He ‘Wouldn’t Change’ Military’s Transgender Service Ban as President: VIDEO

Scott Walker Says He ‘Wouldn’t Change’ Military’s Transgender Service Ban as President: VIDEO

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Jeb Bush might be “fine” with transgender people serving openly in the military (as long as it doesn’t affect morale), but Scott Walker is trying to stake out a more hardline social conservative stance this election.

Asked by Newsmax host J.D. Hayworth what his position on transgender (and gays and lesbians) serving in armed forces, Walker responded that he “wouldn’t change” the military’s policy and would instead focus on giving the military the “resources” needed to win wars.

[via Right Wing Watch]

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Scott Walker Says He ‘Wouldn’t Change’ Military’s Transgender Service Ban as President: VIDEO

Hot Australian Athletes And Entertainers You Should Be Following On Instagram

Hot Australian Athletes And Entertainers You Should Be Following On Instagram

It may be winter in Australia, but we’ll bet it’s still pretty hot Down Under when these folks are nearby. We scoured Instagram to find some of the most celebrated and photogenic Aussie notables and uncovered a cross-section of actors, athletes and reality stars.

Scroll down to see a few of our favorites.

Nathan Jolliffe is a reality TV star who won Amazing Race and appeared on Celebrity Apprentice

Benjamin Day is one of the famed Acai Brothers, which means he loves it raw.

HAPPY FRIDAY PEEPS!!! #timetoshakeitoff #lovemesometaytay #loosenup @brittprizzle A video posted by ?E????I? ??Y (@ben_acaibrothers) on

Nick Bracks is a TV personality and mental health advocate.

Post workout shower…feeling good! #health #fitness #mentalhealth

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Patty Mills currently plays for the NBA’s San Antonio Spurs. 

This is for my big bala Adam Goodes ???? A photo posted by Patty Mills (@balapat) on

Luke Casey is a footballer and the very definition of sex on two legs.

Cheeky and not so sneaky flex at the gym this morning ???

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David Pocock is a professional rugby player who plays for the ACT Brumbies and Wallabies.

James Magnussen is a champion swimmer who won the silver medal at the 2012 London Olympics.

Mick Fanning is a professional surfer who won the 2007, 2009 and 2013 ASP World Tour.

Israel Folau is a pro footballer with the NSW Waratahs.

We out here in Mendoza (Argentina) enjoying the day off with the crew..

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Hugh Jackman is, well, you already know, but here he is with Ricky Martin!

Great to see you @Ricky_Martin!

A photo posted by Hugh Jackman (@thehughjackman) on

Jeremy Kinser

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Gay Fox News Contributor Blasts Fight Against Anti-gay Christian Bakers: ‘That’s Not What Real Freedom Looks Like’

Gay Fox News Contributor Blasts Fight Against Anti-gay Christian Bakers: ‘That’s Not What Real Freedom Looks Like’

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Openly gay Fox News contributor and Townhall.com editor Guy Benson had some things to say about the modern-day gay rights movement while at Erick Erickson’s RedState conservative gathering on Saturday.

Benson, who came out as gay in a footnote in his new book End of Discussion: How the Left’s Outrage Industry Shuts Down Debate, Manipulates Voters, and Makes America Less Free (and Fun), condemned the fight against Christian-run businesses who refuse to serve same-sex couples for religious reasons.

“One of the reasons we think the gay rights movement has been successful in really shifting public opinion massively on the question of same-sex marriage is they’ve made lots of appeals to sort of Americans’ libertarian sense of fairness. Live and let live. Our marriage doesn’t affect you. Lets be fair. And people were like “Yeah, that’s reasonable.” What made us concerned is how it seems like as soon as they have the upper hand in political opinion, public opinion all of the sudden the rules change. It was no longer live and let live. It was, bake us a cake or else. Celebrate us – it’s mandatory – or we’re going to destroy you. And that’s not what real freedom looks like.”

Benson’s End of Discussion co-author Mary Katharine Ham was also on stage during the talk and revealed the decision to write the book came about after watching the Brendan Eich controversy back in 2014.

At the time that Brendan Eich was found out for this thought crime [supporting Proposition 8], it was enough to make him lose his job. He was hounded out of his job not because he treated anyone badly in the workplace or discriminating against anyone…And we said hey, if you can’t hold a mainstream opinion, political opinion in American society with which the Left and its activists disagree and also hold your job, how free is your speech?

Our own Ari Ezra Waldman had a different take on the Eich controversy, which you can read here: “The Fall of Brendan Eich Happened Without Us.”

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Transgender Inmate Will Likely Get Parole Instead Of Court-Ordered Surgery

Transgender Inmate Will Likely Get Parole Instead Of Court-Ordered Surgery

 SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) — Gov. Jerry Brown is allowing parole for a transgender inmate who is trying to force California to become the first state to pay for sex reassignment surgery.

