Sexy Guys Talk About their Worst Dates Ever

Sexy Guys Talk About their Worst Dates Ever

Screen Shot 2015-02-15 at 3.12.12 AMHow was your Valentine’s Day? We spent ours in the traditional way: sitting at home in our underwear, binge-watching all of Firefly, and eating cold pizza with toppings that sounded good online but proved to be an unwise combination.

Now that the holiday has passed and our Facebook timeline is no longer a parade of couples posing with forced grins as though they never fight and can still stand to be around each other, we can go back to our favorite past time: reveling in the schadenfreude of your friends’ failed romances.

Men.com has just put out another one of their delicious videos, this time with a bunch of performers revealing the worst dates they’ve ever been on. Among our favorites: Colby Jansen who went on a date with someone who just got sloppy-drunk, talked only about themselves, and threw up on him. Ah, love.

Poor Bennett Anthony went bowling with his boyfriend when he was 15, and his date chose that point to make an unpleasant announcement. Andy Banks got rained on while stargazing. And Colt Rivers says he’s never been on a date.

Can we unpack that last one a little, please? “I’ve never been on a date in my life,” Colt shrugs, and there’s no more info than that. So what’s going on there? He’s super-cute, so it’s not like he couldn’t if he wanted to. Is he in a cult? A loner? Prefers fooling around to commitment? From space? Speculate wildly in the comments, please.

And if you absolutely must see some happy couples, well, we put up a few galleries of those for Valentines Day, so feast your eyes on some revolutionary kisses and boys in their undies.

 

matt baume

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Ireland's Former Equality Minister Pat Carey Comes Out As Gay

Ireland's Former Equality Minister Pat Carey Comes Out As Gay

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Pat Carey, the former minister of Ireland’s center-right party Fianna Fáil has come at as gay. Carey was appointed as a parliamentary member and the Minister for Community, Equality and Gaeltacht Affairs in 1997. According to Carey his decision to reveal his sexuality to the public was inspired by Leo Varadkar who currently serves as Ireland’s health minister and came out earlier this year.

“When I look back it’s an awful pity I didn’t feel able to do that. Nobody stopped me, but I wasn’t sure how it would be received,” Carey told the Irish Times. “I never had the confidence or the courage to do it, and it gets to a stage where you probably say to yourself ‘it’s too late for me to start talking about it now.”

Carey’s is the latest in a series of high-profile Irish public figures coming out at a critical time for LGBT rights in Ireland. The country is set to vote on the future of marriage equality later on this year in a nationwide referendum. Despite the outpouring of support from Irish celebrities and clergy members alike, those in favor of gay marriage for Ireland are still concerned at the idea of the LGBT minority’s rights being put up for popular vote.


Charles Pulliam-Moore

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Backstreet Boys Are Back — Again!

Backstreet Boys Are Back — Again!

large.MkZf3E2o_bvNv-uoyOO_xQt1r9sml06Q4nyhplOc6E4Boy bands have a long musical history, but the mid-to-late ’90s will always be the golden era of the genre. Back then, five fresh faces clad in white denim overalls dancing in a mega-arena were platinum record making machines for the recording industry (remember when that still existed?). But despite the incredible success of New Kids on the Block, ‘N SYNC and the Backstreet Boys, the critics plus the cool kids saw little more than dueling quintets of hair product lip syncing to over-produced tracks.

Flash forward 15 years, and former ‘N SYNC member Justin Timberlake seems to have gotten the ultimate laugh, but the other major boy bands have proved surprisingly resilient. NKOTB currently stars in a reality show about their wildly popular themed cruises, while the Backstreet Boys have been filling stadiums worldwide for more than two years. The return of BSB is the subject of a new feature film documentary, Backstreet Boys: Show ‘Em What You’re Made Of (now in select theaters and on VOD), which follows the return of former BSB member Kevin Richardson to the group in 2012 as the original five got together to write and rehearse for what they hoped would be a successful comeback. No longer boys, BSB deals with their shot knees, strained voices and many personal demons as they make themselves a cohesive group once again. Along for the ride was out music documentary director Stephen Kijak, who directed Scott Walker: 30 Century Man, a film produced by David Bowie, and Stones in Exile, a doc about the Rolling Stones’ seminal 1972 album, Exile on Main Street. With that kind of pedigree, Kijak initially resisted taking on BSB as a subject, but was soon won over when he realized the opportunity he had in front of him. Queerty talked to Kijak about shooting in the Boys’ hometowns, gay fans, and Lou Pearlman, the notorious businessman who masterminded BSB, but also saw his life collapse under a storm of financial and sexual scandal.

large.fth0qagPaYl-lZyNH_mbDc0_LgQn2htzR6mom8TW-UoQueerty: How did you get involved with this project? Did you have a Boy Band fascination before you started?

