Florida Is Still Trying To Prevent Start Of Marriage Next Week

Florida Is Still Trying To Prevent Start Of Marriage Next Week

florida fightThe only thing that anyone can agree on about marriage in Florida is that they all disagree with each other.

For now, it’s impossible to predict exactly what’s going to happen on January 6th, when a federal ruling that the state’s marriage ban is unconstitutional finally goes into effect. Marriage might become legal across the state, or it might become legal in just one or two counties, or it might flicker in and out of legality like a confused lightning bug.

That’s because everyone seems to have a different interpretation about what exactly is unconstitutional, and what the state is supposed to do about it. According to the federal judge (who really should be the final authority on the matter), the marriage ban is unconstitutional, period, end of story. But according to the clerks, that doesn’t matter — the law is still on the books, even if it’s unconstitutional, so they have to follow it.

Yes, that is a crazy claim, and we are in disbelief that they’re even proposing it. Where else but Florida?

So for now, the overwhelming majority of Florida clerks are planning to refuse to issue licenses on the 6th. But if they really make good on that threat, they may be setting themselves up for trouble: groups like the ACLU and NCLR say that to refuse to issue the licenses constitutes contempt of court, and the clerks could get in even bigger trouble if they turn couples away.

What a freaking mess.

And this is exhibit one for why the Supreme Court needs to get involved here and issue a nationwide ruling that marriage bans are unconstitutional. Until that happens, every little government official from one end of the country to the other is going to have their own opinion about who can get married. Fortunately, it looks like the Supreme Court has realized just how ridiculous things are getting: they’ve announced that they’re going to meet next week to decide whether to take a marriage case. It’ll be months — at the earliest — before they can rule, but hopefully they’ll end all this confusion before summer.

Now, if only all of Florida’s problems could be solved so easily.

matt baume

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Connor Maguire, Damien Crosse and the Men of Men.com Read Mean Tweets About Themselves: VIDEO

Connor Maguire, Damien Crosse and the Men of Men.com Read Mean Tweets About Themselves: VIDEO

Maguire

Back in August gay adult entertainment site Men.com took a cue from Jimmy Kimmel and shared a video of Colby Keller, Jimmy Fanz, Paddy O’Brien and more of their actors reading mean tweets about themselves.

This week the studio dropped a holiday edition featuring Connor Maguire, Mike de Marko, Damien Crosse, Johnny Rapid, Colby Jansen, Jessy Ares, Paul Walker, and Jarec Wentworth.

See what they had to share from the trolls who came for their packages, AFTER THE JUMP

(warning:work-unfriendly language)


Andy Towle

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Nigerian Expatriate Turned LGBT Activist Sees Anti-Homosexuality Laws As An Opportunity for Change

Nigerian Expatriate Turned LGBT Activist Sees Anti-Homosexuality Laws As An Opportunity for Change

Alimi

In 2004 in an appearance on “New Dawn with Funmi,” a morning talk show program on Nigeria’s largest television network, Adebisi Alimi announced to the world that he was gay. The 29 year-old was an aspiring stage performer studying acting at the University of Lagos and, facing blackmail, he made the decision to come out.

The fallout following his announcement nearly ruined his life. Shunned by friends and family, Alimi was repeatedly harassed by law enforcement and left the country after an attempt on his life. In spite of the hardship that he’s faced, however, he sees his time in Nigeria as having been invaluable.

“My story is not a story of a victim,” he told the BBC in 2007. “It’s a human story.”  

Since then Alimi’s become a vocal LGBT-rights activist and HIV educator based out of the United Kingdom. In an interview with NPR’s Goats & Soda Alimi explained his complex relationship to his home country particularly in light of a version of the draconian anti-homosexuality bill currently working its way through many African countries’ legislative systems. In Alimi’s opinion Nigeria’s anti-homosexuality bill will be, in the long term, a boom to the fight for LGBT equality.

“I see the law as a catalyst for change for good in Nigeria,” he explained. “You don’t understand what it is like to fight a beast that you cannot see.”

Nigeria“Before the signing of that law, between 95 and 98 percent of Nigerians were in support of it. The latest poll says 88 percent of Nigerians now support the law.

That’s a 10 percent drop. Some people who are not LGBT are now saying, ‘Did we just support a law that criminalizes people … for falling in love?. [When] you see that your uncle or cousin is gay, it kind of changes the conversation.”

Check out the fulll interview here

And watch Adebisi Alimi’s TEDxBerlin talk about the next steps in fighting the HIV/AIDS crisis in Africa AFTER THE JUMP

 


Charles Pulliam-Moore

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Think You Know Where Gay Marriage Mecca Is? Vote Now For Your Chance To Win A Trip For Two

Think You Know Where Gay Marriage Mecca Is? Vote Now For Your Chance To Win A Trip For Two

Madrid Gay Pride ParadeSame-sex marriage rights are finally beginning to find some momentum, and that can only mean one thing — wonderfully lavish gay weddings.

But even though we can now get married in the likes of Las Vegas to Sacramento, that doesn’t mean you should.

San Francisco is one obvious destination wedding locale, but then again Paris doesn’t sound half bad either.

Even though Australia doesn’t recognize full marriage equality, that’s not stopping more than a few couples from tying the the knot in Sydney, though many also flock to London for a prim and proper union.

Of course you could always head off to Madrid or Buenos Aires to give your nuptials that extra flair.

But which city comes out on top?

Vote for your favorite nominee–or write in your own–in the 2014 Best of GayCities. Just sign into your GayCities account and make your selections. You’ll automatically be entered into the prize sweepstakes.

Polls close January 5. You must be a US resident to win the prize. See the complete rules.

Dan Tracer

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