A federal judge in April ordered the state to provide the surgery, which had been scheduled for July. It was delayed after the state appealed.

The governor’s office said Friday that Brown was taking no action on the Board of Parole Hearings’ recommendation to release Michelle-Lael Norsworthy, which means her parole will proceed.

The decision makes it less likely that the 51-year-old will be able to have surgery funded by the prison before she is released. Parole board spokesman Luis Patino said it usually takes about a week for an inmate to be released after the governor allows a parole to proceed.

Michelle-Lael Norsworthy 

Brown decided Norsworthy is no longer dangerous, 30 years after she fatally shot Franklin Gordon Liefer Jr., 26, following an argument in a Fullerton bar in November 1985.

Norsworthy, then 21, was convicted of second-degree murder after she shot Liefer three times. He died six weeks later.

She is being held at Mule Creek State Prison, a men’s prison in Ione, near Sacramento. Prison records refer to her by her birth name of Jeffrey Bryan Norsworthy, though she has lived as a woman since the 1990s.

She was diagnosed with gender identity disorder in 1999 and began taking female hormones. She began asking the corrections department for the surgery in 2012 after learning a judge for the first time had ordered Massachusetts to provide an inmate with the procedure. However, that decision was overturned on appeal in December, and the U.S. Supreme Court declined to intervene.

The 9th Circuit agreed to hear California’s appeal of U.S. District Judge Jon Tigar’s ruling and a hearing is scheduled for Thursday. The appellate court noted that the case raises serious legal questions about whether denying the surgery violates Norsworthy’s constitutional rights against cruel and unusual punishment.-

 

The California Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation says it has met all of its legal requirements by providing Norsworthy with counseling and hormone therapy.

The state filed paperwork in federal court Friday saying it has agreed to provide sex reassignment surgery for another inmate, Shiloh Quine, 56, to settle a separate lawsuit.

“CDCR evaluates every case individually, and in the Quine case, every medical doctor and mental health clinician who has reviewed this case, including two independent mental health experts, determined that this surgery is medically necessary for Quine,” corrections department spokesman Jeffrey Callison said in an emailed statement.

Quine, formerly known as Rodney James Quine, is serving a life sentence for murder, kidnapping and robbery.

Norsworthy testified at her parole hearing in May that she accepts responsibility for her crime. She said at the time, she was “pretty much drinking every day all day” but is now sober and attends Alcoholics Anonymous meetings in prison.

She said she also takes steps to control her anger and make better judgments.

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Was Your First Gay Date Heartwarming Or Horrific? Guys Share Their Answers.

Was Your First Gay Date Heartwarming Or Horrific? Guys Share Their Answers.

By now, most of us are so jaded that when we hear the word “date,” the first things that come to mind are an empty apartment, Netflix and a pint of Ben and Jerry’s.

Just us? Oh.

Well think back to that first date experience. The butterflies, the adrenaline, the fumbling in the back seat of a car followed by worrying if you went too fast.

Just us? Oh.

We asked Whisper to round up what guys are saying about their first (or first after a long dry spell) man-on-man dates.

Here’s what they found:

I'm gay and was on a first date with a guy yesterday. I went to go to the bathroom and when I came back he was on the phone calling me a whale to someone. I just left. Wish a guy could just like me.

Went on my first date in years last night. It was so fun! Nice to meet another gay guy who has similar tastes and isn't like all the others. Perfect gentleman.

I'm finally about to go on my first gay date. Here's to me finally accepting me for who I am.

I just had my first date with another gay guy and he wants to take things a lot faster than I do so I'm confused and nervous.

Last time I fell for someone, he was only pretending to be gay so he and his friends could beat the shit out of me on our "first date". I'm scared to try again.

I had my first ever gay date today. I don't think it will go anywhere but it was simpler than expected and won't be the last!

Had my first date ever... And with a guy I'm crazy about. The butterflies won't stop and I'm nervous because he said yes to another date. This is the last thing i want to mess up... (Gay)

I went on my first date with another out gay guy yesterday. I was surprisingly comfortable being out in public.. Don't know what I was so worried about.

I went on my first date in 7yrs. I thought it went great.  This is the first guy I went on a date with since I came out and hasnt talked to me since and it hurts. Now I feel like I cant go out again.

As a gay guy, I just want to enjoy myself, not sleep with a guy on the first date.

Today I had my first date with my boyfriend. We're both gay teens, we're both still not fully out, we weren't all alone, and yet, it was one of the greatest days of my life.

I deleted all my "gay" social media before going on a first date with a guy I really like. Maybe taking it too far?

My first date with a guy and it gets cancelled. Fuck my life. Gay guys never have any luck!

Just went on my first date with another man. Total bust. Time to drink up the courage to try again.

Dan Tracer

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