Everything We Know About Suspected NYC BBQ Attacker, Including That He’s Gay

Everything We Know About Suspected NYC BBQ Attacker, Including That He’s Gay

1269405048915963714Earlier this month we reported on some truly disturbing footage of an apparent gay bashing at Dallas BBQ in New York City’s Chelsea neighborhood.

Jonathan Snipes, 32, and his boyfriend, Ethan York-Adams, 25, were beaten over the head with a wooden chair, thrown to the ground and repeatedly kicked by two men shouting anti-gay slurs.

A few days later, police released video footage of the suspect, Bayna El-Amin, and there were early rumors suggesting he is gay.

Since then, more details have emerged about El-Amin.

Here’s what we know:

  • The rumors appear to be true.

Gawker dug up El-Amin’s Facebook page, which is listed under an “alias variation of his birth name,” which points to El-Amin being engaged to another man.

Below is a screenshot of an Instagram post of the two (the other man’s identity has been protected), captioned “Bear & cub.”

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Here’s an engagement announcement El-Amin posted in February 2014:

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  • El-Amin is described as a “career criminal” by NYPD, and has served serious prison time for forgery and credit card fraud in Georgia.
  • Animal reports that until recently, El-Amin listed on his Facebook page that he was working “Personal Security for Sketchie ENTertainment,” a nightclub promotion company.
  • The “hate crime” element will be a complicated issue to dissect. El-Amin reportedly called the couple “white faggots” before and during the attack. Gawker spoke with Lambda Legal Deputy Legal Director Hayley Gorenberg, who said, “Even if the victim or the aggressor share the same characteristics, that’s not going to answer the question of whether what happened here was a hate crime. It’s going to be about the motivation.”
  • El-Amin has not been apprehended, and police believe he has fled the state.

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'Northwest Passage' is a Documentary About Growing Up In Twin Peaks as a Gay Adolescent

'Northwest Passage' is a Documentary About Growing Up In Twin Peaks as a Gay Adolescent

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BY DAVID BRENDEL

Filmmaker Adam Baran is a vortex of the ’new’ New Queer Cinema – a former editor at Butt Magazine, a programmer for Outfest and NewFest, and co-curator, with Ira Sachs, of New York’s Queer/Art/Film. His new project Northwest Passage tells the story of queer filmmaker Travis Blue, who grew up in the shadow of Twin Peaks, filmed in his hometown.

The film grapples with gay adolescence in the 90’s, and issues of LGBT abuse and homelessness. Yet these themes are filtered through a Lynchian lens – call it ’social-surrealism.’ Currently being launched on Kickstarter, Northwest Passage is a film both by and for queer people. There are 5 days left in the campaign, which is offering some of the coolest Kickstarter rewards I’ve seen to date. 

TwinpeaksDavid: Did you watch the pilot when Twin Peaks first came out?

Adam: No, I didn’t know about it until a few years later when I started to get into films and David Lynch and things like that.

David: So as a teenager, did you feel like the show was in some way queer while you were figuring out your queerness?

Adam: In retrospect, maybe. There’s something about Lynch’s work that presents the underworld in everything, and I think as gay people we know the underworld better than straight people. Of course, Lynch was showing the straight underworld: the secret sadomasochistic things that go on behind closed doors and the terrible things that people do to each other, but it still had this very queer angle to it. Laura is keeping her sexuality – her intense, extreme sexuality – hidden from her parents, and she’s going out to work as a prostitute and to the secret underground clubs where everyone’s having sex with each other. Definitely that world is the world that I wanted to live in (laughs) in some way! I think the reason I’m attracted to and Travis’s story is because he really actually lived it.

David: Travis brings a Gus Van Sant slant to this meta-David Lynch story.

Adam: Yeah, in addition to Twin Peaks I would say My Own Private Idaho was Travis’s other inspiration.

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Travis and The Log Lady

David: Twin Peaks became part of the queer canon in some way, without being explicitly gay.

Adam: Lynch has done lesbian stuff. And in Blue Velvet, the most famous creepy moment in Blue Velvet is where it’s implied that Dennis Hopper’s character rapes Kyle MacLachlan’s character, forces him to wear lipstick. So, I think David Lynch – he’s used it in some ways to shock, but by Mulholland Drive it’s a progression to actually considering this lesbian love affair as this grand time unbending thing.

