How Cake Became The Favorite Mode For Debate Over LGBT Rights, Other Issues

How Cake Became The Favorite Mode For Debate Over LGBT Rights, Other Issues

NEW YORK (AP) — It should be a piece of cake. Customer comes in, asks for a cake with a specific design or for a particular event, baker makes it, everyone’s happy.

But sometimes customers and bakers have clashed over what goes on the cake, or whether to make it at all. An Oregon bakery was fined $135,000 for refusing to bake a cake for a lesbian couple’s wedding. A baker in Colorado earned a customer’s ire because she refused to write anti-gay messages on his cake. A Louisiana man posted a video to the Internet lambasting a local Wal-Mart for not making a cake with a Confederate flag on it.

Somehow, this mix of flour, butter, eggs and sugar with frosting on top has become yet another delivery system for American political debate, raising questions about where the customer’s free speech ends and the baker’s begins.

Cake has had symbolic meaning in this country,” even aside from politics, said Stephen Schmidt, food historian and writer for the Manuscripts Cookbook Survey. “We think of cake as something that can carry that meaning, whereas I don’t think the French do.”

But some political experts question whether frosting florets on a cake really are the best way to get your way of thinking out there. Would a strongly worded tweet, letter to the editor or yard sign be a better choice than the grand unveiling of the cake to the tune of “Happy Birthday”?

“There’s got to be some kind of psychological profile of individuals who deem it important enough to have their politics on their cake,” said Doug Muzzio, political science professor at Baruch College. “Have their cake and ideology, too.”

Some of the most contentious fights have involved bakers who refused to make a cake for same-sex weddings, frays that have also entangled the likes of florists and photographers.

Bakery owners Aaron and Melissa Klein of Gresham, Oregon, said their religious beliefs would be violated in 2013 if they made a wedding cake for a lesbian couple. The women filed a discrimination complaint and were awarded damages.

There’s also been the reverse. Last year, when a customer wanted anti-gay messages on a cake, Marjorie Silva, owner of Azucar Bakery in Denver refused to do it. She told him that she would bake the cake, but that he would have to write his own messages.

“We’re human beings, too; we have our beliefs, we should be respected,” she said

Free speech issues have come into play in jurisdictions with laws banning discrimination against certain protected classes. Some bakers have argued that being forced to make a cake for something that went against their religious beliefs was a form of compelled speech by the government, barred by the First Amendment.

But courts have ruled that a business open to the public has to be open to everyone.

“The answer so far that courts have given is, no, it’s not coercion … because you do have a choice” about whether to be in business to the public, said Nelson Tebbe, professor at Brooklyn Law School.

Images and words perceived as hateful have raised yet another flavor of cake fight.

A Louisiana man in June wanted a local Wal-Mart to make a cake with an image of the Confederate flag and the phrase “Heritage Not Hate,” but was refused. Chuck Netzhammer then ordered a cake with a flag used by the Islamic State group, which he got. Wal-Mart apologized and said the cake was a mistake, made by an employee that didn’t recognize the flag and what it represented.

In 2009, a New Jersey supermarket refused to make a cake for a child whose full name was Adolf Hitler Campbell. The boy’s mother said the cake was eventually made by a store in Pennsylvania.

For some cake makers, it’s not for them to go against the customers’ wishes.

Stacey Leon, of New York City’s Butterfly Bakeshop, said she and husband keep their personal feelings out of the oven. While they’ve never been asked to make a cake they thought was truly objectionable, they have madecakes for causes they don’t personally believe in.

“If it’s a political party that we don’t agree with, that doesn’t mean we’re not going to make their cake,” she said. “We just have to separate the way we feel from our business.”

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16-year-old girl stabbed in Jerusalem attack has died in hospital

16-year-old girl stabbed in Jerusalem attack has died in hospital

A girl who was stabbed during the Jerusalem, Israel stabbings died today in hospital.

The 16-year-old Shira Banki was in critical condition after she was attacked; she died while in the care of her doctors.

She was one of six people stabbed when Yishai Shlissel attacked marchers with a knife during Jerusalem’s annual pride parade on Thursday.

Shlissel was dressed in ultra-orthodox garb as he charged into the crowd, stabbing six before being restrained by policemen. He is currently in custody and awaiting trial.

