George Takei Apologizes For Calling Clarence Thomas A 'Clown In Blackface'

George Takei Apologizes For Calling Clarence Thomas A 'Clown In Blackface'
George Takei has apologized for referring to Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas as “a clown in blackface.”

In a Facebook update posted on Friday afternoon, Takei said, “I owe an apology. On the eve of this Independence Day, I have a renewed sense of what this country stands for, and how I personally could help achieve it.”

On Thursday the Star Trek actor, who is gay, came under fire when he told a reporter he disapproved of Thomas’ dissent on the high court’s landmark same-sex marriage case.

“He is a clown in blackface sitting on the Supreme Court,” a jolted Takei said. “He gets me that angry. He doesn’t belong there.”

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On June 26, the Supreme Court ruled 5 to 4 to legalize same-sex marriage nationwide, overruling state attempts to ban such unions.

The majority opinion, written by the court’s liberal justices Anthony Kennedy, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Elena Kagan, Stephen Breyer and Sonia Sotomayor, determined that the right to marry is protected under the 14th Amendment.

The dissenters — Chief Justice John Roberts, joined by Justices Antonin Scalia, Samuel Alito and Clarence Thomas — disagreed, calling it unconstitutional.

Penning his own scathing dissent, Thomas wrote that the government could not take away “human dignity.”

“Slaves did not lose their dignity (any more than they lost their humanity) because the government allowed them to be enslaved,” Thomas wrote. “Those held in internment camps did not lose their dignity because the government confined them.”

This hit a cord with Takei, whose family was interned by Americans during World War II. Takei clarified that his remarks about Thomas, who is black, were not meant to be racial.

I recently was asked by a reporter about Justice Clarence Thomas’s dissent in the marriage equality cases, in which he wrote words that really got under my skin, by suggesting that the government cannot take away human dignity through slavery, or though internment. In my mind that suggested that this meant he felt the government therefore shouldn’t be held accountable, or should do nothing in the face of gross violations of dignity. When asked by a reporter about the opinion, I was still seething, and I referred to him as a “clown in blackface” to suggest that he had abdicated and abandoned his heritage. This was not intended to be racist, but rather to evoke a history of racism in the theatrical arts. While I continue to vehemently disagree with Justice Thomas, the words I chose, said in the heat of anger, were not carefully considered.

Takei apologized for personally attacking Thomas instead of the content of his argument:

I am reminded, especially on this July 4th holiday, that though we have the freedom to speak our minds, we must use that freedom judiciously. Each of us, as humans, have hot-button topics that can set-us off, and Justice Thomas had hit mine, that is clear. But my choice of words was regrettable, not because I do not believe Justice Thomas is deeply wrong, but because they were ad hominem and uncivil, and for that I am sorry.

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Harrison Ford once told Jane Lynch to keep her mouth shut – find out why

Harrison Ford once told Jane Lynch to keep her mouth shut – find out why

When The Fugitive was being shot in Chicago more than two decades ago, a then-unknown local stage actress named Jane Lynch caught a break.

She landed a small role in the film as a ‘local hire’ and even got to shoot a scene with star Harrison Ford.

Lynch, now a two-time Emmy winning actress, told Conan O’Brien this week that she learned some valuable acting advice from Ford during the shooting of their scene.

His character of Dr. Richard Kimble was on the lam after being wrongly accused of murdering his wife. Lynch, who had never worked on camera before, played his old friend Dr. Kathy Wahlund who he visits with briefly.

To convey longing as Kimble departs, Lynch says her mouth was hanging wide open.

Ford noticed.

‘He came over to me and said, “I have a little advice for you. I don’t care how smart you are, any time your mouth is wide open like that, you look stupid.”‘

Lynch never forgot it.

But she had a good excuse: ‘I’m kind of a mouth breather as a person anyway.’

Lynch went on to make many more films after that including Best In Show, Julie & Julia, 40 Year Old Virgin, Collateral Damage and The Three Stooges.

But she has found her greatest success on the small screen winning an Emmy for her portrayal of Sue Sylvester on Glee and is one of the stars of the upcoming CBS sitcom Angel From Hell.

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What Was It Like to Be at the Supreme Court When the Marriage Equality Judgement Was Announced?

What Was It Like to Be at the Supreme Court When the Marriage Equality Judgement Was Announced?
What was it like at the Supreme Court when the marriage equality judgment was announced?: originally appeared on Quora: The best answer to any question. Ask a question, get a great answer. Learn from experts and access insider knowledge. You can follow Quora on Twitter, Facebook, and Google+.