David: There’s five days left in your film’s Kickstarter.

Jackpot1Adam: Yes. Anything helps. I did my first film Jackpot  (right, which you can watch on Towleroad) as a Kickstarter, and this continues the theme – what did our queer youths look like? How do we determine who we are, based on the information that we receive in childhood? Unfortunately, because gay youth are underrepresented, we have to look at straight characters to try and find ourselves in coded spots.

David: I didn’t really watch Twin Peaks back in 1990 – will I still be interested?

Adam: I think for any gay people who had a hard time figuring themselves out, Northwest Passage is going to portray it for the first time in a really strange and honest way. This is a film that has the power to help a lot of gay people, and people who are going through things that Travis went through. It’s not just about Twin Peaks – it’s about surviving abuse and homelessness, and things like suicide prevention, which the media overlooks in favor of gay marriage. Even now, kids are getting kicked out of their houses and and ending up in sex work, before they’re really able to figure out who they are. This is a film about that journey, how we figure out, as gay people, who we are.

Watch the teaser trailer (briefly work-unfriendly) for Northwest Passage on its Kickstarter page.

Here is an exclusive clip shot by Twin Peaks devotee Mark Lyons of Travis and his friend Chani playing Laura Palmer during the 1994 Twin Peaks Fan Fest.

Northwest Passage Clip 1: Wrapped in Plastic from Adam Baran on Vimeo.


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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Thinks It's Bullsh*t That Young Women Have To Be ‘Likable'

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Thinks It's Bullsh*t That Young Women Have To Be ‘Likable'
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is here to remind young women that whoever likes you or doesn’t like you should have no effect on your self worth.

On May 19, the Nigerian author was honored at the 2015 Girls Write Now Awards, where she gave a riveting speech directed at young women — reminding them that their stories and their voices matter. “I think it’s important to tell your story truthfully and I think that’s a difficult thing to do — to be truly truthful,” Adichie told the crowd in New York City.

She said that it’s hard for women to be truthful when telling their stories because we’re conditioned to be concerned about offending people. Adichie told the young women in the crowd to forget about being liked. “If you start off thinking about being likable you’re not going to tell your story honestly because you’re going to be so concerned with not offending and that’s going to ruin your story. Forget about likability,” she said.

“Forget about likability”

“I think that what our society teaches young girls and I think it’s also something that’s quite difficult for even older women, self-confessed feminists to shrug off is that idea that likability is an essential part of the space that you occupy in the world,” she went on. “That you’re supposed to twist yourself into shapes and make yourself likable, that you’re supposed to kind of hold back sometimes, pull back, don’t quite say, don’t be too pushy because you have to be likable. And I say that is bullshit.” And that’s what we call a crowd pleaser.

Thank you, Chimamanda for reminding all of us (even the self-confessed feminists) that being liked should never stand in the way of telling your story.

Watch her entire speech in the video above.

H/T Blavity

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Two Straight “Bachelorette” Contestants Fall In Love, Confess To Hooking Up In The Shower

Two Straight “Bachelorette” Contestants Fall In Love, Confess To Hooking Up In The Shower

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Arlis (left) and Lane (right)

Romance is in the air on this season of The Bachelorette. The popular ABC reality show just took a super gay turn.

This season’s lady, Kaitlyn Bristowe, thought she had found a potential match. She gave her first one-on-one rose to Clint Arlis. But her heart was quickly broken when he declared his love for another man… His fellow contestant JJ Lane.

Gasp!

“It’s absolutely insane,” Arlis, who always thought of himself as straight, said during his on-camera interview before dropping the bomb to Bristowe. “I never thought that I’d meet somebody like that. Falling in love with a man never crossed my mind.”

There’s a first time for everything, right?

Arlis then went on to explain that he and Lane had “grown very close to each other in the shower.”

Unfortunately, those scenes were not captured by the camera crew, so we’ll just have to take his word on it.

When Arlis sat down with Bristowe to break the news, he told her he was “100 percent” in love with Lane, adding that she’s “not the right girl for me.”

But all hope is not lost for Bristowe. She still has 18 other guys to choose from.