Police have been criticized for not monitoring Shlissel closer, who had only been released for three weeks after having been imprisoned for stabbing three people at a pride parade in 2005.

In response to the attacks, rallies were held in Jerusalem and the capital of Israel, Tel Aviv.

 

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Noah Mills Shows You How to Work Out at the Office Like a Male Model: WATCH

Noah Mills Shows You How to Work Out at the Office Like a Male Model: WATCH

Male model

Male model Noah Mills isn’t shy about working out, regardless of his surroundings.

Mills, whom you might recognize from Sex and the City 2 or one of his Dolce and Gabbana campaigns, shared with Vogue magazine that he’ll work out just about anywhere:

“I’m not shy,” says Mills. “[Working out] is the best tool to reset and sweat out whatever you need to sweat out.” His favorite do-anywhere move? “I always like push-ups—you can do flat, incline, decline, wide push-ups, diamond push-ups—they’re hard but they give you so much energy.”

Given Mills’ ‘you can workout anywhere’ approach, the hunky model was the perfect person to share some moves to keep you active if you happen to find yourself trapped at a desk for the majority of your day.

Check out our five favorite moves perfect to keep you fit at the office, along with Mills’ video for Vogue, below:

5. RAISE THE ROOF

raise

Perfect for getting your blood humping.

 

4. DESK DECLINE PUSH UPS

decline

Make your desk work for you.

 

3. OFFICE CRAWL

office

Why not work your fitness while helping deliver the office mail?

 

2. KEYBOARD STRETCH

keyboard

Gotta stretch those pecs, bro.

 

1. PHOTOCOPY REACH-BACKS

copy

Copy, collate, and break a sweat. Boom.

 

You can watch the full video below. Which move is your favorite?

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For 'Back On Board,' Greg Louganis Looks Back On His Legacy, LGBT Rights

For 'Back On Board,' Greg Louganis Looks Back On His Legacy, LGBT Rights

An amazing sign of progress on LGBT rights — and an example of how the entrenched homophobia in corporate America of years past has changed dramatically — is Freedom to Marry founder Evan Wolfson being heralded by General Mills, which, after the Supreme Court’s ruling on marriage equality in June, featured him on a commemorative box of Wheaties, “the breakfast of champions.” Only a few decades ago, Olympic diving champion Greg Louganis, a man whose records in the ‘80s still have not been broken, didn’t make the Wheaties box , nor did he get the kind of widespread, lucrative corporate endorsements that his peers received.

A new HBO documentary all about his life, “Back on Board: Greg Louganis” (debuting Tuesday, Aug. 4), points to the intense fear surrounding homosexuality that likely was responsible for the lack of endorsements for a sports superstar who wasn’t even openly gay at the time but was rumored to be so within the sporting world and the media. 

“It’s great, the progress we’ve made!” Louganis exclaimed in an interview with me on SiriusXM Progress when he was shown the Wheaties box featuring Wolfson. Indeed, the film reveals how much Louganis himself contributed to that progress, as a prominent sports figure who came out both as gay and as HIV positive during a time when there was much less acceptance. After he revealed his HIV status in the 1990s, Louganis lost the endorsements he had. (An exception was Speedo, which retained him though 2007)

 

“[Director Cheryl Furjanic] reached out to me and I just agreed to do it,” Louganis said of the documentary, which shows him as he was immersed within the harrowing experience of seeing his Malibu home possibly taken away from him as he sat among his belongings, packed in boxes, trying to negotiate with the bank on the phone. The film flashes back to his amazing career throughout, then comes back to his uncertain present before flashing back again.

“There was so much going on at the time because I was in the midst of potentially losing my home,” he explained. “And what they did with the film, ‘Back on Board,’ it really goes through the chronology of my sports history and the sports footage really takes you back to that moment in time and, also, to that moment in time of what was happening in the world. People were dying of HIV and AIDS. I was diagnosed with HIV in 1988, six months prior to the Olympic Games. I didn’t think I would see 30 because people were dying. Fortunately, my cousin, who was my doctor, said, ‘The healthiest thing for you is to continue training.’ And that’s what I did. It was much easier for me to focus on the diving.”

Louganis is a long-term HIV survivor, obviously concerned about his health. He explained how he became an easy target of con artists who preyed upon his vulnerability regarding his being immune-suppressed.