Answer by Stephanie Vardavas

I arrived at the Supreme Court building at about 9:25 and waded directly into the crowd. It was a big crowd. We’re talking hundreds and hundreds of people. The mood was very festive. Many people had brought their kids and even their little dogs. People were reasonably confident of a positive decision but still a little wary. Everyone was friendly and animated. People were handing out little flags from the Human Rights Campaign and the ACLU, “Proud to be a Democrat” stickers, signs that read “America is Ready,” and rainbow buttons with President Obama on them. Chatted with the woman next to me, who had brought her teenaged daughter. She said she was from “the reddest, most horrible part of Michigan, but I hope soon that won’t matter anymore.”

There was a lot of jovial speculation about what Justice Scalia’s dissent might be like.

MSNBC estimated at least a 10:1 ratio between supporters and opponents of same sex marriage in the crowd. I would peg it at more like 20:1 or even 25:1 or 30:1. There was one guy in a black t-shirt covered with Biblical references to Sodom and Gomorrah. The vast majority of the crowd were gay rights supporters who were there in the hope of seeing justice done. Several of them were Christians with colorful signs proclaiming their support for marriage equality.

In addition to the two above I saw other people with signs that said things like “I’m an Evangelical for Marriage Equality.”

There was a guy with a giant homemade sign collage proclaiming that the wages of sin are death, and that HIV/AIDS are God’s wrath. There were a few other “Christian” demonstrators but they disappeared relatively quickly after the decision came out.

A minute or two after 10 am we saw “the running of the interns” carrying copies of the decision and dissents to the various TV reporters waiting at their setups on the sidewalk. At about this time somebody who had been able to load SCOTUSblog on his phone started shouting, “We won! 5 to 4!” Everyone started cheering and hugging.

I was standing next to about 20 guys in identical blue t-shirts, who turned out to be the DC Gay Men’s Chorus, and just a minute or two later they began to sing the national anthem. Everyone around me joined in. We were all singing the national anthem and by the end of it I was crying like a baby. I am almost 59 years old and in my whole life I have never been prouder to be an American.

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They followed it up with a wonderful song called “Make Them Hear You,” about fighting for justice. I cried some more.

I started wandering around, listening to snippets of the various standup reports being done by the TV news people, taking pictures for groups of people who wanted to get pictures with the Supreme Court building in the background. I was interviewed by a reporter and cameraperson from ThinkProgress and while I haven’t seen the video I believe I was reasonably coherent, although I’m sure my eyes were still full. I’ll post it here if I ever find it online.

The Gay Men’s Chorus started singing again. They repeated the national anthem and “Make Them Hear You,” then added “The Impossible Dream,” which was incredibly moving, and then they sang some modified lyrics to “We Shall Overcome.” “We shall marry free / we shall marry free / we shall marry free today…”

I never got close enough to hear any of the remarks by the plaintiffs, their counsel, or the lawyers representing the other side. But we had set our TiVo to record MSNBC from 10 am till noon, and I was able to watch that after I got back.

This decision was exceptionally meaningful for me because my old friend Evan Wolfson is the godfather of the marriage equality movement. He is the founder and president of Freedom to Marry, and spoke today on MSNBC about his plan to unwind the organization now that it has achieved its objective.  We’ve been friends for almost 40 years and I’m so proud of him that I could burst.

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Trailblazer: Lazlo Major of New York’s all-male comedy ballet company The Trocks

Trailblazer: Lazlo Major of New York’s all-male comedy ballet company The Trocks

Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlos (or The Trocks as they are generally referred to) are a unique dance troupe – an all-male ensemble combining humor with high-brow dance. Ahead of their UK tour, we caught up with dancer Lazlo Major to swap travel stories.

What’s been the most random destination you’ve visited?

We travel a lot with The Trocks, and during one of the company’s recent tours across the USA I was in Fort Lauderdale in the state of Florida. I met a really nice guy and we instantly connected. Following the tour, and after two days back home in New York, I decided to buy a ticket and fly back to Florida to spend some more time with the guy. We had a great time together. So, I’d say the sudden return trip to Fort Lauderdale was pretty random, but it felt right.

Where has been your best vacation and why?

One of my best vacations was a trip to France earlier this year. After The Trocks finished a tour to Italy I went directly to Paris and spent a week with good friends. I plan to go back very soon and would love to spend a month in the city, quality time with friends as well as use the time to improve my French! France is definitely one of my favorite countries. I love the people, the language, the culture and the French cuisine. The cities are beautiful, very atmospheric and friendly.