As for the two gents, here’s wishing them both a long and happily ever after.

h/t: US Weekly

Graham Gremore

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Theatre News: Danielle ‘Taystee’ Brooks, Jessica Lange, Gabriel Byrne Take the Stage, Broadway's Biggest Season Ever, and More

Theatre News: Danielle ‘Taystee’ Brooks, Jessica Lange, Gabriel Byrne Take the Stage, Broadway's Biggest Season Ever, and More

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> Danielle Brooks, best known for her role as Taystee on Orange Is the New Black, will make her Broadway debut as Sofia in The Color Purple this fall. As previously announced, the stateside transfer of director John Doyle’s acclaimed London production will also star Oscar-winner Jennifer Hudson as Shug Avery and Cynthia Eviro as Celie. Produced by Oprah Winfrey and Scott Sanders among others, the musical will land at the Bernard B. Jacobs Theatre with previews beginning November 9 for an opening night of December 10.

Lange_April_2008> Jessica Lange, Gabriel Byrne and John Gallagher Jr. will star in a revival of Eugene O’Neill’s Long Day’s Journey into Night on Broadway next spring, Roundabout Theatre Company announced this week. Directed by Jonathan Kent, the production will begin previews at the American Airlines Theatre on March 31, 2016 for an opening night of April 19. The revival will be presented in association with film and TV producer Ryan Murphy as part of the company’s 50th anniversary season.

> Producers Jeffrey Richards and Jerry Frankel announced further details for their upcoming revival of Fiddler on the Roof, which will arrive at the Broadway Theatre with previews on November 17 for an opening night of December 17. Bartlett Sher, currently Tony nominated for his direction of The King and I, will direct the production, starring five-time Tony nominee Danny Burstein as Tevye. Additional casting has not yet been announced.

Fun_Home_0450_Sydney_Lucas__Michael_Cerveris_-_Photo_Credit_Joan_Marcus> Both Fun Home and Something Rotten!, two new musicals vying for Tony Awards on June 7, announced plans to launch national tours in the 2016 – 2017 season last week. The shows join fellow nominees An American in Paris and The King and I, as well as awards shutout Finding Neverland, in revealing plans to tour shortly after opening this spring. For awards contenders, including On the Town and The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, which opened in the fall and also plan to tour, the announcements are both a show of confidence in their commercial strength and a play for support from Tony voters.

> The 2014 – 2015 Broadway season was the best attended and highest grossing season in Broadway history, according to end-of-season statistics released by the Broadway League this week. The season, which began in May of 2014 and ended this month, saw a total attendance of over 13 million audience members and grossed a total of over $1.3 billion, breaking records on both fronts by an increase of over 7%.

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Naveen Kumar

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WATCH: What It Was Like in Ireland the Moment They Said YES to Equality

WATCH: What It Was Like in Ireland the Moment They Said YES to Equality

You’ve likely heard the news that Ireland made history this past weekend by becoming the first country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage by (a landslide) popular vote. But what you might not have seen beyond the headlines and articles is just how much the marriage referendum captured the attention and passion of an entire country.

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I traveled to Ireland with Human Rights Campaign last week because I knew the vote wasn’t just going to be a historic moment for Ireland, it was going to be a historic moment for the world. Homosexuality was decriminalized in Ireland just over 20 years ago. The fact that Ireland has evolved to become a more welcoming, respectful, and inclusive country since then gives me hope for a future where all countries will offer equal rights to all citizens. Ireland shows that countries and people can move to the right side of history. And it’s happening faster than you might expect.

I filmed my whole experience in Ireland alongside my friend Riyadh K, one of the leading voices for young people in the Yes Equality campaign. We tried to capture the emotion, magic, and love in the air for this moment that will forever go down in the history books. We hope this video will be a small time capsule for how it felt to be in Ireland when the country ushered in a new era of equality and inspired the rest of the world.

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Raymond Braun leads social campaigns for YouTube. He is currently on a volunteer leave of absence from his job to focus on launching an LGBT-themed YouTube channel. He was named to the 2014 Forbes 30 Under 30 class for his work on LGBT marketing, community engagement, and partnerships for YouTube and Google. Watch Raymond’s first video and subscribe to his channel (youtube.com/raymondbraun). You can also chat with him on Twitter and Instagram.

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