Stephen Kijak: I was more of a Pixies & PJ Harvey kinda’ guy — BSB was the enemy as far as I was concerned. But it was time to take the alt.rock chip off my shoulder and just embrace it! They were a phenomenon — and there’s no denying their pop cred. They were in a way starting over with this new album and tour, so it was a good place for them to be from a storytelling perspective. As far as how I got involved, the producer I made Scott Walker: 30 Century Man with, Mia Bays, had jumped on this as a producer and she more or less made me do it. I’m glad she did.

large.wnBIABTy6TCy1RO0XHEyNlcBf88ruE1atfUVtSnwd10Why are boy bands getting such a revisit in popular culture right now? NKOTB is back with their own reality show, and the BSB tour was hugely successful.

It’s a pendulum, there’s always going to be a revival moment and it seems like this is it. But it’s nice to see BSB getting love for their new tunes at concerts as well as the hits. They do put on a hell of a show. The fans have aged with them but they seem to still love a good scream. There has to be screaming.

Do you think music critics and musicians in general need to better

appreciate the music of the pre-millennial boy band era? Sort of like what happened to ABBA in the ‘90s? Or is this resurgence fun nostalgia for their aging fans?

A bit of both I think, but what I wasn’t prepared to experience was the level of craft they had mastered vocally. BSB always saw themselves as part of a tradition of vocal harmony groups — the boy band tag was a way to identify and market them, but these guys can really fucking sing.  So yes, I think a lot has gotten in the way of allowing them to be critically appreciated, but in their genre, they’re exemplary.  

large.dDf7zzF0UDrbzOiY86V18MzllcUSytGmeR-nAeihkk0The five band members are also executive producers on the film. Was that a challenge when it came to telling their story?

Not really. It’s like that on all films like this but they were trusting and yes, we had to navigate mountains of notes at times but we all feel like we made the film we wanted to make. It’s a bargain you strike when you take it on. There’s always going to be some compromise and negotiation, but that happens on any project.

What was the biggest challenge in getting the film shot? Things get pretty personal, plus the band was in hard-core rehearsal mode for what looks like much of the shoot.

The shot was more spread out than you might think. It wasn’t that challenging to be honest. I think the biggest challenge was to find the time to interview them—that was done during the rehearsal process and they were running behind and exhausted so time was short, but I think being fatigued helped me. Their guard was down. The emotional stuff, the road trip and all that, it was harder on them than it was on me. I was enjoying the process (but) that hometown stuff is the real heart of the film for me.

large.OgK_RjYE4DDFbfwDNZBNqX5eZWGTDlCv80fdYjhHdj0Was everyone totally on board once filming got underway, or did you have to work with the band to make sure you got what you needed to tell the story?

The film was their idea, so yeah, they were up for anything. 

How much of the narrative was laid in terms of what you wanted to tell? Were you often filming not knowing exactly what you were going to get?

That was the purpose of the hometown trips. It sounded corny on the surface but once we started doing it, there was surprising depth and emotion there. And then, of course, we never really knew what was going to happen with the album or the tour — there were actually quite a lot of unknowns that shaped how we told the story. The stuff we know about, the years when they were on top of the world, we compressed those into the smallest part of the film. I wanted to dig into the past and experience the present. 

large.Ms4vbl-v8BHSeeCVnuIDqkmKlQEP95dIoRRczRBWK98There is so much behind-the-scenes video footage of BSB back when they first got started. Did you know you’d have access to that from the start? Or did you discover all that content later?

We discovered it later. Howie (Dorough, one of the two native Floridian Backstreet Boys) ran into their old friend Kari Sellards on a plane right when we were starting. She worked for the band in the early days filming and photographing everything. She managed to get me mountains of photos and a box full of old Hi 8 video. She claims there’s even more stashed somewhere in her apartment but with what she gave us we were able to really experience their formative years in a way I don’t think any one has ever really seen. 

You show lots of the BSB fans that still show up when the guys are out, but we only see women in the film. Were there ever gay fanboys out and about along with the fangirls?

If you look carefully there’s a sequence of fans outside the London studio — there’s a few guys in that scene. It is predominantly women, but I must say BSB did a gig at Heaven in London during Pride and the room was heaving. The gay boys gave them a lot of love. It was a great show.

large.CcO82_R0g8K70PJPPBSVIpxfdpRYxxIf6Hl4YCVa2eIDo you think a gay director brings anything to the film that a straight guy or woman wouldn’t necessarily see?

Well, my producer is a woman and neither of us were fans so I think it was a unique perspective. I think some of the straight guys who were involved at the producing level may have thought, like I said, that the hometown trip would be corny and thought we shouldn’t do it, or were looking for an edgier, darker maybe slightly more ironic take on the band, but we just leaned into the emotion and took them for what they are — I mean, they are corny, a bit square, they’re not “cool” but they don’t pretend to be. But what does that even mean, really? Ultimately, it’s about story and character, and my philosophy is always to try and make a film in sympathy with your subject. That will guide you through it. 

The film goes into depth about BSB’s creation story and the rise and fall of the businessman who created them, Lou Pearlman. But the guys only tell about his financial mismanagement, and do not delve into the sexual misconduct allegations that were also part of his downfall. Was that a conscious choice? Why not talk about that if everything else was on the table?