Where has been your worst vacation and why?

I’ve been fortunate enough not to have any bad vacations. I’m an optimistic person and see the positive in even the worst of situations!

What has been your most romantic trip?

It has to be a trip to Milan. I was there for two weeks and I met a really sweet guy. He showed me around the beautiful city, we went for walks at night and we dined in Milan’s oldest restaurant close to the river. We did lots of romantic things. It was perfect!

Would you avoid any specific countries?

No, the opposite, I would like to see and experience as many countries as possible. I’m very lucky to be in a dance company that performs in many different cities across the world. I’ve enjoyed every city we’ve travelled to so far. I joined The Trocks in September 2014 and have already toured across the USA, performed in the Netherlands, Italy, Serbia and Spain. I would go back to all of them, rather than avoid any of them.

Do you prefer to travel solo or with a partner?

As a member of The Trocks I am one of 16 dancers and we’re all together a lot on tour. Like many professional dance companies we have busy schedules, including class and rehearsals most days of the week and at set times. To ensure everything runs smoothly on and off stage, and so the shows are up and running on time, we have to be extremely disciplined and punctual. So, away from The Trocks, I’m really sensitive when people are late. I’m also very independent, so when the opportunity arises to take a vacation I prefer to travel solo.

What is your favorite thing about your home city?

My favorite things in Hungary are my family and my childhood home. I was born in Mosonmagyaròvàr, Hungary and I grew up in Jánossomorja. I moved away from home 12 years ago to train at the Györ Dance and Art School in the northwest of the country. When I go home it feels like I went back in time, like I’m a young boy again, as all the things in my family house and bedroom look the same as when I moved away.

Where were you going the last time you stepped on a plane?

I was going from New York to Genoa in Italy, but there’s going to be a lot of planes in the coming months – I’m soon flying to Japan for a month-long tour with The Trocks. After USA, Japan is one of the countries we tour to the most. Straight after the Japan tour it’s back to New York for the rest of the summer before heading to the UK for the company’s London dates and UK tour in the autumn. It will be the first time I’ve performed with The Trocks in the UK and I’m really looking forward to it. It’s very exciting The Trocks will be in the West End of London for two weeks followed by performances in places as far south as Southampton to Inverness in the Highlands of Scotland!

What is your dream destination and why?

I’d really like to go to Australia, Brazil and Thailand for a short vacation. If the destination was more long term it would need to be where people are friendly and appreciate the work I do, and most importantly where I can continue to learn.

The Trocks will begin their UK tour at The Peacock theatre in London.

Lazlo Major, dancer with The Trocks, shares his travel stories with Gay Star News.
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News: ‘The Body Issue’, SCOTUS, Matt Bomer, Mormon Church

News: ‘The Body Issue’, SCOTUS, Matt Bomer, Mormon Church

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> Washington Nationals’ Bryce Harper gets dirty and shows some skin for ESPN The Magazine’s body issue. 

> Navy and Marines take first step toward open trans service.

> SCOTUS plaintiff Jim Obergefell joins Twitter.

> Gay rights activists in Nigeria see hope in SCOTUS’ gay marriage ruling. 

> The adorable little boy who danced in NYC Gay Pride. 

> Sam Smith’s Instagram may have been hacked. 

> Majority of Americans support SCOTUS ruling on gay marriage. 

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> Rick Santorum plays the role of keynote speaker at NOM gala.

> Matt Bomer went to a strip club to do research for Magic Mike.

> Politico: Republicans are too angry about gay marriage.

> Puff Daddy will not face charges for the assault of his son’s football coach at UCLA.

> Mormon church makes donation to LGBT adoption group. 

> Could household garbage be turned into jet fuel?

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I Live With My Ex-Wife And Her New Wife — And Our Kids Are Better For It

I Live With My Ex-Wife And Her New Wife — And Our Kids Are Better For It
As part of our Blended Family Friday series, each week we spotlight a different stepfamily to learn how they’ve worked to bring their two families together. Our hope is that by telling their stories, we’ll bring you closer to blended family bliss in your own life!

After their separation, Ben Rollman and his ex-wife Cheryl decided to remain in the same home so they could continue to raise their kids together. When Cheryl fell in love with her new partner Clair, the household gained a new member.