“I learned that my case wasn’t so unique from what was happening in the country,” he said. “It was classic. 2006. The black mold scare. A contractor came in and said, ‘Your house is killing you.’ I was very fearful, so I made a lot of decisions out of fear. So then they took all of the equity out of the house in order to get the work done. And it was going to be to an investment, which was going to pay for everything. And they half-demolished the house [removing supposed mold], because work had to be done immediately. So [I was] in a half-demolished house; they got the money. Took all the equity out of the house and took off with my money.”

But, as “Back on Board” reveals, Louganis is a survivor in more ways than one. He dealt head-on with adversity in both his past and present, and now mentors swimmers on the U.S. Olympic diving team. And he’s become a political activist, something he was previously reluctant to call himself. After supporting athletes competing in the 2104 Olympics in Sochi, Russia — plagued by international controversy over that nation’s “gay propaganda” law  — he went directly to the LGBT Out Games in Moscow, facing brutal homophobia along with other athletes.

“We were turned away from our hotels once they learned who the group was,” he said. “We had bomb threats. We had a smoke bomb set off by the military at one of our venues. We were kicked out of venues, and when we were in the midst of the some of the events. There was one time when I was fearful we might be detained….I got a true taste of what it’s like to be LGBTQ in Russia. And I was so grateful to be able to be there.”

And we’re grateful that Louganis is still using his stature as a sports hero to fight bigotry. Come on, General Mills. It’s not too late for that Wheaties box.

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Paul O’Grady pays tribute after the death of his friend Cilla Black

Paul O’Grady pays tribute after the death of his friend Cilla Black

Comedian and actor Paul O’Grady said he didn’t know Cilla Black was in danger of dying and found out while reading the morning news.

O’Grady, who is 60, told the Liverpool Echo he could not believe Black was dead. ‘Please tell me this isn’t true? We’ve been friends for nearly 20 years. She’s like my sister,’ he said.

‘We had a week together in Barbados at the beginning of the year and I saw her on my birthday.

‘I thought she was well. I can’t believe it to tell you the truth.’

The two television personalities were close friends. O’Grady says the only noticeable sign of illness was her hearing.

He added: ‘I kept telling her she’d outlive us all. She’s such a strong lady.

‘It was difficult because she couldn’t hear so it became texting but then we’d manage to get her.’

Cilla Black died in her home in Marbella, Spain.

She is thought to have died sometime during Saturday night. There is an autopsy underway but Spanish police have said: ‘Everything at this stage is pointing towards her death being the result of natural causes.’

Black rose to fame as a singer, during which time she released 14 albums. Later in her career she became a television personality, presenting popular shows like Surprise Surprise and Blind Date. Her life’s story was told in a recent drama film, Cilla, played by Sheridan Smith.

The popular star, whose real name is Priscilla White, told the Mirror in 2014 she thought death before 75 would be a good thing.

‘Seventy-five is a good age to go if things start to drop off,’ she said.

‘I don’t want to linger. I don’t want to be a burden on anybody. I know 75 is only four years away, but I take each day as I find it.’

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Donald Trump Reveals What He’ll Ask Other GOP Candidates At First Debate: VIDEO

Donald Trump Reveals What He’ll Ask Other GOP Candidates At First Debate: VIDEO

Donald Trump

Sitting down with Fox News anchor Eric Bolling on Saturday, Donald Trump was asked what question he’d like to ask each of the other 2016 GOP candidates at the first presidential debate this Thursday.

Find out Donald Trump’s beef with Jeb Bush, Marco Rubio, Scott Walker, and Chris Christie in the video below [question starts 6:25].

In related news, a just released NBC News/Wall Street Journal poll finds Trump holding onto his lead, with 19 percent of GOP primary voters saying he’s their first choice (compared to 15 percent for Walker and 14 percent for Bush).

 

 

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The Need for Full Federal LGBT Equality: Discrimination in Housing

The Need for Full Federal LGBT Equality: Discrimination in Housing

The Equality Act, a comprehensive federal non-discrimination bill, would create explicit, permanent protections against discrimination based on an individual’s sexual orientation or gender identity in matters of housing.
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Biceps: How To Maximize Their Potential In 4-6 Weeks

Biceps: How To Maximize Their Potential In 4-6 Weeks

Carlos-location-logoBiceps are the ultimate summer vanity muscle group, and one which many spend a great deal of time focusing on. So today is all about fluff — pumping your biceps up to their maximum potential in only a short couple of months.