We did talk about it in interviews but it yielded nothing. Honestly, they really didn’t divulge anything. We didn’t shy away from it, but if you really track the story from their point of view, and ‘N SYNC say the same thing, that they never experienced anything to the degree that others have claimed in later years. Are they just protecting each other? I don’t know. But it’s all there in print for people to read if they want more dirt on that front. I mean, Howie cops to watching porn at Lou’s house. I know everyone wants something salacious on that front, but that’s all we got. 

So because Queerty is in some ways not unlike a teen magazine from the ’90s, who do you think is the most dreamy BSB? And the second most dreamy? And why? Please answer as earnestly as possible.

My professional relationship with BSB prevents me from answering such questions.

Jeremy Kinser

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Twitter Explodes Over Video of One Direction's Louis Tomlinson Allegedly Saying 'I'm Gay' – WATCH

Twitter Explodes Over Video of One Direction's Louis Tomlinson Allegedly Saying 'I'm Gay' – WATCH

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One Direction bandmates Liam Payne and Louis Tomlinson spent Valentine’s Day together in Australia, but its a Vine video of the two drunkenly stumbling into their hotel last night that has Twitter afire. 

Vocativ writes:

Tomlinson1Last night a One Direction fan, who calls herself Amber Almighty, posted a Vine video of band member Louis Tomlinson. The shaky audio from this video is nearly impossible to understand. However, Amber claims the singer said “I’m gay, it’s pretty unfortunate,” (which she later slowed down and changed to “I’m gay, it’s pretty important.”)

As a result of the video, the hashtag #ImGayItsPrettyUnfortunate is currently trending worldwide. Tomlinson has yet to respond to the video or hashtag, but if his reactions to previous instances of speculation about his sexuality are any indication, he won’t take this well

See both videos for yourself and decide, AFTER THE JUMP


Kyler Geoffroy

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Shape Up: The Elusive Travel Workout

Shape Up: The Elusive Travel Workout

Carlos-location-logoEverybody travels. Well, most people travel. Be it for work, pleasure, vacation, epic adventuring… most people leave the comfort of their personal bubble to visit another location. It might be for a couple days, a few weeks, or months at a time, but regardless the length of time it usually means certain death for our workout routines; they get thrown out the window.

If you work out in a gym, suddenly you don’t have access to all that precious equipment. If you run around the neighborhood, suddenly you have to run… somewhere else. The list goes on.

For the fitness oriented, we’re used to adapting to varying routines, and can most likely improvise workouts with little to no equipment at our disposal. But for those just starting a new, more fitness-focused approach to life, a simple trip two states away can throw away all the progress they’ve made. I can’t count the number of times a client or gym member has asked me how to keep their workouts going while they travel. 

So I’ve made a list. Let this be a quick introduction, if you will, to working out on the go. The list is broken out into workouts you can complete with just your body weight, workouts you can complete if you have access to a pull-up bar, and finally workouts you can complete with access to a jump rope, rings, and/or a pull-up bar. 

Enjoy!

Body Weight Only:

Complete 1-2 workouts per day from the list below in your hotel room.

Room Service: 20 rounds timed of 5 pushups, 5 squats, 5 sit-ups.

Shake the Walls: 10 rounds timed of 10-second handstand holds, 10 squats.

Give Me Ten: 10 rounds timed of 10 walking lunges, 10 pushups.

Ab Meltdown: 100-75-50-25 reps of sit-ups, flutter kicks (4 count), leg levers.

Stay On Track: 10-9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1 reps of burpees, sit-ups.

Ouch: 20-16-12-8-4 reps of one-arm pushups, pistol squats.

Deck of Cards: Face cards are 10, aces are 11, numbered cards as valued. Flip each card and perform the movement and the number of reps specified. Cycle through the whole deck. Hearts: Burpees, Diamonds: Mountain Climbers, Spades: Flutter Kicks, Clubs: Squats.

Pull-Up Bar: 

Workouts with access to a pull-up bar.  Complete 1 workout per day from the list below.

The Reckoning: Run 1 mile, 100 burpees, 100 pull-ups, 100 knees-to-elbows.

Boot Camp: 100 burpee pull-ups.

Catching the L: 21-18-15-12-9-6-3 reps of squats, L-pull-ups, knees-to-elbows.

Jump Rope, Rings and/or Pull-up Bar:

Complete 1 workout per day from the list below.

Death By Ring Dip: 21-15-9 reps of ring push-ups, ring dips.

Ready to Jump: 5 rounds of 50 squats, 100 jump rope.

Ivan the Terrible: 50-40-30-20-10 reps of lunges, pushups, sit-ups, jump rope.  Rest 90 seconds between rounds.

The Phoenix Effecta metabolic bootcamp that gets you in shape fast, is offered exclusively at Mansion Fitness, 7914 Santa Monica Blvd., West Hollywood.

Jeremy Kinser

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