“It’s all three parents and two kids under one roof,” Rollman, who lives in Austin, Texas, told The Huffington Post. “People actually get on me for not writing a book about this but I keep telling them it’d be a really boring book about how everyone gets along.”

Below, Rollman tells us more about his family’s unique living arrangement.

Hi Ben. Please introduce us to your family.
There’s five of us: Myself, my ex-wife Cheryl, her new wife Clair and our kids Rowan (14) and Gregory (11).

How long were you married to Cheryl? What was it like for you when she moved on with Clair?
We were married nine years before Cheryl officially said she couldn’t live as a straight woman any longer. (When I met her, she was dating a woman so I already knew she was bisexual.) We agreed to stay together to raise the kids. We finalized our divorce about four years after our split and she’s been with her wife now for five years. The divorce and moving on was a little rough at first because it’s the end of a relationship, but Cheryl and I were still friends. Keeping that relationship going was important and helped us both get past the end of the romantic part of it.

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What went into the decision to move in together — and how have you made it work as parents?
When Cheryl and I decided to split up, I was worried I’d have to lose my kids. My parents are divorced and I didn’t want to put my kids through the same thing my brother and I went through. My dad would see us twice a week and then every other weekend and I just hated it. I love my dad and the shuttling back and forth wasn’t something I wanted to subject my kids to. Luckily, we had extra room so we decided to just remain co-parents.

Then Cheryl met Clair. They were married in New York a few years ago and Clair actually bought the house we all live in now. For us, this is just a matter of doing the same things all parents do. We make it work like anyone else: You wake up, you work, you go to school, you buy groceries, you go to movies. Family life isn’t much different than it is for other families — we just raise the kids with three parents.

That’s what it’s been like for the last five years. I’m actually moving in with my girlfriend this weekend, but we found a house just a few houses down from where I was. We’re setting things up so the kids can come over anytime!

What have been some of the biggest challenges of living together?
One of the problems was dating again. When Cheryl and I began dating other people, we made sure serious partners knew and understood our parenting relationship. But as much as people say our situation is very positive and unique, it was hard finding someone to date. It’s a great setup for the kids but not a lot of people want to be instantly added to a large family. (Interestingly enough, my longest relationship up to this point was with the sister of a woman Cheryl dated for a while.)

Another issue we have to deal with is how we introduce ourselves to our children’s friends and their parents. Austin is pretty open-minded but we’re still in Texas. That means a lot of testing people out before letting them know more about us.

Then of course, there’s the usual problems: The kids try to play parents off one another, as kids tend to do, but it becomes a little more complicated with three parents. We have constant meetings to make sure the kids aren’t trying to get away with something and that nothing is overlooked!

What’s the best thing about being part of a blended family? What makes you proudest of your family?
For the most part, I like coming home. There’s always someone there, there’s always someone to talk to or be with. I think we are a stronger and more tolerant group because of how we live. I’m proud of us all for doing it as long as we have, but I’m mostly proud of my kids. They are wonderful, smart, caring, talented individuals who I feel have it better because we stayed together.

What advice do you have for other blended families who feel like a peaceful family dynamic is out of reach?
I sometimes feel that anyone in any type of family who cares at all is doing the right thing. Any focus you give you kids or your partner or your co-parents is better than nothing. For us, the trick has just been to get through each day and recognize that we’re going through the same challenges that any other family faces.

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Marisa Tomei joins TV’s Empire as a lesbian billionaire

Marisa Tomei joins TV’s Empire as a lesbian billionaire

Marisa Tomei is making a rare return to series television.

What drew the Oscar-winning actress back to the small screen is a juicy role on Empire as a lesbian Forbes list billionaire.

Tomei will appear in a multi-episode arc as demanding venture capitalist Mimi Whiteman who Deadline Hollywood describes as a lover of ‘hip hop music, social trends, high-end fashion and beautiful women.

Empire, created by openly gay director-writer-producer Lee Daniels, already has a high-profile gay character played by Jussie Smollett who came out to the world in dramatic fashion at the end of the show’s first season.

Tomei won the supporting actress Oscar for My Cousin Vinny and was also nominated in the same category for In the Bedroom and The Wrestler.

But before her career in movies, she was one of the leads on the NBC sitcom A Different World which was a spinoff of The Cosby Show. Her character was written out after the show’s first season.

Since then, Tomei has done a recurring role on the FX drama Rescue Me but has largely appeared only in feature films including Unhook the Stars, The Paper, The Ides of March and last year’s gay-themed Love is Strange.

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