As you can see below, I only do drop sets for one muscle group in a given day — one example is when I do drop sets for biceps, I don’t for triceps and vice versa.

Drop set: This means you’ll be getting three different weights ready for that exercise, do you can quickly drop to the next lower weight. You’ll do the first part of your set with the heaviest weight you can do and complete 8-10 reps or until exhaustion. You’ll drop those and immediately grab the next lower weight and repeat 8-10 sets. So essentially that one set will actually be a total of 24-30 reps. You’ll do 3 of those types of sets for each exercise with probably 60-90 seconds between each set — not between the weight drops, but between actual sets.

If you’re doing things right, it’ll be very hard to complete 8-10 reps by the tim you drop to your third weight. With the regular sets, use the highest weight you can, and use your own judgment in terms of rest between sets. I typically rest around 60-75 seconds, but some don’t like to wait that long — it’s up to you. Also, you can easily superset triceps in between biceps in lieu of the 60-second breaks. That gets you in and out of the gym much quicker and serves as a good cardio workout with little break times…great for shredding. I’ve listed the exercises in the order which I would do them for the first couple days, but you can easily swap what you do first, middle, last, and so on.

A simple Google search can easily describe any movements that you are unfamiliar with. Do the workout below twice a week, and within 4-6 weeks you should see noticeable changes in size and strength.

Week 1 (Do twice a week)

Biceps:

Seated dumbbell rotation curls – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Standing dumbbell hammer curls – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Seated dumbbell concentration curls – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Standing barbell curl – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Seated preacher curl – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight once)

Seated wrist curl – 4 regular sets with 8-10 reps (no drop weight)

Triceps:

Seated single-arm dumbbell triceps extension – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Laying overhead bar press – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Standing overhead barbell triceps extension – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Seated barbell French press – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Dips (however you can, if you don’t have a machine) – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Week 1 (Do twice a week)

Biceps:

Standing barbell curl – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Seated dumbbell hammer curls – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Standing dumbbell curls (no rotation) – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Seated dumbbell concentration curls – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Standing wrist curl – 4 regular sets with 8-10 rep (no drop weight)

Seated preacher curl – 4 regular sets with 10 reps (no drop weight)

Triceps:

Seated barbell French press – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Standing overhead barbell triceps extension – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Seated single-arm dumbbell triceps extension – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Laying overhead bar press – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

Dips (however you can, if you don’t have a machine) – 3 drop sets with 8-10 reps (drop weight twice)

 

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Teen Lesbian Couple Attacked In Brutal Hate Crime At Six Flags In Massachusetts

Teen Lesbian Couple Attacked In Brutal Hate Crime At Six Flags In Massachusetts

Six Flags

Two lesbian college students were brutally attacked in an anti-gay hate crime at the Six Flags New England theme park in Massachusetts on Wednesday.

The women, ages 18 and 19 and both students at Bryant University in Rhode Island, were hugging and kissing at about 7 p.m. on a bridge connecting the Six Flags pickup area to Main Street in Agawam, according to a report from MassLive.com.

When a woman stopped and stared at them, one of the victims asked whether there was a problem.

“No, I’m just waiting for my kid,” the woman replied.

As the couple walked away, the woman said, “I wouldn’t care about your gay asses anyway.”

The couple ignored the comment, but then the woman began yelling graphic, anti-gay slurs. The couple turned around, and one of them got in the woman’s face, again asking what her problem was.

That’s when the woman began punching the victim in the face, before kicking her and pulling her hair as she lay on the ground. Meanwhile, another woman punched the first victim’s girlfriend before pulling a knife.

The suspects fled after a crowd gathered, but they were later arrested in the parking lot.

Damarielys Mukhtar, 29, of Springfield and Nikia L. Butt, 27, are charged with assault and battery and a civil rights violation with injury. Mukhtar is also charged with assault with a dangerous weapon.

Mukhtar was released on bail, but Butt was being held without bond because she has a previous charge of assault and battery with a dangerous weapon from 2014.

Read the full report from MassLive.com here.

 

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